Shah house mai aana Jana anupama ka haqq kaise ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

The way Anupama has started to exercise her rights on everything, I am scared someday she will come to my house and claim it as her Mayka. Jokes apart, Anupama does not understand the concept of rights and duties. When she was Shah Bahu, she never exercised her rights but now when she has zero rights, she is exercising her non existent rights. I don't go to my real Mayka as often as she goes to her ex Sasural. And her kids just are excuses. When kids study in hostel, do any parents go to hostel everyday to meet their kids? Why does anyone need to meet their grown up kids on daily basis? There is option of video calling. She can communicate with Bapuji, Samar and Kinjal through video call. No need of daily coming to that house unless her solo motto is to see Mishter Shah every single day.

@bold - perfectly sums it up! 😊

Originally posted by: sweet_tania

In the precap anupama kaun se haqq ki baat kar rahi hai ??!

Shah house mai aana jana anupama ka haqq kaise hua ??

Anupama ka haqq uske baccho par hai but otherwise ex-sasural jane ka haqq kaisa ?!

It’s weird anupama feels she has right on shah house and household !

Delusional lady! She is skipping through her own imaginary world!

This mahan serial wants to give the message that a dignified woman should make her abusive ex-sasural her maikka and hug their abusers and receive their abuses on daily basis even if life gives u a new chance and a better husband and even wealth.

A dignified woman never turns away or make boundaries between her abusers and her. She must always stick to them. Letting go or moving on is not the character of a dignified woman. WHY? Because if she does, it means she isn't dignified.

And what was she trying to say that Baa has haqt to say anything as she is her mother? Like what Baa is saying is not "maa ki daat. " There is love in mother's scolding and corrections and sometimes some taunts. But baa is venom producer. Her words are pure hatred towards Anupama. So this mahan serial is saying that what your sasuma says are all acceptable. A woman should take the abusive words of sasumas as blessings and apnapan. Oihoihoi... Kya baate kahi hai ajj Anupama ne. All abusive mother-in-laws will be happy.

In the bengali version, after Shreemoyi's remarriage, even she didn't visit to ex in laws house too much like hindi version....

In Shreemoyi, for Shree & Rohit's romance of 1st night, the trp started to decrease... But somehow she dedicated herself totally in her 2nd marriage... Even when Anirudh(Vanraj) committed suicide in her 2nd marriage's 1st night being frustrated., she went to see him after morning with Rohit not that night.. Also she even stopped talking unnecessarily with her ill manared daughter & ex mother in law

But in Anupama, there has no romance, no character progression, only Anupama's ex in laws's tantrum 👎🏼Even A rich businessman like Anuj has also face this humiliation of unemployment Vanraj just for Anu

Anupama wants to travel in two boats.

Except for few ppl no one wants her to come to Shah house so she can meet them outside.

Anupama still has no self respect.

Even if she has given 27 years to that house. She should accept it and move on. If I was in her shoes, I would enter return. If my kids love me, they can meet me at my place or elsewhere. But with a jerk ex husband and ex saas like that. I would dear not put a step in that house. But this is Anupama and a serial. So

I have said enough words about the vile family but yes Anupama has no one to blame but herself if she continues to seek Shah family acceptance and approval.

This whole situation is just so ugly and I just wish Anupama would realize that it’s high time to draw boundaries with the toxic family.

But I have very little hope. If she had any self respect she wouldn’t have entered the Shah house after the first time she moved out.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

The way Anupama has started to exercise her rights on everything, I am scared someday she will come to my house and claim it as her Mayka. Jokes apart, Anupama does not understand the concept of rights and duties. When she was Shah Bahu, she never exercised her rights but now when she has zero rights, she is exercising her non existent rights. I don't go to my real Mayka as often as she goes to her ex Sasural. And her kids just are excuses. When kids study in hostel, do any parents go to hostel everyday to meet their kids? Why does anyone need to meet their grown up kids on daily basis? There is option of video calling. She can communicate with Bapuji, Samar and Kinjal through video call. No need of daily coming to that house unless her solo motto is to see Mishter Shah every single day.

Agree with everything......I feel that Babuji is at fault over here the most.....I agree that Vanraj is a douchebag and mistreated Anu....and Babuji now treats her like his daughter......but the fact is that she will always be VanRaj's ex....He wanted get her married...great ...that could have been done from another venue....not from the house that his son and his current wife lives.....If Vanraj didn't want to see or participate in his Ex's marriage.....no big deal....most of us wouldn't want to...and now to be the beti in the same house where her ex lives.....how are clashes not going to happen....do these people live in LaLa Land or real world?

and BTW what happened to Babuji's heart surgery ?? Magic ho gaya?? Didn't the doctor say it had to be done??😳

and also what kind of business is Anuj running.....every second day he is at the Shah house fighting for Anupama......and who gives the signing authority to someone who has no idea about business....kaisa business hai....if its a Kapadia empire....toh shareholders bhi honge....no one says anything??😆