Originally posted by: Nezuko
Mere ko puri baat bata
Starting se end tak
ye bahut lambi kahani hai re... Bahut lambi..
Bas itna jaan le ki ladka bahut socialize tha... Vo apni image society mai maintain rakhne ke liye kuch bhi kar sakta tha...
Mai bahut Introvert insaan huu jiske liye emotions bahut maayne rakhte hai... Mujhe dikhava karne wale log acche nahi lagte jo upar upar se accha hone ka behave kare aur andar se to kuch aur hii ho.. Aur vo bilkul vaisa hii tha...
Apni social life itni maintain karke rakhi thi usne.. Par original life mai to usko dhang se baat tak karni nahi aati thi..usse ye bhi nahi pata tha ki saamne wale se kya baat kab karni hai..
You know itni apni badai karta tha vo.. Mai ye huu mai vo huu..uske liye sab kuch sirf USKA 'MAI' tha..matalab agar humara rishta juda to uss rishte mai sirf vo hota..meri koi value nahi hone wali thi..🙄
Bahut man ego tha usme...usko ek wife nahi chahiye thi.. Usko ek aisi ladki chahiye thi jo jo vo bole chup chaap kar le.. Apna dimaag na lagaye.. He is just too orthodox..😑
Soch uski itni bekaar thi..😤
Aur usne bahut kuch kiya...meri family ka yaha ki local politics mai bahut naam hai...aur bas usko issi baat ka faayda chahiye tha.. 🙄
Pata hai usko kahi se pata laga ki mai ghar mai late uthati huu.. To mujhse kehta hai aisa mere ghar mai nahi chalega...yaha aapko itna late nahi uthna hoga.. Ab itna dimag to mujhme bhi hai ki vaha kaise behave karna hai..
Pata hai last baat usne boli ki aap bahut jyada man ki karte ho..... Aisa mere ghar mai nahi chalega...yaha to jo mai kahunga yaa mere mumma papa jo kahenge vo aapka karna hoga.. Maine usse bola bhi ki maine aaj tak apne man ki ki hai mere papa ne bhi mujhe ye adhikaar diya hai ki apni life ke faisle mai khud karti huu.. Vo mujhe sirf choice dete hai par karti mai vahi huu jo mai chahti huu..
Maine usse kaha bhi ki haa mujhe pata hai ki isiss rishte mai adjustment compromise karna hoga and i am ready for it...
But usne mujhse kaha ki vo aapke papa ka ghar hai vaha aapke papa karte honge aisa mai nahi karunga...yaha aapko meri tarah se rehna hoga..jaisa mai kahunga vaisa karna hoga...🥱
Bas vo last tha mere liye... Mai sab kuch kar sakti huu...mai rishta nibhane ke liye kuch bhi kar sakti huu... Par vo chahta tha ki mai uski puppet ban kar rahu..
Apni identity apni soch nahi kho sakti mai..
Shaadi to mai ussi insaan se karungi jo kam se kam ye to samjhe ki meri bhi ek soch hai opinion hai.. Aur uski respect kare..
Usne mujhe na trauma de diya hai sach mai shaadi ka...matalab.. Pehle se mai iske liye ready nahi thi..mujhe comfortable hii nahi tha ye aise arrange maarige wale satup mai...Aur usse baat karne ke baad.. Uss soch ko dekhne ke baad to ab nightmare lagne lag gaya hai ye sab mujhe..😑
Edited by kenika - 3 years ago