Bade Achhe Lagte hain 2 EDT #37 - Page 111

I wonder how ram can even look at the kid cause as per him that's a cheating baby

Originally posted by: smriti81

Yes...his behaviour is still more consistent but Priya has been reduced to a toatally wishy-washy FL...oh how I miss the original Priya Sood! She was like a breath of fresh air...with her brashness and honest sharp tongue, her upright attitude and her principles. She was bitter but she was always her authentic no-nonsense self.

Original Ms Sood ne sabki band bajake rakdi thi 😎 how I wish she were here! I wish I could see her give back to Nandu with confidence and show her her place. Instead she cowers before her empty threats. The day Priya’s truth is out, even her precious Shubhu’s truth will find the light of the day. She cannot hide it forever.

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I know and I remember cursing him. Its not like I have let him off the hook but somewhere you can see he was doing all of that to spite Priya. He was dating all those women and being nasty coz he somewhere hoped Priya would see him that way and get affected. I know when I say this people will say I am Ram supporter but I am not. But even when Shivi's death track was being aired I couldn't accept Priya lying to Ram. And now when she is seeing the two together and she imagined what Ram Pihu could have been had she not said that lie, there is no guilt from her side. She is acting like everything is back to normal and she may walk out of his life once the deal is done. But what about the fact that she is taking away his daughter from him? I know Ram needs to apologize to her for not giving her a chance to sort things out before Shivi died but after that, seeing the events that followed, I cannot fault him for reacting the way he did. Because if I lost someone I loved dearly the way Ram loved Shivi, I would have wanted that person punished at that moment. Because when rage takes over you, you cannot see beyond it. As a third person its easy to make rational comments but only the person who has suffered a loss will know the pain of it. Even though MS and Varun were punished, is it hard to overlook the fact that Priya's family was responsible for the death of a man who meant the world to him? Even if it was a decade ago? And then hid it? Its not like Ram did not want to sort things out. I remember when he was driving to Sood house minutes before Shivi's death, he was thinking ki maybe Priya is right and MM had a reason to give that statement. And then Shivi calling him and her death - is it so hard to accept that the man was in shock? Do you still expect him to trust his wife in these circumstances? Imagine if it were your brother and your sister died coz of his wife and he took her side. What would you think of him? Would you applaud him saying wah husband ho toh aisa or would you feel betrayed that your brother chose his wife who came into his life less than a year ago over his family? And when I say this I am giving a neutral example. Not even taking Nandu and Shubhu's names coz they are both invalid for me. If I look at it as a RaYa shipper I will want Ram to choose Priya but if I look at it from Ram's POV it is not easy. And it only gets worse after performing the final rites coz thats when it hits you that the person is no longer in your life. Was he expected to bail Priya out then with that feeling? And then I was kinda pissed he came to see her when he got her pregnancy news. But should I have expected him to go visit Priya immediately after Shivi's funeral and have a heart to heart talk? Sorry but thats not realistic. Not right then. He needed some time to cool down and come to terms with his loss. So we will never know if Ram would have visited Priya or not.

I still don't like the way he treated Priya in the mall. Cheater or not, she was no thief and no one knows this better than him. And behaving so badly with Pihu? No excuse at all. But even Priya is wrong here.

In real life if a woman accidentally pushes her husband's sister from the stairs, will the husband send her to jail ? No way. There will be anger, depression , lot of mourning but not let her rot in jail.

Ram knows how much Pri loves Shivi she will never intentionally push her . If in her hands Pri would have died instead of Shivi. Pri risked her life eating paneer to get her married. She stood unconditionally on her side when her pics with Sid were leaked. She ate the entire fish cake so that she is not hurt .

So based on the fact that MS and Varun were murderers and Shivi accused the entire family of abuse , I think Ram became vindictive to avenge her death. He somewhere felt that they as a family together harmed Shivi .

If you delete the events of MS Varun and Shivi's last words , I don't think Ram would send Priya to jail for accidentally pushing her sister .

The only reason I may want him to bail her is because I know for a fact that had Priya n her baby died because of Shivi that day , Ram would not send Shivi to jail, also there has to be gratitude for Priya going against her family , putting her life to risk multiple times to get justice for VK.

