Can't they just say NO ????

Honestly, why can't Anupama and Anuj say NO to little anu ?? I know that little anu is a small kid. But for me, she has a brain of an adult.

Little anu knew that pakhi was being mean to her mom and insulting her. Phir bhi, she still invited pakhi and the family.

When pakhi arrived at the door of the kapadia house, little anu begged her mom to let pakhi in. But without her mom saying YES or anything, little anu held pakhis hand and let her in the house. Anupama and Anuj didn't even say anything. They just put sad faces on.

No offence (for people who grew up in an ashram), but what did they teach little anu when she was in the ashram ?? Some of the things were good, like doing things yourself, praying to God, bathing by yourself etc. But for some of the other things like making tea with the hot gas etc (those things can be taught at age 10 or 11 (11 was when I learned how to make hot chocolate and pasta etc)

I'm sorry if I'm wrong in any of the parts of my post. These were just my opinions.

You are not wrong. Yes, they needed to say No. The thing is which is she on nicely BTW Maan in this show is , 'It is not about what you say, it is about how you say', they maintained it by showing Assertive Communication in their entire Conservation's (Not Passive or Aggressive) Assertive then would add a touch of pain, firmness in their words. Couldn't say Firmly No to CA, as they explained to her in Assertive Communication n Authoritatian Style (not totally but 60%) of Parenting. Before they could react, CA took hand and it took Anu time to react. May be hoping Anuj to say something??

Maan's communication style is Classic which starts with Assertiveness at times with touch of Firmness and parenting is Authoritarian. I Understand that initially the kid need room to adjust, also Maan/ Anu said it may times 'Children shouldn't suffer in adults fighters'. Personally I have seen how Elders, Relatives fights and no more relationships effect children and separate them of the love with cousins n family

very soon Little Anu will beat Badi Anu in the Mahanta game...😳

Little Anu has no traits of a cute child. They're showing her a way too much mature just because she grew up in an orphanage.

It would've been good if they connected her traits with that of Anuj and not Anupamaa. I don't want Anu to become like Anupamaa but that's anyway happening🤡

When Anupamaaaaa doesn't want to say no to Anu to kya kr skte hain? Anu likes this ..roj roj Shahs ka muh dekho jhagda kro, thoda ro and ghar aakr so jao...and cycle will repeat...otherwise she should have said to choti Anu ki mere permission ke bina aise kisiko phone mat kro..hum to bachpan mein aisa kre to maar pde humein aur yahan they are ok with choti Anu secretely calling Shahs...children ko itna mature nhi dikhana chahiye...let them be kids..let there be some innocence..

Originally posted by: Wyatt

Honestly, why can't Anupama and Anuj say NO to little anu ?? I know that little anu is a small kid. But for me, she has a brain of an adult.

Little anu knew that pakhi was being mean to her mom and insulting her. Phir bhi, she still invited pakhi and the family.

When pakhi arrived at the door of the kapadia house, little anu begged her mom to let pakhi in. But without her mom saying YES or anything, little anu held pakhis hand and let her in the house. Anupama and Anuj didn't even say anything. They just put sad faces on.

No offence (for people who grew up in an ashram), but what did they teach little anu when she was in the ashram ?? Some of the things were good, like doing things yourself, praying to God, bathing by yourself etc. But for some of the other things like making tea with the hot gas etc (those things can be taught at age 10 or 11 (11 was when I learned how to make hot chocolate and pasta etc)

I'm sorry if I'm wrong in any of the parts of my post. These were just my opinions.

Little Anu is big Anu. When that idiot Rajan Shahi got bored of big Anu, he'll kill Anu and Anuj like killing chickens and bring Little Anu as the new lead with same old face. So there should be some common traits between mom and daughter, right?😈

Also, if you say a No, problems will decrease. In ITV, problems should only increase. So say YES to everything or be silent (silence is also yes🤪)

Originally posted by: sxursaep

Little Anu has no traits of a cute child. They're showing her a way too much mature just because she grew up in an orphanage.

It would've been good if they connected her traits with that of Anuj and not Anupamaa. I don't want Anu to become like Anupamaa but that's anyway happening🤡

Just weird, right?

In ITV, all the lead's children are all speaking like they are 60 year old grandpa or grandma. The representation of children in TV itself is changed completely. I can't forget how irritating that Kulfi Kumar Baajewala's Kulfi... My god! She crossed all limits of badi badi baatein and mahantas.

But teens' representation is the exact opposite.

Because ITV is showing reality (cough) by showing them getting addicted to drugs, raping anyone (YRKKH), abusing the parents aka leads... What not...🤢