Member topic. Have you been called Homosexual because you are single.. - Page 8

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Okay, so you did have a serious relationship before getting married. That counts. Did you have a love marriage? That counts too.

Nothing was serious. Most people were busy running behind career or a rich guy or girl in college. I became so busy in my hospitality career after my post graduation. I faced a horrible depression after which I took break from relationships. I got married in arrange marriage.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

I have single friends who are straight. I have single friends who are queer. I don't get the logic behind wondering if a single person is gay. Relationship status has nothing to do with sexual orientation. It's a personal choice. Some people just don't like being in relationships. Some people struggle to maintain relationships. One of my friends would love to be in a relationship but has struggled with depression and drug use.

Also in homophobic countries (which was 99% of the world up until very recently) gay people had more reasons to be in relationships/marriage -- they'd marry early and try to cover up ya know. Straight people had the luxury to marry late or remain single as they had no fear of people finding their 'secret'. Gay/lesbian people, on the other hand, often married early and urgently because 1) they thought by marrying they'd be able to 'change' their sexuality and be done with it once and for all, 2) felt people would stop questioning them and suspecting them, and 3) family members, if they found out about them, would force them to marry to protect family's honor or whatnot...

So yeah suspecting a person to be gay just based on their single status is pretty silly.

On topic - yeah people suspect it but that's because I never try to hide it. But I don't give an answer either way. My sexuality isn't anyone else's business to speculate.

No I have not been call anything for being single

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

So, you are gay?

Khash mai gay hota, koi toh milta.

Originally posted by: IWILLDIESINGLE

Khash mai gay hota, koi toh milta.

Even gays have standards you know. 😆 J/K.

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Even gays have standards you know. 😆 J/K.

woh bhi sach hain

What's being single got to do anything with homosexuality? 😳

Originally posted by: IWILLDIESINGLE

woh bhi sach hain

Kuch standard nahi hai , kisi bhi gay app pe pic ke sath profile bana le , you will get 100 of people in next two days

Originally posted by: S_H_Y

Kuch standard nahi hai , kisi bhi gay app pe pic ke sath profile bana le , you will get 100 of people in next two days

Kyun faswa rahe ho bechare ko. Suna hai isme mostly blackmail karne wale hote hain 😆