Good Bye peeps

Well I am tired maybe, coz neither I could relate with the plot not thinking process of everyone who understands the suffering that is shown in the serial.

I had came to the show for Aryan but had stayed coz they had shown strife and also work culture problems. I thought they would focus on things like overtime and less payment, how actually job world works, how a girl moves on in life mentally, how she accepts herself and become strong. Neither was I in for sudden marriage ( I was a fool thinking they will marry later after she completely moves on from Adi on her own and becomes strong) I even thought she would buy house with her earnings and bring Meethi to the City, gift her mobile with her own salary and everything.

But it turned towards the problems which might be common but was so fast in execution that I am still stuck to Arylie before marriage. Kya hua kaise hua kuch samajh nehi aaya ... Sorry.

I don't care if the society is regressive I try to stay positive, I was the one who changed sex from taboo subject to a normal and imp talk in my house, I made my parents open about LGBTQ community in my house. First I used to fight but then slowly and slowly when things normalised my parents got comfortable to such things. But the things shown in the serial gets me into stress and fill my mental health with the feel that I can't relate with them as well as I can't do anything to help the real people who are suffering.That gives me a guilt feeling too somewhere down the lane.

Many of you are older to me, married and can relate. I a genz fail in that matter maybe because I got too much freedom unlike many others.

So goodbye I won't join any talk about this series anymore as I can't relate to it and let everyone come at me with counter attacks that I am the one who might have the wrong opinions here. I might be the one who don't want to understand reality.

My reality will never be this but I wanted to give the show a chance to bring my empathy out towards the issues but I failed to relate. My fault so sorry and goodbye.

Hope you all enjoy the serial as always and support it👍🏼

Yours Mimi

Originally posted by: MiuniS

Well I am tired maybe, coz neither I could relate with the plot not thinking process of everyone who understands the suffering that is shown in the serial.

I had came to the show for Aryan but had stayed coz they had shown strife and also work culture problems. I thought they would focus on things like overtime and less payment, how actually job world works, how a girl moves on in life mentally, how she accepts herself and become strong. Neither was I in for sudden marriage ( I was a fool thinking they will marry later after she completely moves on from Adi on her own and becomes strong) I even thought she would buy house with her earnings and bring Meethi to the City, gift her mobile with her own salary and everything.

But it turned towards the problems which might be common but was so fast in execution that I am still stuck to Arylie before marriage. Kya hua kaise hua kuch samajh nehi aaya ... Sorry.

I don't care if the society is regressive I try to stay positive, I was the one who changed sex from taboo subject to a normal and imp talk in my house, I made my parents open about LGBTQ community in my house. First I used to fight but then slowly and slowly when things normalised my parents got comfortable to such things. But the things shown in the serial gets me into stress and fill my mental health with the feel that I can't relate with them as well as I can't do anything to help the real people who are suffering.That gives me a guilt feeling too somewhere down the lane.

Many of you are older to me, married and can relate. I a genz fail in that matter maybe because I got too much freedom unlike many others.

So goodbye I won't join any talk about this series anymore as I can't relate to it and let everyone come at me with counter attacks that I am the one who might have the wrong opinions here. I might be the one who don't want to understand reality.

My reality will never be this but I wanted to give the show a chance to bring my empathy out towards the issues but I failed to relate. My fault so sorry and goodbye.

Hope you all enjoy the serial as always and support it👍🏼

Yours Mimi

Mimi big hug to you.🤗 Do what is best for you. But remember everyone has right to an opinion, everyone thinks differently so no one is right nor wrong. So always stand for what you believe and no need to apologize.

We are what we are thanks to our family, our circumstances, our background and definitely our own thinking.

I can sympathize with whats shown but I too feel its wrong to show to mass audience. I had mentioned the reason in one of my posts, human mind is complicated, when we see something repeatedly we tend to accept it as ok. It is not ok.

People may say stories are written or inspired from real life incidents, this may be true to some extent but do we only need to show plights and sufferings and why are we sadist, ok to see sufferings even in reel? For me I would rather see a documentary on real life issues but for me movies or dramas are source of entertainment and I would prefer romcom or mysteries. If they are attempting to touch a social issue then try to do justice to it. Not a half baked attempt. So I am not OK with whats been shown either.

As a society we need to create awareness. Through our discussions, we can together bring a change in peoples outlook by making them realize it is not ok to suffer, it is wrong to abuse and equally wrong to tolerate abuse in any form. How much it brings a change, god knows but we can atleast give a try?

Lastly, dont take anything to heart. Remember its fiction, its reel. And makers are here to make money not for social cause. If its affecting you so bad, yes please get off this roller coaster ride.

I had pasted the lyrics from Sinf e Aahan OST in another post. Listen to that song, its beautiful.

" Tu nahin Kamzor, Aa laga le Zor"

🤗I understand where you are coming from, i enjoy much freedom in my house before or after marriage. It hurts me on personal level on the issue of infertile because i am going through similar phase. The makers might doing this for awareness but the way they have potrayed is ridiculous they could have done much better. I am still here because of the two actors i too have stopped watching because i wanted something progressive its too much to expect from ITV i guess🤗all the best but please do keep writing ff your writing is amazing!! Eventually i will detach too the way show is going

Do whatever is best for you

Do write your ff but

Tc

To both big hugs🤗

@blackfaree....Though at times we may relate it to our own issues but know we all have our own journey to follow. We will get whats destined and at right time too. You are blessed and you will be blessed with more happiness❤️

@mimi.....sorry if you felt cornered. You dont need to apologize for your thoughts. Your thoughts deserve respect as much as others. So agree to disagree respectfully and move away but you dont need to retreat or give up ever.

