Chalo ladies. My time in if is coming to an end. I am going to apologise if any sentiments are hurt but honestly I thought this was a forum for fairness. Maybe I am biased and that’s why I don’t understand it. From the day gm left imlie , I found more and more ppl coming out to say st is a user , chameleon, immature etc. now I am not saying ppl on this forum but generally on social media . Ppl felt she didn’t fight for gm and team. Maybe she didn’t. Ppl felt she forgot gm and team. Maybe she did. Ppl say she used gm and team. Maybe she did. Ppl feel she is very protective of fk. Maybe she is but ppl forget she is a person
I found more and more ppl rehashing these opinions . Now everyone is entitled to their opinion and I know some say they have inside sources on set. For me I always said no one and I mean no one is innocent in all this and no one handled it well. Unpopular opinion I know pls forgive me but They all reacted differently and we don’t know the true circumstances. I am sorry but inside sources don’t know the full story either cos true friends don’t blab and well it’s like Chinese whispers ain’t it . These ppl who share are those attention seekers I feel. Anyway my point is this, judging ppl because of what we see on social media is wrong. It’s a story that develops due to ppls interpretation and gets clouded by ppl fitting pieces together to fit into a box. Now I am not pro st , anti st, pro gm, anti gm and those who follow me or know me on Twitter know I have always spoken this. Only the person themselves knows the truth . If st reacted to protect fk that’s her wish. Why didn’t she protect the others , who knows? Maybe she loves fk? Maybe she used gm? I don’t know and I don’t really care. But it pains me to the max when this is what I see about anyone be it gm getting bashed, md getting bashed or st getting bashed. Who are we to bash or judge anyone I can never understand.
I admit I also sometimes ponder and raised points about them but I realised that this is not right. The few months I stopped watching and went back to my pre pandemic schedule has given me so much respite I must confess. Yet the urge to comment rears it’s ugly head and the sad part is that this isn’t me at all in my real life. I feel reading things on sm may colour my thoughts at times though I hope my comments are never really hurtful but that is subjective isn’t it . With this I think for my own sanity I will be stepping off the precipice that is imlie for good. I might be on Twitter for those who are there with me tweeting generally about imlie just for laughs but even then my involvement is more my own tweets . Not going on ht. My foray always was mainly for the show and with me not watching well maybe I should step back. Don’t get me wrong you ladies are great but it’s for my own sanity. I wish you all well and hope that you all stay safe.
I sincerely apologise if this post hurts anyone. I have known you all for a long time some longer than most and i am sure u know I have intentionally never hurt anyone . Thanks for the good times and making the journey a great one! The pandemic brought lockdowns but I will always have the memory of doing something I never did before in my life - follow a serial, analyse, discuss and enjoy! Alas I won’t repeat it again so these times will always be special for me.