Question about something which has been bugging me?

Got a Question about something

In one of the earlier episode, Badi Maa mentioned about Rasika who got married in different religion or something like that, correct me if i am wrong and she is disowned from the house, And Anubhav did so much of disgrace to the family and he is forgiven easily why? BP thinks whatever GG did is wrong and was all her fault but Anubhav is also wrong

he lied, he broke the promise, he back answered and all, still he is forgiven? why so much of differentiation between Men and Women and still he says we are proud of my teachings to all the family members and will be treated equally, if thats the case bring your daughter back, forgive her. can he do that? or is it like Gender equality doesn't exists on his dictionary. Because whatever century we are staying in, we also worship the goddess as much as we do to god so if we are following Gender equality in the vedas and all, why is he not?

i know too deep thoughts, but Anu explained the meaning of kanyadaan and all soo just was watching earlier episode right now so i asked. He says Kanyadaaan is a benevolence not charity then why not respect the Kanya man . Khandaaan teaches to respect women but themselves do not do it

1)BP is biggest hypocrite among all Ks. He talks of sanskaar but justified slapping a girl twice (GG in Hospital ).

2) He is selfish in the sense he puts his family first and he can go any extent in saving his family prestige. He begged GG to marry RV- he didn't have any concern for daughter of his "priy mitr".(He knew she did suicide in her marriage with RV but doesn't care about her life.He just wants her to leave his beloved son)

3)He also becomes delusional when his family izzat is at stake (He cannot accept the fact that Gungun saved his son's life..He thinks Akriti's prayers did)