Dont take anything to heart that is shown on the show. Many things are so illogic that I laugh at myself for even trying to make sense. Its just a reel.

Originally posted by: anabh

Mimi big hug to you.🤗 Do what is best for you. But remember everyone has right to an opinion, everyone thinks differently so no one is right nor wrong. So always stand for what you believe and no need to apologize.

We are what we are thanks to our family, our circumstances, our background and definitely our own thinking.

I can sympathize with whats shown but I too feel its wrong to show to mass audience. I had mentioned the reason in one of my posts, human mind is complicated, when we see something repeatedly we tend to accept it as ok. It is not ok.

People may say stories are written or inspired from real life incidents, this may be true to some extent but do we only need to show plights and sufferings and why are we sadist, ok to see sufferings even in reel? For me I would rather see a documentary on real life issues but for me movies or dramas are source of entertainment and I would prefer romcom or mysteries. If they are attempting to touch a social issue then try to do justice to it. Not a half baked attempt. So I am not OK with whats been shown either.

As a society we need to create awareness. Through our discussions, we can together bring a change in peoples outlook by making them realize it is not ok to suffer, it is wrong to abuse and equally wrong to tolerate abuse in any form. How much it brings a change, god knows but we can atleast give a try?

Lastly, dont take anything to heart. Remember its fiction, its reel. And makers are here to make money not for social cause. If its affecting you so bad, yes please get off this roller coaster ride.

I had pasted the lyrics from Sinf e Aahan OST in another post. Listen to that song, its beautiful.

" Tu nahin Kamzor, Aa laga le Zor"

When Pakistani dramas say it's about social messages and women empowerment they really make on them. This song gives goosebumps everytime I am hearing. ( Listening in loop)

Thank you for your support❤️ Sometimes I listen to this kind of songs when it feels hard as education is a necessity for a person like me rather luxury.I was always feed with the word that I am the next bread winner of the family being the single child. Never to compromise or bow down at any costs hence whenever the study pressure is more I listen to motivational songs.

Originally posted by: blackfaree

🤗I understand where you are coming from, i enjoy much freedom in my house before or after marriage. It hurts me on personal level on the issue of infertile because i am going through similar phase. The makers might doing this for awareness but the way they have potrayed is ridiculous they could have done much better. I am still here because of the two actors i too have stopped watching because i wanted something progressive its too much to expect from ITV i guess🤗all the best but please do keep writing ff your writing is amazing!! Eventually i will detach too the way show is going

Remember dear the issue of infertility you are facing is a phase of life not like the show where the whole life revolves around it. Since it's reality you may find perfect solution (I am being on the positive side) but even if you don't you need to accept it in the end of the day. I pray for the best for you❤️

Also I will say that if you feel negative on personal level for the show stay away from it. My distance started after their marriage because for me ideal marriage age is more. During 20 one's mind is also not developed and capable enough to take decisions. They are still in Budding age called the Young Adult but as more I am seeing the show it's hard for me to accept. The portrayal is brass, when Bm gives dialogues I am very sure many women felt like she was telling them personally. It just works as salt on wounds in my perspective. ITV was progressive once just now a member messaged me for this goodbye post and she has a daughter near 20. She said the things they are showing that's not how everything works. She even calmed me with her insight. And indeed serials of her time like Shanti(women empowerment) and Idhar Udhar(Comedy) were really good(Try if you never tried them they are real watchable stuffs).

I will keep on with the FF definitely and won't disappoint my readers.❤️

❤️Yes i take it postively and corect things BM says its personal to some women. Yes i have watched old shows that were far more progressive than this so called modern as they say. I personally didnt mind them getting married however they could have developed the character with complexities of young adulthood transitioning and what not. Of course Aryan as support to his wife. I wont watch episodes however DT IS ADDICTING and people there are so funny that acutally appease my mind. Wow though must say arylie made people addicted and in jiffy makers ruined it .. i never watch shows left ITV 15 years ago because of same repotativr crap and Here first timr arylie attracted

Me and how! I started writing ff on them , obsessed but it took one track to slap me back to reality🤣but anyways we shall be in touch through your ff❤️

Originally posted by: MiuniS

When Pakistani dramas say it's about social messages and women empowerment they really make on them. This song gives goosebumps everytime I am hearing. ( Listening in loop)

Thank you for your support❤️ Sometimes I listen to this kind of songs when it feels hard as education is a necessity for a person like me rather luxury.I was always feed with the word that I am the next bread winner of the family being the single child. Never to compromise or bow down at any costs hence whenever the study pressure is more I listen to motivational songs.

The show is good too. 5 women from different upbringings, how they overcome their fears, their weaknesses and realize their dreams.

Nothing is impossible ( I M Possible) if you are determined❤️

For you🤗

" Hum apne geet likhenge

Hum apni reet likhenge"

"Najuk keh khar waar kare joh

Tod de ungli

Rasme saari tod kar aaye

Ab sunein mann ki

Mitti ki Gudiya na samjhey ab humein koi

Ahsaas tere kadam

Pehchaan Tu Sinf e Aahan (Woman of Iron)"

There is another show on environment/climate changes, water issues " Mor Maharan" in background of landlords, politics and romance. It just started in May so still need to see how it progresses.