What qualities do guys look for? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Enchanted1

guys just want a really good looking girl with a hot bod!!!her personality can be really bad,but they wouldnt mind!!!!

i dun think now-a-days guys do such things. even guys want to capture the whole charactor of girl first. they want to noe each and everything related to her, wt she like and not, her friends and blah blah. but i am talking about those guys who are serios about their relatioships😊

most of the boys like to flirt.they first want beautiful and hot bod girls.then when they realise that its over then they go and mix with another.
stupid boys..
a girl needs only a boy with good character who understands her.but its really very hard to find a true one.

i guess im too young to make that kind of statement(im only 15)but i have met a lot of guys(frends,brother,cousines,uncles,strangers)and thats the message that i get...o well!!!thats just my opinion,the day i meet a guy thats different then i will believ what u guys say!!!

i dont know wat to comment i m just 16 n still single!!!!!!!hehehe!!but all i can say i hv seen in my group my guys frnds n even female flirting so its 1-1....in our group most of them flirt but the boys know d value of gals!n they know when they'll find some1 rite for dem they'll be loyal.....

its not true dat boys doesn't choose fat or skinny gal!i hv seen such pair in my school,very much in love!!!!!
its true face matters but face matters only for an instance not any relationship!!!

love
nihita

well i dun agreetht all boys like only beautiful gals...
coz 2 b honest i hv a really close frnd of mine(a boy) n hez different frm otherz... although i cant say abt his relationships.. but wat i knw is tht he never goes by looks.
ther r sum boys who prefer character n personality more than outer beauty..but ya majority of boys do prefer outer beauty..that im sure

It really depends. Many of us are searching, but searching for the wrong thing. we are confused, because we are attracted to a 'sexy' girl on one hand, but then we really are not satisfied with her. Even there may be sex, but what good is sex? Its really not that great. Making love to a girl you really love can be amazing, but looks are not important. really very empty
A beautiful person can have a very ugly heart
A person who is not so physically attractive can have a very ugly heart. And you live with the heart.
So when you ask this question it depends
There are many guys who beleive they are searching for a sexy woman to be with, but really this is like saying i want Food that Looks good. what about the taste? It can look very good but taste bad, or even be poisonous. Look at all the beautiful animals that are poisonous.
This is due to our instincts and society/ culture(lack of culture). If the boy gets no love from his mother, he will only want to use the girl. There will be lots of passion and lust, but not much love. Lust can turn into love.. Love is really about acceptance.
So after searching and searching for good looking girls and finding the truth of the matter they may realize they just want a relation with someone who is compassionate and nice, who cares and listens and Accepts them.
I used to look for 'sexy girls'. but theres no point. I have realized they are mostly emtpy. Its not really their fault though, its mostly the parents. but there comes a time where we must take responsibiltiy for ourselves, no? become a litte more aware, of what it is we really need.
"get what you need and be happy
Chase what you desire and be miserable"
Now i realize sure, maybe sometimes a sexy girl can get my attention for a little while, but its usually very empty, theres a physical attraction, but that is so insignificant compared to really deep love, acceptance.
good luck everyone