Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 01 Jun 2022 - Page 6

Originally posted by: V_ka_attitude

Messaged BV and she says what I am saying is unnecessary! and that all adopted kids are happy. I told her I didn't doubt that adopted kids were not happy - I was talking about the young anu not fitting the orphan profile - again kids are either adopted at a very early age and they don't remember anything else, or if they are adopted at a later stage come with a lot of anxiety, fear, rejection, hard time making bonds etc - and I have seen this myself with many families adopting here in the US - Yes post-adoption they are family there is no distinction but the circumstances from where they come are different and what shapes them

Also that there were loopholes in her scripting - that needed to be explained that the process takes a long time and it is strenuous for all parties involved! You can't waltz in and take a child to the beach! There are no gove rules! What is that?

She doesn't care for my opinion - She cannot accept that she is wrong - Oh well...

these are Bhavana Vyas' responses:

I know what the procedure is

I am adopted. I am the happiest person I hv ever seen. Since childhood.

Anyways there is no point in the discussion

all u want is to rant on something, baccha khush to problem.

Don’t bug on unnecessary things. Thanks. Please.

On that note - this writer/producer has no clue how to properly deal with such topics - that's why they need to stick with love stories, festivals, marriages and saas bahu dramas, not take up social messaging which is clearly out of their subject matter expertise.

Hats off to you for messaging her.

Unpopular opinion: This is her writing, her screenplay. She has the right to take it any direction she wants. If a writer asks for her/his reader's opinions, I will keep mine. But the moment I realize that they don't mean a thing then I would never give my feedback again. As far as I have seen BV has not shown any care for anyone's criticism, she feels she is writing a masterpiece..no offense to that. Fair would be either I read it quietly or leave quietly. No point in cribbing and pleading her to change the story. Now only offline audience can do something but I do not feel TRP 2.8 se kam hoga. Indian audience is bearing YRKKH for 14 years.. so.. please don't take any offense 🙏

Originally posted by: V_ka_attitude

Messaged BV and she says what I am saying is unnecessary! and that all adopted kids are happy. I told her I didn't doubt that adopted kids were not happy - I was talking about the young anu not fitting the orphan profile - again kids are either adopted at a very early age and they don't remember anything else, or if they are adopted at a later stage come with a lot of anxiety, fear, rejection, hard time making bonds etc - and I have seen this myself with many families adopting here in the US - Yes post-adoption they are family there is no distinction but the circumstances from where they come are different and what shapes them

Also that there were loopholes in her scripting - that needed to be explained that the process takes a long time and it is strenuous for all parties involved! You can't waltz in and take a child to the beach! There are no gove rules! What is that?

She doesn't care for my opinion - She cannot accept that she is wrong - Oh well...

these are Bhavana Vyas' responses:

I know what the procedure is

I am adopted. I am the happiest person I hv ever seen. Since childhood.

Anyways there is no point in the discussion

all u want is to rant on something, baccha khush to problem.

Don’t bug on unnecessary things. Thanks. Please.

On that note - this writer/producer has no clue how to properly deal with such topics - that's why they need to stick with love stories, festivals, marriages and saas bahu dramas, not take up social messaging which is clearly out of their subject matter expertise.

very good ab isse pucho kya isne apne parents ki property mein se kuch bhi lene se mana kar diya ya nahi

aur reh kaha rahi h apne ghar mein ya parents ke ghar mein

aur agar parents ke ghar mein to unhe kiraya de rahi h na because according to her adopted child ka to koi haq nahi hota h parents ki property par bhale hi wo uski mehnat se asmaan par pahuchi ho😵

Originally posted by: strancho

Hats off to you for messaging her.

Unpopular opinion: This is her writing, her screenplay. She has the right to take it any direction she wants. If a writer asks for her/his reader's opinions, I will keep mine. But the moment I realize that they don't mean a thing then I would never give my feedback again. As far as I have seen BV has not shown any care for anyone's criticism, she feels she is writing a masterpiece..no offense to that. Fair would be either I read it quietly or leave quietly. No point in cribbing and pleading her to change the story. Now only offline audience can do something but I do not feel TRP 2.8 se kam hoga. Indian audience is bearing YRKKH for 14 years.. so.. please don't take any offense 🙏

I totally agree, and I ended with that same note, that thanks for reading a different point if view, in the end this is her story/screenplay, RS production and appreciated bringing up a social message of adoption and left it at that.

From now, just going to keep my mouth shut, except in the forum hahhaha will troll them that is if I even watch the show, no one is forcing me to watch, but damn addicted because if GK.

So will watch what's dished out

Originally posted by: Amykapadia

Another one i am terribly afraid off is the intercaste track they want to bring. The way they are handled DV and the way they are handling the adoption, i don't want this to happen. But this may just blow up in shahi's face in a really really bad way...

