abhimaniyu's mothers stay away- sorry but he does not love akshara - Page 2

Originally posted by: beanstalk04

pray karo ki is track se TRP increase Na Ho Nahin to yah log Aisa Hi track future mein continue karenge.

Kartik ka bhi same hi issue tha. vah bhi shaadi ke baad badal gaya tha🤧

Originally posted by: pbv3434

did u saw online trp? it has already been decreased drastically so I don’t think barc ratings would increase..plus kundali is going through some major drama so there is no chance tht it will get increased..

Originally posted by: _charu_

If this tracks means anything, it's very realistic .

It's too soon for abhimanyu to change , not care for his mother, and support akshu everytime . Infact things will get worse in the future . It's akshus tendency to interfere in everybody's matters....abhimanyu will never ever stop caring for manjari .

good intentions , maturity , loving , goodness etc, doesn't really ensure that she will happily adjust in her sasural and everyone will accept her . If akshu was mature , she would have taken some time to understand every family member and act sensibly.....For a new bahu the gospel truth is what her husband tells her , her own feelings come later . Abhimanyu has been constantly telling her to stay awayfrom family matters.. he can't be more clear .he will understand once twice thrice but 4th time he will snap . It's natural .

Akshu is their fav scapegoat bec , they will keep blaming her. Its for akshu to take this as an opportunity to learn , be strong and learn to deal with birlas.

Very well said....

It's equally akshara mistake as well.

It's reality check for her and abhi also to understand each other..

Originally posted by: Aarthiviji

Very well said....

It's equally akshara mistake as well.

It's reality check for her and abhi also to understand each other..

After today's episode, I am sorry to say, but Abhimaniyu does not love Akshara. His dialogue- what you should hide you tell, and what you should say, you don't...followed by the nastiest look ever and his eye roll. You do not treat the person you love like that. Not even in your worst moment. This man has 0 trust for his wife. People saying that he loves her but does not trust her. Please enlighten me. What is love without trust? Is this really the same man who cried for Akshara every single day for months on end? Who made it his entire life's goal to marry her? Now that he has her, he treats her like shit. Every single day since they got married, he has gotten mad at her for things that were not even her fault. She has always been the one to make amends and give her explanations even when she was not wrong. She puts her ego and everything aside and prioritizes him. So why cannot he do the same with his anger? What has this poor girl done to deserve his anger every single day? Today Mahima forcefully grabbed Akshara's arm in the Goenka house and gave her the nasiest look. Why? Because Abhimaniyu allowed her to do so. She has seen the crack in their relationship and slowly everyone else in the Birla house will too, and they will take advantage. Without Abhimaniyu, Akshara is all alone in that vulture cage. I am not saying that Akshara cannot defend herself, but every human no matter how strong needs support. Is it really that huge of an ask to expect some support from your husband? Anyone can trust when times are easy. But it is when times get rough that the true colors are revealed. Abhimaniyu fails every time. Let us not forget that he never apologized for calling Akshu jhooti during the accident track.

Yes that's true.No matter how strong we are we need someone to support.

But after watching recent episodes I think I'm done with the show.

By the way,you wrote what's there in my mind.

Originally posted by: beanstalk04

TV trp is important. Waka Se actually paise ata hai. Online Se I think popularity ka pata chalta hai. 9:30 pm ke slot pe kitne log yrkkh dekhte hai woh trp important hota hai business Purpose se. End of the day. Yeh ek business hi toh hai jaha sab bread and butter ke liye kaam kar rahe hai. Mere issue yeh hai problem rakho but hero heroin ko ek dusre ka support system bhi toh banao . But yaha toh shaddi ke first week mai bin matlab ka misunderstanding create kar diya. Jaha koi heroin ke support mai nahi hai. Baad mai trp nahi aya toh koi bhi xyz logic laga ke sab tik kar dege. Yeh log hamesha aise hi karte hai. Bhavna bahut experiments karti hai. Kaira ki story ko tragic ending dene mai uska bahut bara yogdan hai.

Originally posted by: _charu_

If this tracks means anything, it's very realistic .

