Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #39 - Page 113

Originally posted by: DazzlingLight

I watched a couple of episodes last week and then a couple this week (After reading all the postes here, seemed like I saved myself some trauma 😆) I’m convinced that this show has been written only for Ram’s character. Everyone else is only to highlight his moments..be it happiness, anger, sadness etc. The goal of the makers is to make everyone who loved Pri’s character or RaYa as a couple shift to Ram’s side. There is absolutely nothing given to Pri that helps the audience understand and relate to what’s been going on with her all these years, or what’s the driving force behind her actions. Everything about her since the leap (and even before on a lot many occasions) has been very surface level while Ram’s pain gets explored through the eyes of every character 😡.

One fine day when the entire FD sings ‘Ram Ram jai raja Ram’ in one voice, the makers will have achieved their goal and the show will end. How utterly disappointing!

Yes...absolutely true! The show makers think bringing out the ML angst and hurt and pain is all that matters to get TRPs, which anyway they don't get! They have really been very very unfair with Priya's character sketch. And to think there are females, both producer and writers who are at the helm of this show. One would think they would know how to do justice to a wonderful female character like Priya, who was so relatable, unique and unlike the usual ITV FLs when the show was launched. Anyway one day they will show her POV in a rushed manner, there will be tears and then all patch-up or pack-up time. But that will be too little too late😔

Originally posted by: DazzlingLight

I watched a couple of episodes last week and then a couple this week (After reading all the postes here, seemed like I saved myself some trauma 😆) I’m convinced that this show has been written only for Ram’s character. Everyone else is only to highlight his moments..be it happiness, anger, sadness etc. The goal of the makers is to make everyone who loved Pri’s character or RaYa as a couple shift to Ram’s side. There is absolutely nothing given to Pri that helps the audience understand and relate to what’s been going on with her all these years, or what’s the driving force behind her actions. Everything about her since the leap (and even before on a lot many occasions) has been very surface level while Ram’s pain gets explored through the eyes of every character 😡.

One fine day when the entire FD sings ‘Ram Ram jai raja Ram’ in one voice, the makers will have achieved their goal and the show will end. How utterly disappointing!

So true Dazzles!!!!

The amount of bashing Priya gets makes me soooo angry but what angers me even more is that the show actively encourages it!!

Like Vaidhu said, they should make a show where every character is performed by ML. Only then will the audience be satisfied (and I'll stop feeling this feral rage).

You know what, let Priya and Ram officially divorce, get Pihu's joint custody. Let Ram and Priya find love again. At least Pihu will have a healthier childhood this way and it'll be a 'mature love story'. 🤔

I guess during Dobara promotions they might reveal something - either Nandu faking her illness or Pihu being Ram’s daughter or maybe it’s just me being hopeful again 🤣

https://youtu.be/itCFXaD9qpM

Originally posted by: smriti81

Yes...absolutely true! The show makers think bringing out the ML angst and hurt and pain is all that matters to get TRPs, which anyway they don't get! They have really been very very unfair with Priya's character sketch. And to think there are females, both producer and writers who are at the helm of this show. One would think they would know how to do justice to a wonderful female character like Priya, who was so relatable, unique and unlike the usual ITV FLs when the show was launched. Anyway one day they will show her POV in a rushed manner, there will be tears and then all patch-up or pack-up time. But that will be too little too late😔

I agree. Makers have butchered Priya’s character when in the beginning she was the USP of this show. Someone like her taking such a decision has huge repercussions but forget exploring her angst, they are not even giving her proper scenes. We see how Ram is heartbroken and all but few scenes where she doesn’t swoon on Ram and reflects on what she had done and why. That would make Priya relatable. Instead they are making audience bash her calling her insensitive and what not. It’s entirely makers fault.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I agree. Makers have butchered Priya’s character when in the beginning she was the USP of this show. Someone like her taking such a decision has huge repercussions but forget exploring her angst, they are not even giving her proper scenes. We see how Ram is heartbroken and all but few scenes where she doesn’t swoon on Ram and reflects on what she had done and why. That would make Priya relatable. Instead they are making audience bash her calling her insensitive and what not. It’s entirely makers fault.

You know the saddest part is she reminded me so much of Kashaf in the beginning of the show...her deep, heartbreaking monologues about her father, not being able to trust men, being so afraid to fall in love with Ram, reprimanding herself when she gave in. I still remember her feeling bashful and shy after succumbing to Ram's 'Shower-wali baarish' because she enjoyed to so much and gave in to him; reflecting on what will he think of me...cause she was so afraid he would know she is changing. Oh boy...I could go on and on...how I miss that girl! That is why it annoys me so much when I see what they have done to her!

