Some misunderstanding between Maan

The way this show is heading, i am sure that they would slowly make Anuj vulnerable mentally and now that anupama is a daadi and has the daada on her side, she would be close to Shah family because of kinjal and baby and that could be taken in a negative sense by the kapadia's.

This dynamics would be a testing phase for Maan.

Before accident Anuj was very much adapting to the fact that anupama has her responsibilities as a mother, mother in law and grandmother.

Now that Anuj is relying heavily on Anupama's for Emotional support, their relationship would be tested.

This track could be made good with good writing and logic.

Let's hope something good would come now.

On a funny note CA is now a BUA 😃😂 to a little baby girl.

I would love to see them together in some scenes.

Anuj is justified in feeling left out and emotionally vulnerable. The man is on wheelchair. This is the time he needs constant mental support and attention from his partner the most but Anu as usual will put his needs on the back seat to care for a baby who has parents and a big extended family in the name of duties. Anu always have duties towards Shah family. Even during Anuj's life death situation she did not forget to call Kinjal to ask her whether she took her medicines and made sure Baa Bapuji take their meds. She was defending V even without knowing the full truth. But today she was busy shaking hands with V and hugging him forgetting she left her daughter and paralyzed husband at home. Anuj needs to slowly mentally distance himself from her. He should be emotionally independent and strong for his daughter.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anuj is justified in feeling left out and emotionally vulnerable. The man is on wheelchair. This is the time he needs constant mental support and attention from his partner the most

That's true, this is the time she should be with him. Now that the makers are showing effects of his paralysis too.

but Anu as usual will put his needs on the back seat to care for a baby who has parents and a big extended family in the name of duties. Anu always have duties towards Shah family.

Frankly speaking it is annoying. Anupama's duties should be towards her mother, brother, children and her husband and daughter. Not that of Shah's.

Vanraj is married, his wife needs to take care of the responsibilities.

This is actually making Anupama emotionally vulnerable with baggage of her past. I mean even the children are grown up. Atleast Toshu can be shown independent without his mother. And kinjal, why can't she for sometime rely on rakhi?

That is humiliation for Rakhi as a mother.

Even during Anuj's life death situation she did not forget to call Kinjal to ask her whether she took her medicines and made sure Baa Bapuji take their meds. She was defending V even without knowing the full truth. But today she was busy shaking hands with V and hugging him forgetting she left her daughter and paralyzed husband at home. Anuj needs to slowly mentally distance himself from her. He should be emotionally independent and strong for his daughter.

@bold,

The writers of this need must visit hospital before writing anything. That track was lame.

Frankly speaking Anuj ko shadi karke koi fayda nai hua hai. Infact unki toh jaan par ban aayi vanraj ki wajah se. If this is the love he was waiting for 26 years, it's not worth it.

Now he will have to be for CA and himself alone and there is hundred percent chances that anupama will be devoting her time to kinju baby and her baby.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

But today she was busy shaking hands with V and hugging him forgetting she left her daughter and paralyzed husband at home.

For a moment it can be justified, chalo mana khushi thi par baad bein vanraj was taking the chance with her again. Is she so stupid or blind to see his intentions.

Anuj needs to slowly mentally distance himself from her. He should be emotionally independent and strong for his daughter.

I think for some minutes or one or two episodes makers will show that emotional detachment of Anuj.

I really want Anuj to care for his daughter now.

For CA future not anything else.

Also the makers of this show needs to stop showing Anuj getting injured or on death bed every two months. It's annoying.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anuj is justified in feeling left out and emotionally vulnerable. The man is on wheelchair. This is the time he needs constant mental support and attention from his partner the most but Anu as usual will put his needs on the back seat to care for a baby who has parents and a big extended family in the name of duties. Anu always have duties towards Shah family. Even during Anuj's life death situation she did not forget to call Kinjal to ask her whether she took her medicines and made sure Baa Bapuji take their meds. She was defending V even without knowing the full truth. But today she was busy shaking hands with V and hugging him forgetting she left her daughter and paralyzed husband at home. Anuj needs to slowly mentally distance himself from her. He should be emotionally independent and strong for his daughter.

While I agree Anu is quite unhealthily attached to the Shahs (Baa and Vanraj), I have to disagree here. Anupama left choti Anu and Anuj with GK and servants. So why should she think about them and worry about them? Giving birth is one of the most painful experiences of one's life. Why wouldn't Kinjal need her presence, and why do we fault Anupama for prioritising her in this instance? Moreover, your child having their own baby is also one of the happiest moments of one's life (as my grandparents have said). Of course Anupama will be overwhelmed with joy and relief. I mean we can't expect her to rush out of the hospital to Anuj and choti Anu the moment the baby was born?