Don't know if they will truly show that..Dont know why but I feel these rumors are circulated by PH itself. But one wrong word in any dialogue can incite protest or worse communal riots.

The acting and dialogues are very good. But the story is out of place so I can't connect. This whole week is a filler. Is Kinju baby crazy? Why was she dancing with a teddy in this stage of pregnancy? MaAn behaves like couple married for 50 years.

Good morning peepss🤗❤... woke up super late today so just came in to say helloo... Vaibhsss... thanks for all the reviews and tags and sharing your chat with BV 🤗😘😘 Pooja tags ke liye ❤😘

That female doesnt give two hoots for anything the viewer says . Anywaym. No point in banging my head subah subah ..

Have a super day ahead 🤗

Originally posted by: V_ka_attitude

Messaged BV and she says what I am saying is unnecessary! and that all adopted kids are happy. I told her I didn't doubt that adopted kids were not happy - I was talking about the young anu not fitting the orphan profile - again kids are either adopted at a very early age and they don't remember anything else, or if they are adopted at a later stage come with a lot of anxiety, fear, rejection, hard time making bonds etc - and I have seen this myself with many families adopting here in the US - Yes post-adoption they are family there is no distinction but the circumstances from where they come are different and what shapes them

Also that there were loopholes in her scripting - that needed to be explained that the process takes a long time and it is strenuous for all parties involved! You can't waltz in and take a child to the beach! There are no gove rules! What is that?

She doesn't care for my opinion - She cannot accept that she is wrong - Oh well...

these are Bhavana Vyas' responses:

I know what the procedure is

I am adopted. I am the happiest person I hv ever seen. Since childhood.

Anyways there is no point in the discussion

all u want is to rant on something, baccha khush to problem.

Don’t bug on unnecessary things. Thanks. Please.

On that note - this writer/producer has no clue how to properly deal with such topics - that's why they need to stick with love stories, festivals, marriages and saas bahu dramas, not take up social messaging which is clearly out of their subject matter expertise.

I don’t understand why she even comes out to respond if all she wants to say to ppl is “ pakao mat “ or “ not waste her time “ !!! Weird lady ...

Even if she was adopted and was the “ happiest person ever “ since childhood, what exactly made her write those crappy dialogues on “ Anaath ka haath “ and pile on that unnecessary trauma and guilt on Anuj always for being an adopted child .. Woh toh GK performs well so it’s watchable otherwise most of it was pretty pathetic 1970s movie type writing and totally OTT melodrama... N let’s not go into how she felt it was right that Anuj had no rights over the empire he himself created with his hard work and felt he was only a “ pehredaar” ... As a person who is adopted I would have expected better sense and handling of the issue from her atleast ...

No point getting into verbal wars with her I guess ... She’s in her own la la land ... Glad most of us have already reached the stage of successfully detatching ourselves from the show ...

https://twitter.com/KanShubs/status/1531809948467752960?t=wIvzDAkhc9dvC9g9EFlcJw&s=19

Originally posted by: ga1986

I don’t understand why she even comes out to respond if all she wants to say to ppl is “ pakao mat “ or “ not waste her time “ !!! Weird lady ...

Even if she was adopted and was the “ happiest person ever “ since childhood, what exactly made her write those crappy dialogues on “ Anaath ka haath “ and pile on that unnecessary trauma and guilt on Anuj always for being an adopted child .. Woh toh GK performs well so it’s watchable otherwise most of it was pretty pathetic 1970s movie type writing and totally OTT melodrama... N let’s not go into how she felt it was right that Anuj had no rights over the empire he himself created with his hard work and felt he was only a “ pehredaar” ... As a person who is adopted I would have expected better sense and handling of the issue from her atleast ...

No point getting into verbal wars with her I guess ... She’s in her own la la land ... Glad most of us have already reached the stage of successfully detatching ourselves from the show ...

Truth be told, I'm quite in shock that she being an adopted child wrote things like that during Mukku drama. I'm a caretaker etc etc and that adopted child has no rights etc.

It's mind boggling. I pity her mental state. Anyway, this show absolutely makes zero sense. It's my fault i thought an itv show would be path breaking. .

All that it is breaking is having any form of logic and common sense.

According to me, this new barkha bhabhi track will.come

Ak will be phased out. Anu will be Maa to choti Anu, take care of everything. Kapadia's, shah and enterprises

Thats all. That's how the show will continue

Originally posted by: V_ka_attitude

https://twitter.com/KanShubs/status/1531809948467752960?t=wIvzDAkhc9dvC9g9EFlcJw&s=19

There is nothing called as MaAn thing anymore. It is Sab-MaAn thing for everyone

And by everyone I mean literally everyone.