Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 05 Jul 2022 - Page 3

Originally posted by: DJ_3

I find Anu's parenting also lacking here. She is not trying to understand her daughter or make her understand at her level.

The less said about Vanraj and his parenting the better

Originally posted by: ChirpyKiya10

Really, today Pakhi was on fire. If one of the parents is a little bit sensible, they would have talked softly with pakhi inside the room instead of creating scene and drama in front of everybody.

When it came to the relationship of anu and Anuj, Anu Di delivered long lectures on prem in front of everyone. She did not care about bade or bacche Today, she was trying to mute Pakhi's voice 🤪 .

In today 's episode,I found one line very funny.

Anupama- Mr. Shah ka toh yeh jaane, mai toh apna aur anuj ka bata sakti hoon. Hum Maryada mei the.🤣🤣

Aaj Acche pita ka dialog missing; she didn't favor Mr. Shah while on Mukku's incident, Mai inhe bahut acchi tarah se jaanti hoon, he is not womanizer".

About Maryada Dialog- initially, she was chanting sirf dost jaap, then dost se kuch jaada jaap, then radha-krishna prem jaap.

Can anyone believe anu's di words? Who knows maryada mei the ya nahi. BTW, What is the exact def of maryada

In another scene, Anu said to Anuj," AAp jaayie, aapki aur bezaati hui toh mujhe gussa aa jaayega"

Tell me, abhi aur kitni bezatti honi chahiye Anuj ki, jab mam react karengi.

Is there any device to measure the level of bezatti- . Bezatti kin factors par depend karti hai- quality of content, frequency, tone, or place. so that we can figure out abhi Anuj ki kitni insult baaki hai.

Agreed on Anuj and uske parivaar ka beizatti wala thing. But I also agree that Pakhi cannot compare her chomu infatuation with the relationship of Anuj and Anupamaa. This extra filling as per the precap is trying to instigate her against her family which Anuj never did. Anuj helped her in every possible way. Also chidiya comparing her infatuation with her dad's EMA is like insulting her infatuation.

Yes in this age it is common to have infatuation but how much this chidiya and extra filling know each other? What was the need to go to other room and talk? Bhai phone hai message me baat karo. Gharwalo ke rehte huye aisi harkatein karoge toh yahi hona tha. Woh bhi she is Vanraj Shah's daughter. I liked Anuj's dialogues that they should guide them and give them direction. Parents should treat their teenage kids as friends or else teenage rebellion is hard to manage. I did that so I know 🤪🤣

Baaki to Anupama and uska maayka prem jindabaad.

Agreed on Anuj and uske parivaar ka beizatti wala thing. But I also agree that Pakhi cannot compare her chomu infatuation with the relationship of Anuj and Anupamaa. This extra filling as per the precap is trying to instigate her against her family which Anuj never did. Anuj helped her in every possible way. Also chidiya comparing her infatuation with her dad's EMA is like insulting her infatuation.

Yes in this age it is common to have infatuation but how much this chidiya and extra filling know each other? What was the need to go to other room and talk?

First of all, tell me yeh extra filling jaise words kahan se aate hai tumhare paas.

Bhai phone hai message me baat karo. Gharwalo ke rehte huye aisi harkatein karoge toh yahi hona tha. Woh bhi she is Vanraj Shah's daughter. I liked Anuj's dialogues that they should guide them and give them direction. Parents should treat their teenage kids as friends or else teenage rebellion is hard to manage. I did that so I know 🤪🤣

I feel in everybody's life, there comes a time, jab parents ko baache rebellious lagte hai and baccho ko parents enemy.

Baaki to Anupama and uska maayka prem jindabaad.

I agree with each point.

