How to take your wife for granted ft. Dr Abhimanyu Birla

- First be so crazy about marrying her that you do n number of drama if your proposal is rejected.

- After marrying her, ignore the fact that she's being so patient with all your work calls including the first night of the wedding itself.

- Ignore the fact that she respects your opinion for her career decisions. Akshara did give abhimanyu to choose offer letter for her, for her workplace.

- ignore the fact that she's trying to bond with your family, being a newcomer here. Instead ask her to stay away from family matters completely.

- ignore the fact that she's taking care of your small needs like making rai ka pillow, planning cute small dates, decorating the room because she understands if you can't do it, she will.

- Her only mistake was that she tried to make your parents happy by planning their anniversary. Obviously she didn't know the dynamics then. She won't plan an anniversary now knowing the toxicity in relationships.

- Blame her for interfering in family members when she didn't give Neil the reports. What pleasure would she get by seeing your mom and brother unhappy? That's so childish.

- saying that you can't keep her happy, you're "trying" to keep her happy whereas i see the efforts are only one sided. Maybe try talking to her nicely, not ignoring her ,having one conversation of the family situation that you're in right now which can be solved mutually instead of playing blame game that my mom is upset because you revealed the truth. No buddy. It's your families years of kachra that has come out now. Why blame poor akshu for it? ( Even if she did reveal)

- First be all desperate to marry her then blame her instead in 3 days that "marrying you is a mistake" . I think this dialogue should be coming from akshu's side, not abhi's side.

I haven't seen akshu do any major to deserve this treatment. She's literally being gaslighted, ignored by all members in Birla house. Yes, she may be immature. No human is perfect. Her decision to let manjari take her own decision can be immature like some people point out that she doesn't deserve to be a therapist and abhi is right in his stand for deciding for his mom. Lol, isme akshu ki galti kaha? Manjari herself doesn't want to leave Harsh and she thinks she would be much better staying with him and divorcing him. It's manjari's life and she has a right to decide. Not supporting abuse but if you look from her perspective, she isn't incorrect too- she has given everything to do this family and is obviously attached to her husband even if it's a one sided relation. Suddenly, asking a women at this age to leave behind all this is tough. Women at this age happily accept their fate. You can't force people to sign divorce papers. That's not how it works.

Akshu has literally done nothing to be treated like this just 3 days after her marriage!

And..abhimanyu birla says marriages are like this only. Maybe, abhimanyu birla if you opened your eyes and looked and appreciate the small gestures akshu is trying to do, looked at the understanding and patience of your wife, look at the way she is not reacting even after family members ill treament- maybe then you will understand you're actually very lucky.

It's very difficult to live with a man like abhimanyu who always wants thing to be his way. His way or highway!

I agree with each nd Every pt. of yours. The makers are showcasing abhimanyu like all typical ml..who are all lovey dovey to the fl before their marriage..but post wedding all the fault is of he girl he love...There were numeroua instances, like manjari's accident where abhi could've broken off the alliance but no, that time his stubborness was to win akshu at all cost ans now bcz he have her, he told her just in 3 days of marriage that marrying you was a mistake🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀

Totally agree. I switched off after he was going on about Akshara comparing him to his dad as that was the first thing he could say. He thought about himself first not his newly wed wife. As the one doing all the chasing before marriage, he thinks he got the girl so now doesn’t need to bother.

As for maturity I think last night again showed me how mature he isn’t so comparing to Akshara, yes she is naive but very mature compared to hubby.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

- First be so crazy about marrying her that you do n number of drama if your proposal is rejected.

- After marrying her, ignore the fact that she's being so patient with all your work calls including the first night of the wedding itself.

- Ignore the fact that she respects your opinion for her career decisions. Akshara did give abhimanyu to choose offer letter for her, for her workplace.

- ignore the fact that she's trying to bond with your family, being a newcomer here. Instead ask her to stay away from family matters completely.

- ignore the fact that she's taking care of your small needs like making rai ka pillow, planning cute small dates, decorating the room because she understands if you can't do it, she will.

- Her only mistake was that she tried to make your parents happy by planning their anniversary. Obviously she didn't know the dynamics then. She won't plan an anniversary now knowing the toxicity in relationships.

- Blame her for interfering in family members when she didn't give Neil the reports. What pleasure would she get by seeing your mom and brother unhappy? That's so childish.

- saying that you can't keep her happy, you're "trying" to keep her happy whereas i see the efforts are only one sided. Maybe try talking to her nicely, not ignoring her ,having one conversation of the family situation that you're in right now which can be solved mutually instead of playing blame game that my mom is upset because you revealed the truth. No buddy. It's your families years of kachra that has come out now. Why blame poor akshu for it? ( Even if she did reveal)

- First be all desperate to marry her then blame her instead in 3 days that "marrying you is a mistake" . I think this dialogue should be coming from akshu's side, not abhi's side.

I haven't seen akshu do any major to deserve this treatment. She's literally being gaslighted, ignored by all members in Birla house. Yes, she may be immature. No human is perfect. Her decision to let manjari take her own decision can be immature like some people point out that she doesn't deserve to be a therapist and abhi is right in his stand for deciding for his mom. Lol, isme akshu ki galti kaha? Manjari herself doesn't want to leave Harsh and she thinks she would be much better staying with him and divorcing him. It's manjari's life and she has a right to decide. Not supporting abuse but if you look from her perspective, she isn't incorrect too- she has given everything to do this family and is obviously attached to her husband even if it's a one sided relation. Suddenly, asking a women at this age to leave behind all this is tough. Women at this age happily accept their fate. You can't force people to sign divorce papers. That's not how it works.

Akshu has literally done nothing to be treated like this just 3 days after her marriage!

And..abhimanyu birla says marriages are like this only. Maybe, abhimanyu birla if you opened your eyes and looked and appreciate the small gestures akshu is trying to do, looked at the understanding and patience of your wife, look at the way she is not reacting even after family members ill treament- maybe then you will understand you're actually very lucky.

It's very difficult to live with a man like abhimanyu who always wants thing to be his way. His way or highway!

Thanks for the tag. Just saw this 😂😂

Thanks for the tag!! I've been super busy with work so cannot respond to this in detail. All I'll say is that this entire fight between Abhira is entirely baseless & I hope it ends ASAP!