Both are badly written. Raavi when is badly written in a scene, she is potrayed as stupid and someone who is incapable of doing anything right.
Shiva when badly written comes out as someone who is aggressive and disrespectful towards his wife.
The worst part? No closer of tracks. Many of you are writers. A phase of hatred has to be followed by a phase of yearning, realisation and passionate love. And since the angst was mostly written from Shiva's pov, it will be expected from his character.
Which character will bear the brunt of bad writing more?
And not to mention suman who is also badly written. Flips as per her convenience. Who has had some really questionable dlgs. When shiva stays silent in such scenes, it potrays him in a bad light.
And talking about raavi's offensive dlgs, if i start writing about Shiva's offensive dlgs over the months then i would need a separate post for that. Yehi problem hai, a lot of imbalance in their love story. Naturally when i watch the episodes regularly i will be inclined towards raavi more.