Is there no consideration for this act of Priya ?

But at the end of the day it is completely upto Ram if he wants to cut off ties from Priya or not, whether he wants to forgive or punish her for Shivi's death. He chose to punish and that is fine.

I just can't blame him .

Also if he still thinks that Soods r all collectively criminals who tortured and ultimately caused the death of Shivi , it makes it all the more unacceptable that he would use the so called criminals for deal sake.

About Priya taking away Pihu this time after the deal. I don't think she has any other choice.

How is the situation now any better than than what it was 5 years back. Nandini still hates Priya and her child and does not want them around Ram . Priya still holds herself guilty for being a curse to Ram . The only difference is she is out of jail and cannot be sent to jail again .

The whole point of lying to Ram about the paternity of the child ( won't write once again how stupid it was, and how unacceptable it is till date for me that Ram believed it ) but considering the lie is logical enough to qualify as believable and accepted by the other party , was to make him hate her to such an extent that even her shadow doesn't fall on him and protecting him thereby .

The only solution now maybe to hand over Pihu to Ram and bid tata goodbye which as a mother she won't be able to do . Even in that case it is important for Ram to cut off from Nandini , because Pihu doesn't deserve to be a victim of Nandini's venom . She is still is the same vindictive lady who threatened to orphan Pihu. Pihu is any day safe with Priya under a leaking roof than in KM .

We don't see Priya wallowing in self guilt everyday, because I think she has accepted this truth of her life that there is no possibility of reconciliation and she has to be happy so that Pihu is happy.

It is her defense mechanism to act all happy and pretend nothing happened just like how being Khadoos is Ram's defense mechanism . But she is responsible for a little life . She has a reason to shut and seal all her miseries and act like nothing happened .Otherwise I don't think it is possible that a woman who cut ties from her family, got separated from her husband , has so much guilt in heart, had to deliver her baby in jail, has no financial security can live a happy life without any bitterness .

Originally posted by: vaidharbhi95

In real life if a woman accidentally pushes her husband's sister from the stairs, will the husband send her to jail ? No way. There will be anger, depression , lot of mourning but not let her rot in jail. In real life, God forbid if such a situation were to arise, the husband's family will never forgive his wife. No one will accept a DIL who was responsible for the death of their daughter and thats a fact too. Accident, no accident. If MS, Varun were not responsible for VK's death then maybe Ram would have separated from Priya for sure. But maybe not sent her to jail. But two of her family members already murdering his father and then Shivi staging that drama - its not possible for a human mind to fathom. Ram knew Priya was covering for her family even when he sent her to jail. He knew she was innocent but if you are abetting a crime, that makes you a criminal too. He was never aware of the truth and that became his biggest enemy.

Ram knows how much Pri loves Shivi she will never intentionally push her . If in her hands Pri would have died instead of Shivi. Pri risked her life eating paneer to get her married. She stood unconditionally on her side when her pics with Sid were leaked. She ate the entire fish cake so that she is not hurt .

So based on the fact that MS and Varun were murderers and Shivi accused the entire family of abuse , I think Ram became vindictive to avenge her death. He somewhere felt that they as a family together harmed Shivi . Losing someone you loved like a child will make anyone vindictive dear. I would never forgive anyone if I lost my child coz of them. Sending them to jail? Thankfully never saw such a day and will pray I never will and nor should anyone else.

If you delete the events of MS Varun and Shivi's last words , I don't think Ram would send Priya to jail for accidentally pushing her sister . Ditto. He would have separated from her but not sent her to jail for an accident. Not just Shivi. Ram lost a lot that day - he might have gotten justice for his dad but doing that opened up the wounds that had healed and while they were still raw, he was dealt with back to back blows. Even though he never admitted it, deep down he loved MM probably more than his own mother. Because he felt he had a right on her which he never felt with his stepmom. His affection and love was nothing more than servitude born out of obligation thrust upon by his late father. But with MM he shared a genuine bond. The day he realised she is shielding MS and Varun, that broke. Imagine the heartbreak he must have gone through? Even when he was coming to meet Priya, he wanted to be objective, hear her and Priya out.

