Divorce Ho jana chahiye - Page 13

Thanks for tagging me on some great reviews here . The episode was not bad in itself but I think the fear of what might happen and knowing the track record of pH in surrogacy track makes me nervous and anxious . There is a change in the writing style and going by that I won’t be surprised if tomorrow Virat destroys the last memories of Sai and decides to move on with Pakhi . It doesn’t matter if he succeeds or not but the fact that he thought to move on is enough to damage Sairat relationship. I realized we are attached to Sairat so we found it outrageous and eventually accept it like how we accepted VP marriage .

For TRP audiences , it’s gives a kick to see Sai vs Pakhi fighting for the same man and seeing Pakhi lose at the last minute might give some satisfaction but in all these the actions of the man is ignored who happily gave up on his first wife . Isn’t it what happened in the surrogacy track , Sai only blamed Pakhi while giving clean chit to Virat . Same will happen now .

We need to accept that Virat is irrelevant in this story who is there to create drama between two women and his purpose is served when he does that . He will not be held responsible for any of actions or not much thought will be given to his actions . High time we accept it’s not Sairat story but it’s Sai fighting for her kids and Pakhi fighting for her husband and kid .

If it was Sairat story we would have seen ML behaving as per ITV standards but here they are setting new standards for ML . Few small gestures are enough to convey the real feelings of a man who cannot move on . Refusing to share a room at the pretext of taking care of a special child , refusing to give Pakhi rights like doing aarti with him or Tikak or serving him food . These small gestures convey a lot but here he behaves as if he is guilty of remembering his wife and feels bad for his complex wife . Did he marry Pakhi with a promise that he will eventually move on with her or he made it clear that he cannot move on and it’s a sham .

Fake marriage would give some hope that he never intended to move on but I am sure Vankar will never show that

Do we have two discussion threads? What's happening?

Originally posted by: sadiltl

Yes 😂. I least expected this from virat 😆

I too feel the do pariwaar will play out. The stress will drive Virat crazy.

But for how long? The drama begins only when Sai is back in C Niwas.

She already knows Sairat had planned to call the baby Saavi if it had been a girl.

Jiska miscarriage hua... vo wale time pe.

She used to do watchman duty na... use sab details Pata the

I can only say .. expect only the worst .. they love and will serve cringe .. though I don’t know why they got kids here .. to pray to bappa to give them happy families

Originally posted by: msin

I can only say .. expect only the worst .. they love and will serve cringe .. though I don’t know why they got kids here .. to pray to bappa to give them happy families

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Originally posted by: NoraSM

Let me put it this way

Every character is hypocritical and real, you'd think they have been butchered if you are expecting only good from them

Since everyone knows Virat's flaws let me present Sai's flaws

1) She is mad at him for not coming after her but is that enough to hide his daughter from him? If you never want him to be near his daughter then Sai being the RIGHTEOUS one would file for divorce and custody of the child, Judge will always give verdict in mother's favor, especially when its a girl child

Did she do the "Right" thing by hiding?

You are putting your ego above your child's happiness and wishes that young one keeps crying for her father everyday

2) Is it good parenting to let a child roam in jungles where we have seen that she was in vicinity of venomous snakes?

3) She left house saying she doesn't want Pakhi around her son but her daughter is best friends with a murderer and molester

There are flaws in everyone, its just that people see themselves in Sai so they generally don't discuss her flaws

There's so much hate for Virat being with Pakhi but I saw a comment saying how Pakhi's crimes are bigger than that of Jagtap, everyone who wants to see the "Right" thing in the show, is not objecting to this dynamic between a molester and her victim, why?

Because none really cares about social issues and right/wrong while watching a television shows😆 everyone is biased towards their favorite character/actor

Nora! I see virat as a person who compromises to make things work. The only person he didn’t compromise with is sai. He went against everyone to be with her! Even in surrogacy we can understand his emotions..he was operating as a father and a man who wanted a kid with his beloved wife. Though it is this descion of his that spiraled into a big mess.

The problem is that his commitment to sai, especially when she is dead. Atleast now he should have left pakhi alone: why only pakhi? We might get answers later. But I don’t see any convincing reason he might have. If you go by the original, Rono’s character might never do this. You might feel I am obsessed with KD but that’s how a character should be written. You know that this person cannot do certain things. That’s missing here.

Coming to jagtaps change of heart. It is more realistic than virat’s decision to marry pakhi. Jail changes hardcore criminals. That’s why you don’t hang people just like that unless the crime is unnatural and the perpetrators have the potential to cause further damage. Justice system believes in change.

sai has another quality of estimating people correctly. She would not have forgiven jagtap so easily. She has that insight into reading people. She is an intelligent person: virat’s intelligence is muddled by his emotions. He can’t see things clearly. He will eventually do the right thing not instantly which is sais forte.

So yeah sais actions can be understood but no amount of reasoning can make me understand why he married pakhi. That’s why I asked if there is any chance to see this action of his in a new light.

Originally posted by: nethraa_99

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Originally posted by: nethraa_99

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