Yes , Pakhi-Adhik cannot be compared with Anuj- anu but if every teenager has the brain to understand the difference between infatuation and love, they can think like an experienced adult then most of the problems of a youngster are solved. Pakhii is in tender age, she has kids mind in adult body. So, her parents cannot put her behind bars of one line decision-India mei aisa nahi hota and pehle pehchan bana. And see who is saying, Vanraj who himself stayed at Kavya’s house without any relation,mother who started delivering lectures on-prem anytime, brother who eloped and married without settling in career. And of course Baa, jiski language sun kar kisi ka bhi dimag kharab ho jaaye.

One more thing, which I would like to point out. It’s the kids who suffer most in a broken family. Pakhi is always portrayed as insolent and spoilt child but May be she feel lonely and she may have her own inner battles. Her mother is bzy with kinju baby- her jaap she needs me, baapuji , baa are old, they need her. Really ?? What about Pakhi, this is the age when teenagers go astray, and a little bit of sympathy and love of any one is enough to beguile them.

She needs open communication, guidance and to be treated like a friend. Instead of postponing discussion and talking to pakhi later, abhi threaten karna hai, abhi padai ka lecture dena hai. Vanraj like parents don’t realize that they are not insulting that boy and his family but causing embarrassment for his daughter. IMO, Instead of taking theka of family, making balance bw maayka and sasural, Anu should focus on Pakhi first. Otherwise be ready to face the music.

I am giving long gyaan bcoz I have seen dire consequences of this kind of situation. One of my cousins in 21-22 age committed suicide after a heated argument with her family over the same.

PS: If parents can accept flings and affairs of their son at any age and proudly says, beta bada ho gaya hai then at least in the girl's case, they can handle it peacefully instead of creating a scene and taking it as a big issue.

Yes 👍. Whatever Pakhi said about her brother, father and her vile baa is totally correct. And they should listen to those truth bombs.

Anupama should first stop addressing that ghar as her maayka and cut-off total communication or relation with that house unless it is about her kids, or baapuji and mamaji. It is because of her stubbornness that the Kapadias had to face that humiliation. We all know what drama she did in the grahpravesh because her maayka was humiliated.

And to be very honest, nowadays no parents behave that way. Even if I or my mummy get to know that my bro has a gf, we won't behave like that. In fact, first I would try to know how serious they are?. But in this case I am not sure Chidiya is underage or adult. But whatever it is in matter especially the kids should be handled with care and love. Not by doing taanashahi.

About that extra filling: He is extra filling only. Soon to be thrown out.

For our Mahan devi, she just needs to lower her airplane to human level and for once act like a human instead of being a devi.

😆.

Echo the thoughts of people here.

Too many issues shown on the show and ALL treated with OTT drama.

1. Adulting:

Pakhi liking someone. Incidentally that someone happens to be Adhik.

a. Had it been anyone else, would the reactions been the same?

b. Like I said, we, the audience suspect the intentions of Adhik and hence the natural instinct is a No-No.

c. They were found close to each other. It is difficult for any parent and dare I say, probably the slap too, because in that moment, the parent was shocked and hurt. The drama that followed only made the 2 people in question more aggressive.

But in retrospect, Samar-Nandini and Paritosh-Kinjal also fell in love, met outside, confessed their feelings, were quite close.

Rakhi, being the strong force, also could NOT stop Kinjal and Paritosh and the result was they eloped and married.

2. Yeh Anupama ka mayka hain:

Chalo maan liya, yeh Anupama ka "mayka" hain. But Anupama ki apni nanad bhi agar baat baat pe uske ghar ke mamlon me ghusi padi rahe toh sabko problem hi hogi.

That was neither the time to discuss her mayka stuffs.

She wanted to see her daughter once before leaving, yes as a mother, her worry is valid and she could have limited the conversation to that.

She should understand atleast now and draw a line in her interactions with her mayka and limiting it to only where it concerns her children.

Let Vanraj and Kavya handle affairs of Shah house, taking care of Leela and Hansmukh and what happens inside Shah house. Whether it is related to who does jhaadu-pocha, bartan, khaana or financial problems, who has a job who hasn't etc.