The only reason I may want him to bail her is because I know for a fact that had Priya n her baby died because of Shivi that day , Ram would not send Shivi to jail, also there has to be gratitude for Priya going against her family , putting her life to risk multiple times to get justice for VK.

Is there no consideration for this act of Priya ? A rational person would have forgiven Priya. You yourself have given the answer dear 😊 If the events that occurred prior to Shivi's death had not happened, Ram would have still separated from Priya but he would never have sent her to jail.

But at the end of the day it is completely upto Ram if he wants to cut off ties from Priya or not, whether he wants to forgive or punish her for Shivi's death. He chose to punish and that is fine.

I just can't blame him . Ram would have calmed down if it weren't for his evil family. And his useless bunch of friends did nothing to salvage the situation. I hate Brinda for what she did to Priya. She could have heard her out once. Even without the pregnancy, Ram would have come to Priya but then how will an ITV show run without MU? 😵

Also if he still thinks that Soods r all collectively criminals who tortured and ultimately caused the death of Shivi , it makes it all the more unacceptable that he would use the so called criminals for deal sake. None of what we are seeing post leap makes sense. Including Priya's mellowed down avatar. And Ram's anger. If I were him, I would not reach out to my ex who cheated on me to help me out of my mess 😆 I would not want to give that person the edge to think they can cheat on me but still bestow a favour on me 😛

About Priya taking away Pihu this time after the deal. I don't think she has any other choice.

How is the situation now any better than than what it was 5 years back. Nandini still hates Priya and her child and does not want them around Ram . Priya still holds herself guilty for being a curse to Ram . The only difference is she is out of jail and cannot be sent to jail again . I understand if Priya wants to walk away from Ram's life but is it her right to decide if she should separate the baby from the father? Just like how a father does not have the right to separate a child from the mother, vice versa is also true. I get her reasons for taking that call but not feeling remorse is no excuse.

The whole point of lying to Ram about the paternity of the child ( won't write once again how stupid it was, and how unacceptable it is till date for me that Ram believed it ) but considering the lie is logical enough to qualify as believable and accepted by the other party , was to make him hate her to such an extent that even her shadow doesn't fall on him and protecting him thereby .

The only solution now maybe to hand over Pihu to Ram and bid tata goodbye which as a mother she won't be able to do . Even in that case it is important for Ram to cut off from Nandini , because Pihu doesn't deserve to be a victim of Nandini's venom . She is still is the same vindictive lady who threatened to orphan Pihu. Pihu is any day safe with Priya under a leaking roof than in KM . A child will always need a mother. So I would defo not want Priya handing over Pihu to Ram. But I wish she had confided in Krish and ensured she could reach out to someone in Ram's circle and let them know about the truth. Make some attempt to ensure her child was not left bereft of a father's love.

We don't see Priya wallowing in self guilt everyday, because I think she has accepted this truth of her life that there is no possibility of reconciliation and she has to be happy so that Pihu is happy.

It is her defense mechanism to act all happy and pretend nothing happened just like how being Khadoos is Ram's defense mechanism . But she is responsible for a little life . She has a reason to shut and seal all her miseries and act like nothing happened .Otherwise I don't think it is possible that a woman who cut ties from her family, got separated from her husband , has so much guilt in heart, had to deliver her baby in jail, has no financial security can live a happy life without any bitterness . Yes she is responsible for a little life and it is that responsibility that should have ensured she sought a middle way out. My only gripe is Priya 1.0 would have moved heaven and earth to get her child her rights. I never had any issues with Priya till the time she came back for the deal. One small monologue where she felt guilt for taking away Pihu from Ram. A little remorse for that? No one is saying she should become Nirupa Roy. Hell no! But knowing how much Ram wanted to be a father and seeing how much he loved his step sister, Priya chose to let him believe the child she was carrying was not his. Yes Nandu is vile but if Ram did not believe in Priya, Priya did not believe in her love for Ram either. I miss the OG Priya of BALH2 😭 She was such a badass. I kept hoping ki we will get to see a glimpse of her in Priya 2.0 but so far, my hope has been futile. Only the OG Priya can make Ram open his eyes and see his family for what they r.