It's too soon for abhimanyu to change , not care for his mother, and support akshu everytime . Infact things will get worse in the future . It's akshus tendency to interfere in everybody's matters....abhimanyu will never ever stop caring for manjari .

good intentions , maturity , loving , goodness etc, doesn't really ensure that she will happily adjust in her sasural and everyone will accept her . If akshu was mature , she would have taken some time to understand every family member and act sensibly.....For a new bahu the gospel truth is what her husband tells her , her own feelings come later . Abhimanyu has been constantly telling her to stay awayfrom family matters.. he can't be more clear .he will understand once twice thrice but 4th time he will snap . It's natural .

Akshu is their fav scapegoat bec , they will keep blaming her. Its for akshu to take this as an opportunity to learn , be strong and learn to deal with birlas.

Lol ITV is not realistic or natural 😂 caring about your mother vs. being a mama's boy are two different things. It means he can't see where his mother is wrong and doesn't have a mind of his own. That's not a good thing. You should never be so blind in love that you can't see where someone is wrong.

Second, it's really sad that the daughter-in-law has to do so much to be "accepted" and that she has to learn to "deal" with them. This mentality makes the idea of couples living in joint families seem toxic af.

"For a new bahu the gospel truth is what her husband tells her , her own feelings come later." Uh what? Pathi parmeshwar amirite? So her own opinions and feelings don't matter? That's a little sexist, don't you think?

Also, getting angry doesn't mean you should ignore your wife and walk away everytime she tries to talk to you and have a conversation about what happened. At least he should give her the chance to explain. It's immature.

Originally posted by: Kabhi18

Lol ITV is not realistic or natural 😂 caring about your mother vs. being a mama's boy are two different things. It means he can't see where his mother is wrong and doesn't have a mind of his own. That's not a good thing. You should never be so blind in love that you can't see where someone is wrong.

Second, it's really sad that the daughter-in-law has to do so much to be "accepted" and that she has to learn to "deal" with them. This mentality makes the idea of couples living in joint families seem toxic af.

"For a new bahu the gospel truth is what her husband tells her , her own feelings come later." Uh what? Pathi parmeshwar amirite? So her own opinions and feelings don't matter? That's a little sexist, don't you think?

Also, getting angry doesn't mean you should ignore your wife and walk away everytime she tries to talk to you and have a conversation about what happened. At least he should give her the chance to explain. It's immature.

Mammas boys and caring boys both are realistic personalities . Good or bad , they are there.. caring only for the wife and being a wife's husband alone is as toxic as being mammas boy....Balancing is the key . This mentality of patience , understanding , compromising , flexibility , makes living In a family easy & peaceful, otherwise everyone has the choice to feed their big fat ego and live alone. Coz there is not one person here who will fulfill all your expectations ..if all your expectations are fulfilled where will I go? What about abhimanyus expectations?

It's not always about right and wrong . Abhimanyu may need time to process , n his first priority may be to look after his brother and mother and settle them first rather than fix blames or understand who did what and why . Conversations must never happen when someone is angry .

For a dil to be accepted , is her own choice. It's akshus choice not mine . This is her perspective , this is what she is striving for. That's her feelings ..may be I didn't use the right words..not her own feelings but her understanding of people in her sasural may be wrong bec it's been a few days in sasural for akshu while abhimanyu know them since childhood. It's only sensible that she listens to him than trusting her own judgement . Everything is not about sexism. It's about sense and practicality.

Ignoring the wife , walking away, not having conversations , wife keeping secrets ,not being able to tell the truth out of some.majboori or to avoid someone getting hurt , it's all a itv thing. Akshu is more unrealistic than abhimanyu imo coz she worships the ground that birlas walk upon while they care two hoots for her...plus her evil sister who she empowers... Aise sample kahan milte hain? Thats typical Tv bahu . Manjari & akshu. One can't get enuf of her toxic husband , the other can't get enuf of her evil sister aroo and the newly found toxic family. Abhimanyu still cares for her like nobody else otherwise her own brother and goenka family put aroo above her. Not listening to her once isn't a crime.its circumstantial. Just as akshu getting involved in his family matter is..