Originally posted by: Potato_couch

While I agree Anu is quite unhealthily attached to the Shahs (Baa and Vanraj), I have to disagree here. Anupama left choti Anu and Anuj with GK and servants. So why should she think about them and worry about them? Giving birth is one of the most painful experiences of one's life. Why wouldn't Kinjal need her presence, and why do we fault Anupama for prioritising her in this instance? Moreover, your child having their own baby is also one of the happiest moments of one's life (as my grandparents have said). Of course Anupama will be overwhelmed with joy and relief. I mean we can't expect her to rush out of the hospital to Anuj and choti Anu the moment the baby was born?

GK is 75 years old. He needs to be taken care of and not vice versa. Anu was selfish to leave Anuj and CA with the three Kapadia snakes who are ready to harm them at any given instances.

Kinjal must be the only woman in the world to want her MIL by her side during delivery. I craved for my mother during my delivery and my mother is also a working woman. But Kinjal has officially made all working mom look evil.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Anuj is justified in feeling left out and emotionally vulnerable. The man is on wheelchair. This is the time he needs constant mental support and attention from his partner the most but Anu as usual will put his needs on the back seat to care for a baby who has parents and a big extended family in the name of duties. Anu always have duties towards Shah family. Even during Anuj's life death situation she did not forget to call Kinjal to ask her whether she took her medicines and made sure Baa Bapuji take their meds. She was defending V even without knowing the full truth. But today she was busy shaking hands with V and hugging him forgetting she left her daughter and paralyzed husband at home. Anuj needs to slowly mentally distance himself from her. He should be emotionally independent and strong for his daughter.

Oh yeah of course Anu left her husband who was fighting to his life for 15-20 days and went and chilled with the shahs right? Or did she not spend day in and night personally caring for Anuj when he was in coma and wasn’t responding? Taking care of all of his needs? Bathing, shaving, looking after him, her younger daughter, his business etc and handling his vile relatives etc? Day in and night? Oh of course yeah right… she was out partying and chilling or maybe serving the shahs huh? Was it not Anu who was completely hesitant on inviting shahs or rebuilding the relationship again? Oh yeah it was Anu who called and invited the shahs? Or was it not Anu who was hesitant to leave Anuj and choti Anu today and constantly looked back at Anuj and was in a conundrum.. until she got the approval, then she left. Again with this fd , we are jumping into conclusions. Of course we are. This forum is so so so biased. Why am I even surprised.

There is difference between getting close to vanra ajd sharing equal happiness with vanraj . Anupama is celebrating happy moments with vanraj not getting close with vanraj

And why would anupama would get close to vanraj intact she never get close to vanraj . Celebrating and talking with vanraj that does not mean she loves vanraj she loves anuj only

Even she put cloth on CCTV camera that no one should come in their ( maan) personal moment jub CCTV camera mein cloth daala then we can understand anuj hi anupama ka, pyaar hai

Hum log apne apne samajh sakte hain ji anupama ne CCTV ko cloth se cover kyon kiya

Agreed Anuj needs his partners support during his recovery, but I don’t think it was wrong of Anupama going with Kinjal when she is in labor. Leela is 70+, Pakhi is a teen and Kavya has no experience with pregnancy. So Anupamaa supporting Kinjal now is logical. I don’t want to speculate what ifs right now. I will comment on it if and when they show Anupamaa prioritizing Kinjal and her baby over Anuj and CA. As there I agree Kinjal has her husband, mother and her in-laws to take care of her and Anupamaa should not be shown going back to SH even if Anuj recovers miraculously.

Actually I have different take.

Anuj was always a giver in this relationship even as a friend as when he loves/cares for someone they come into his heart not only in his life/house.

There had been moments where he left out of her life and not being appreciated even as a business partner, friend, Bf and fiancee. He actually openly said about this during pregnancy wedding celebration, where he acknowledged he won't be a priority for her, he understands and it hurts him, she did acknowledge saying she will try balancing it.

Like said Anuj/Anu, never process anything as Anu was never given time and Anuj is scared of allowing feelings overwhelm him, he will allow himself to feel in a controlled manner. Both are always occupied, when individuals slow down mind in life, they think or remember or feel more without anything to distract them. So the guilt, helplessness and especially the burden of being taken care of overshadows the equality in their relationship which is heavy for him

He always acknowledge her as a human and checking on her. Remind me, she never assured him really, as she keeps running to SF, and no matter how strong their relationship is they need assurance once in a while which rarely happens, as her priorities are never solidified, as of yet. Bad writing as makers flip flop her while I feel she priorities Anuj/CA but makers.

This with Any/V inconsistent behavios, with physical boundaries need to be addressed, side hug is no biggie but in this case this couple should give high five or a small nod, Period. Him joining call is OTT, it was Maan moment, he already said h doesnt know what it means to be a grandfather.

This is an opportunity moment for Maan to really have heart to heart without Anu singing they need me song, and actually Listening to him, also Anuj need to stop go when u are called nonsense.