Originally posted by: vibha28
 
More than feminism I believe in equity. That has always been my theory what is okay for a guy should be okay for a girl too. Having said that I have in every single show that I have watched have supported the FLs. This is the only show where I bashed the FL when she was being wishy washy and again now. 
She took his gifts initially, knows that aunt doesn't like her talking to the son but would still talk to him and they were long talks too, then she kept meeting him when her own mother told her not to, told him that not interested but then will talk to him. That's mixed messages and if a guy did that it would be gaslighting. If she was in love with Romeo and then married Shehroz then I would buy her meeting and all that. Bani loved that Jai and used to meet him but she would do it in front of her husband and would tell Veer she will meet Jai and she will talk to him too. However when she will meet Jai she will be firm, and will maintain her distance and tell him that focus on our work and don't talk about other things, I am not interested. That I would have loved had Ushna told Shehroz that I will meet Romeo and I will talk to him do what you want.
She is right now in my mind emotionally on the precipice of cheating, and I hate cheaters.
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