My comments in blue.

In real life, God forbid if such a situation were to arise, the husband's family will never forgive his wife. No one will accept a DIL who was responsible for the death of their daughter and thats a fact too. Accident, no accident. If MS, Varun were not responsible for VK's death then maybe Ram would have separated from Priya for sure. But maybe not sent her to jail. But two of her family members already murdering his father and then Shivi staging that drama - its not possible for a human mind to fathom. Ram knew Priya was covering for her family even when he sent her to jail. He knew she was innocent but if you are abetting a crime, that makes you a criminal too. He was never aware of the truth and that became his biggest enemy.

Accidental death and intentional killing are 2 different things. No husband will send his wife to jail for accidental killing.

MM broke Ram's trust by choosing Eshaan over justice for VK which makes her selfish but that does not make her or anyone in Sood family an inhuman person capable of torturing Shivi. It's just so unfortunate that those were the last words of Shivi.

I would have wanted Ram to investigate the death case based on Shivi's last words and punish the culprits like how Krish suggested .

Ram did not pursue VK case legally and did the same mistake in Shivi's case as well. If Shivi alleged harassment on family that should be pursued legally. Instead all that anger got directed at Priya because she volunteered for it 😔

Till date he is under the impression that Shivi was harassed by Soods which is not true. I can only wish this allegation is cleared by the makers.

I understand if Priya wants to walk away from Ram's life but is it her right to decide if she should separate the baby from the father? Just like how a father does not have the right to separate a child from the mother, vice versa is also true. I get her reasons for taking that call but not feeling remorse is no excuse.

A child will always need a mother. So I would defo not want Priya handing over Pihu to Ram. But I wish she had confided in Krish and ensured she could reach out to someone in Ram's circle and let them know about the truth. Make some attempt to ensure her child was not left bereft of a father's love

Yes , absolutely . Her guilt of destroying Ram's life overpowered her ability to fight for Pihu's rights on her father . Fighter Priya died with the death of Shivi . She just accepted defeat .

Yes she is responsible for a little life and it is that responsibility that should have ensured she sought a middle way out. My only gripe is Priya 1.0 would have moved heaven and earth to get her child her rights.

I never had any issues with Priya till the time she came back for the deal. One small monologue where she felt guilt for taking away Pihu from Ram. A little remorse for that? No one is saying she should become Nirupa Roy. Hell no! But knowing how much Ram wanted to be a father and seeing how much he loved his step sister, Priya chose to let him believe the child she was carrying was not his. Yes Nandu is vile but if Ram did not believe in Priya, Priya did not believe in her love for Ram either.

Yes they gave up on their relationship. I don't know if it is fortunate or unfortunate that Pihu was born in such circumstances.

I miss the OG Priya of BALH2 She was such a badass. I kept hoping ki we will get to see a glimpse of her in Priya 2.0 but so far, my hope has been futile. Only the OG Priya can make Ram open his eyes and see his family for what they r.

I don't think it will be Priya2.0 who will bring out the truth. She is currently a dormat before Nandu's humiliations. Don't know what will happen to awaken Priya 1.0 or it will ever happen or not .

Why do they make me frustrated with even a sneak peak 🤣

Like Priya saying to Pihu, go help him because he is sick. Arey he is the love of your life. You should be going to help him not send a four year old 😆

Originally posted by: BlurredLines

Why do they make me frustrated with even a sneak peak 🤣

Like Priya saying to Pihu, go help him because he is sick. Arey he is the love of your life. You should be going to help him not send a four year old 😆

At the end of the day, both have their share of flaws. Ram was flawed right from start and Priya let her guilt drive her to take one of the worst decisions of her life. No one will like it if their rights were snatched. So am waiting to see how will Ram react when he gets to know the truth but I hope Nandu's truth comes out and he realises his initial instinct to trust Priya was right and he failed by not heeding to it. Just expose Nandu and end the show 😆 We can hope Nakuul Disha come together again for another show be it on TV or OTT. We can leave the trauma of BALH2 behind.

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Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

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