I agree that she was really heartbroken yesterday after Ram's outburst (Disha did a fantastic job there) and she felt his pain truly for the first time. But how could they just move to the 'all is well' breakfast table scene after that. Why no reflection, no monologue, not even a silent crying session after putting Pihu to bed, or showing some restlessness on her part! And I really don't expect anything further from this scene till the makers are ready to show her side of the story. The idiots do not understand that you kill the emotions, the momentum, the efficacy of the scene if the reactions come as an after thought.

They are doing such a great job of showing Ram-Pihu bonding on one hand ( yesterday's hair braiding scene was both so adorable and touching) so its not like they are not capable of doing a good job, they just drag stuff to create more drama. And that I hate...

Sneak peek for today

https://youtu.be/mqKerdb6kmY

has Brinda lost it entirely? She is telling Priya she will pukka dress like Ram. According to Ram’s friends barring Vikrant, Priya is with Krish. So won’t she dress like him? Brinda was a fan favourite supporting character. If Aanchal left the show coz she wasn’t happy with her character development, y did she come back to this?

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

Sneak peek for today

https://youtu.be/mqKerdb6kmY

has Brinda lost it entirely? She is telling Priya she will pukka dress like Ram. According to Ram’s friends barring Vikrant, Priya is with Krish. So won’t she dress like him? Brinda was a fan favourite supporting character. If Aanchal left the show coz she wasn’t happy with her character development, y did she come back to this?

Who invited Krish like aisa lag rha hai school ke do bacho me dosti krwa the hai.

Originally posted by: smriti81

You know the saddest part is she reminded me so much of Kashaf in the beginning of the show...her deep, heartbreaking monologues about her father, not being able to trust men, being so afraid to fall in love with Ram, reprimanding herself when she gave in. I still remember her feeling bashful and shy after succumbing to Ram's 'Shower-wali baarish' because she enjoyed to so much and gave in to him; reflecting on what will he think of me...cause she was so afraid he would know she is changing. Oh boy...I could go on and on...how I miss that girl! That is why it annoys me so much when I see what they have done to her!

I agree that she was really heartbroken yesterday after Ram's outburst (Disha did a fantastic job there) and she felt his pain truly for the first time. But how could they just move to the 'all is well' breakfast table scene after that. Why no reflection, no monologue, not even a silent crying session after putting Pihu to bed, or showing some restlessness on her part! And I really don't expect anything further from this scene till the makers are ready to show her side of the story. The idiots do not understand that you kill the emotions, the momentum, the efficacy of the scene if the reactions come as an after thought.

They are doing such a great job of showing Ram-Pihu bonding on one hand ( yesterday's hair braiding scene was both so adorable and touching) so its not like they are not capable of doing a good job, they just drag stuff to create more drama. And that I hate...

I agree with everything you have said here. And that's the reason I am more angry at Priya or should I say the makers for ruining her character. Yes I am mad at her for lying to Ram but there should have been more scenes - Like Priya breaking down for having said that lie. Instead she has a monologue with her unborn child. Yes that was beautiful too but it should have been followed by a breakdown first. If Ram never got to know about her pregnancy, her jail wala monologue made sense. But here she broke him completely saying the baby is not yours. For once could she not think of the pain on his face? Then post leap, her feeling happy reflecting on his success. But this is the same man who lost his sister partly coz of ur family. Where is that guilt? She also knew the kind of person Ram is. Did she really think he will be happy moving on with someone like Vedika after knowing that woman called Pihu, a thief's daughter? Y did makers turn Priya into a delusional fool? Audience will only react to what they see and sadly thats why Priya is being bashed. If u see even here in IF, the reason why most of us are angry on Priya - is because there is no monologue highlighting her guilt for separating Ram and Pihu. She feels happy seeing them share these moments - fine, that is natural. But y is it not followed by guilt that even though it is real, Ram thinks its not coz of her lie? Instead they make her say things like "Yeah it was all for this deal". Ram is a proud man and he does not want to admit this affects him but Priya should defo be able to see through this. Heck, Vikrant knows that Ram is genuinely bonding with Pihu and somewhere Priya too knows this. But the next instant makers give her a dialogue which butchers her character even further. This is a cosmic mess.

Originally posted by: Usg95

Who invited Krish like aisa lag rha hai school ke do bacho me dosti krwa the hai.

I understand Vikrant being cordial with Krish coz he knows the truth but y has he called him to the party? He clearly knows how Ram feels about him and that too the party is in KM

Originally posted by: Usg95

Who invited Krish like aisa lag rha hai school ke do bacho me dosti krwa the hai.

Ram would be friends with Krish and Pihu now 🤣. While Priya is the only one on the sidelines 🤪