Originally posted by: Talis
Pure hearted? More like dim witted and self absorbed. She should have known he was in love with the person he'd been writing to for 15 years. Every time he questioned her about how different she was from their correspondence she knew enough to change the subject - so not wholly dim witted. She couldn't be bothered to e-mail him once in 15 years but when she saw he was hot (and rich) then she wanted him. She had only known Raj for 2 weeks as an adult when she accepts his parents marrying him to her - all the while knowing anything they had between them was based on a lie. She confesses days (or maybe just a day) before the wedding she didn't write to him - and does it publicly like it's no big deal. Meanwhile she kept pushing Pooja toward Uday - what kind of friend does that? 😆 She was a self obsessed diva and a terrible friend to Pooja until the very last ridiculous moment when she grew some self awareness and a conscience.
Agreed …also I got a slight hint always that she thought pooja was “less interesting / hot/ desirable “ than her …
Like their conversation abt marriage and she says She’s gonna have a love marriage …and she asks pooja if she ever fell in love with raj but then dosent let her speak and says “ur a good girl …U will just marry where ur parents tell u to”…as if pooja can’t fall in love or what lol…god forbid with a hot guy …
She never bothered to ask or follow up with pooja if she was ok with her dating raj (I mean they wrote to each other for 15 years they gotta have some attachement right ?)…never noticed poojas sad little face everytime her and raj were together …like 0 emotional intelligence or care factor
On the surface she wasn’t mean to her per say, but she did take her for granted…and push her around as if she has no agency/ choice of her own …she never asked for her opinion in the whole uday situation and was only eager to get them married (probs because she can wear more new clothes, dance at more sangeets or something shallow like that lol)
I also didn’t think she loved raj …probs attracted to him but that’s it …they didn’t have compatibility and she was delusional enough to turn a blind eye to everything coz she could spend the rest of her life being taken care of without having any ambition , no career and not even an inclination towards looking after the home / cooking / cleaning etc etc
Basically no intention to put in any work from her end ….expecting to have everything fall into her lap coz she’s “hot” lol
Edited by pathaka - 3 years ago
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