KinTosh: A couple made in hell and for eachother

Earlier I thought how could a mature and sensible girl like Kinjal fall for someone like Toshu?.But now it is crystal care. They see themselves in each other. Not even identical twins have so much in common as they have. For them their mothers are like tissue papers. They only need them to clean their dirt. One kicks away her mother from her Godbharai and the other is planning to kick his mother out as she won't be giving free nanny services to his kid.

Kinju baby is so stressed that AnupaMaa won't give highest priority to her child as now Anupama has baby Anu. What kind of sick mentality is this. Anupama has a husband, has 4 kids. Why on earth would she give highest priority to only her grand kid? Earlier I found Kinju weird for choosing Saas over Ma. But now I know that she is not weird. She is damn smart. She took as much money as possible from Rakhi then kicked her off from her life as she does not need her anymore. She was worshipping Anu as Anu cooked, cleaned for her. Now as she got an inkling of Anu not being available to her for 24/7, she showed her true colours. Neither she likes Rakhi, nor she likes Anupama. She only lives her comfort.

Toshu is worried that Anu won't be able to drop his kid at school. Why can't this jobless himself drop his kid to school? Why not use a condom if dropping kid to school seems like the hardest job to you?

And who takes MIL for sonography? I did not even make my husband miss his office for my sonography. Why always involve others in tasks you can perform alone? Kinju is from USA where pregnant women even drive few miles to go to hospital for delivery. She is self obsessed woman who needs to be punched in the face to see reality.

Very true.

I also always wondered why kinjal chose toshu and why she is not leaving him. Now the answer is clear. They both are selfish, stupid of highest degree and just want to take advantage of others. Both have not done anything for the family till now except creating problems.

Writers should stop showing their selfish nature under the guise of emotional vulnerability.

Agar itna hi hai Kinjal Madam ko 'Mummy' ka, she should move into the Kapadia house instead of expecting Anupamaa to be at her beck and call. Toshu is also acting very entitled when he says that they were expecting Anupamaa to look after their baby. Grandparents may guide you and occassionally look after the kid but you cannot put the entire burden on them as an obligation unless they agree. Otherwise one shouldn't have kids.

Frankly, the entitlement is grating. Paritosh and his selfish views are nothing new, he learnt that from his father. You are only important (RD) or worth his time(Anupama) or respect(Anuj - in the first few episodes of Anuj’s entry and now after marriage) until you can do something for him or don’t appear to take away something from him as in case of Anuj. He has always been shown as self centered.

Kinjal and her dependence on Anupama is irksome.

copying my response from another thread

The spoilt , entitled behavior is disturbing. I started watching Anupamaa after Anuj’s entry so did not know Kinjal was shown to be an NRI or even just US educated. You need to be self reliant in US, you don’t have 24x7 help here if you are a regular earning individual. You cook, clean, grocery shop yourself. I have seen pregnant ladies drive to their work/doctor’s appointment themselves and not even depend on their husband for it.

Also not to forget her mom, Rakhi. She just has her so called sources to get updates regarding drama but has no idea of her daughter's needs. She never gets to know what happens with her daughter and never minds to poke her nose where her presence is much required😡

Atleast Toshu had expressed his reservations about not being ready to be a father ( of course he should have thought of it before doing the deed without protection ) .... before being made to shut up by his useless wife and high on Dholida Dadi ... IMO both the actors deserve much better roles , they are so talented , than the lame , selfish ones being carved out for them here ...

It was so evident that Kinjal was ready to be a mother precisely because she knew Anupamaa was available to babysit.

Why else do you think Anupamaa gave up her America dreams when she got pregnant with Pakhi? Because it takes a village to bring up a baby but nobody was available to intensively invest in any of AnuRaj's kids other than Anupamaa.

Susu, Potty, sleepless nights and all that, Kinjal is not made for it. But she wants a helicopter for her baby because she didn't get one in Rakhi. And who else better than Anupamaa?

I am sure she would have also requested Anupamaa to breastfeed the baby if it was possible and Anupamaa would have obliged.

Originally posted by: ga1986

Atleast Toshu had expressed his reservations about not being ready to be a father ( of course he should have thought of it before doing the deed without protection ) .... before being made to shut up by his useless wife and high on Dholida Dadi ... IMO both the actors deserve much better roles , they are so talented , than the lame , selfish ones being carved out for them here ...

I like this name for Anupama - Dolida Dadi, DD for short. Anyway there is another Anu, so this new name will come handy🤣

btw, speaking of names - I can only laugh at how juvenile the story writer can be to name the child also Anu. It sounds like the very silly make-believe stories that are told to toddlers who listen to whatever story with their jaw dropped look🤔🤪

Aisa nahi mother in law saath jaate nahi even sister in law go but sister in law, ya, mother in law ke sath gynae ke pass, jane ki tub hoti hai jub husband out of station ho

My father ki tranfarable service hai to when my mother become pregnant to my father use to stay out of station kyonki unki naukri out of station lagi thi usliye woh my mother ke saath nahi reh paste they

To meri mother khuch mahine mother in law ke saath rahi aur khuch mahine naani ke sath rahi phir 9month mein mother wapas dadi ke pass aa gayi.

To jub tuk my father out of staiion rahe my dadi use to go with my mother to gynae

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Aisa nahi mother in law saath jaate nahi even sister in law go but sister in law, ya, mother in law ke sath gynae ke pass, jane ki tub hoti hai jub husband out of station ho

My father ki tranfarable service hai to when my mother become pregnant to my father use to stay out of station kyonki unki naukri out of station lagi thi usliye woh my mother ke saath nahi reh paste they

To meri mother khuch mahine mother in law ke saath rahi aur khuch mahine naani ke sath rahi phir 9month mein mother wapas dadi ke pass aa gayi.

To jub tuk my father out of staiion rahe my dadi use to go with my mother to gynae

Yeh to tumhare age jitni purane zamane ki baat hai ! Tum agar adult ho toh tumhare father mother ki baat minimum 18 years old hui .