Wouldn't Aarohi's fate too be like manjari's?

As the series is progressing ahead, i am seeing how a loveless marriage has impacted manjari. Abhimanyu is so angry on harsh for his bad treatment and ignorance towards manjari. He very well knows how loveless marriage are like- the trauma, the severity and consequences on it on both parties. Yet, he was voluntarily marrying aarohi. He made it clear to her it would be a loveless marriage. If he is so affected by what happened with manjari, how was he allowing history to repeat with Aarohi? No matter what ifs and buts I get to hear, he still knew that marriage does raise expectations in girls and how manjari was affected because of the toxic marriage, yet he was willing aarohi to have the same fate. Would abhi want to celebrate his marriage anniversary with Aarohi? Would abhi feed aarohi cake? Remember how he used to treat her in wedding functions like she is non existent. Are father and son any different? He was ready to give aarohi the same trauma his mother went through. I'm sure in future aarohi too would have been hurt with a public insult and she would have realized that how abhi is completely ignoring her. We see how aarohi is affected by abhira's happy married life and about people who are in relationships. She like any other girl too would have prayed husband's acceptance. Wouldn't Aarohi's ego be hurt if she and abhi lived in the same room, yet abhi wouldn't touch or look at her? She wanted to win Abhi by marrying him but wouldn't she feel like a loser at every step after marriage as that guy wouldn't care about her.

Harsh too may have married manjari in family pressure and similar conditions. So abhi taking similar decision and making aarohi go through same fate is something indigestible for me. It makes abhimanyu a hypocrite. I know I'm going to be bashed by abhi lovers but he too is no less.

Aarohi is no bechari like manjari and maybe she wouldn't have cared much as people will say she married only for money but still it wouldn't lessen Abhimanyu's ill treatment. Just because he is the lead and he is in love with akshara, he will be excused- NO. He too is similar to his dad and was going to do the same thing.

You're right that abhimanyu was being ignorant when he proposed arohi a loveless marriage..but abhimanyu is the kind of guy who was avoiding to get married before he met akshara for the same reason that he didn't want to have a loveless marriage like his parents..but things changed when he met akshara and fell in love with her..

But after his mother fell sick and situation went out of his control..he ended up making a mistake of proposing aarohi but he also mentioned the terms and conditions of that marriage..and arohi agreed to it..we don't know why manjari agreed to marry harsh yet so we can't compare her situation with arohi's situation..plus manjari is a housewife who is not independent like aarohi..arohi is a topper and a successful doctor...there is no comparison between her and manjari..arohi has the freedom to take her life decisions..she's not a bechari or victim like manjari..

Goenkas have always supported arohi's decisions..but maybe manjari wasn't that privileged. So it was arohi's conscious decision to accept the loveless marriage proposal from abhimanyu.

That's why i say that it would've been nice if arohi herself backed out from marrying abhimanyu after witnessing his rude behavior towards her in marriage functions and rejected him then and there..that would've been praiseworthy..but arohi being the desperate delusional girl that she is went till mandap and got herself embarrassed and humiliated by getting rejected by abhimanyu at the last moment..

So abhimanyu did a good thing by finally refusing to marry arohi even if it was late..its better to overcome the humiliation for one day rather than living a whole life in a loveless marriage and getting humiliated everyday.

Firstly, the whole Aarohi-Abhi marriage track was stupid, for the lack of a better word. It left a whole lot to be desired.

However, the main difference between Aarohi-Abhi and Harsh-Mahima is the fact that Abhi was very clear about his expectations being nil from her. He went to her with a business deal and not a proper marriage - she gets his name, which she wanted, and he gets to fulfil his mother's wish.

Here we see Manjari wanting to celebrate her anniversary but unable to do so because of Harsh's attitude and reservations. As we don't know how they ended up being married, we can't really comment on where their bitterness started. But I don't think she went into the marriage knowing that her husband did not want a relationship with her.

On the other hand, Aarohi went with the plan of marrying Abhi after having known that he loved Akshu and Akshu loved him. She knowingly decided to get married to Abhi even when he clearly told her that he did not love her and would always love Akshara. Would such a person even want to celebrate their anniversary for "romantic" reasons and not as a part of PR?

And given the fact that Abhi exists, we know that H-M at least conceived him at some point. Seeing how Abhi's behavior was with Aaru, would they ever have ended up with a kid? This is not me romanticising sleeping with your partner, but more seeing how Abhi was with Aaru. Would the kind of person that Abhi is shown to be, would he ever be able to have a comfortable physical relationship with Aarohi?

And if they did eventually end up with a child, Abhi would have done anything for him - he loves Manjari, Neil and Akshu unconditionally - he would do the same for his child. If his child would have wanted him to celebrate his anniversary, yes, Abhi might have complied.

Aarohi is no Manjari - she does not sit quiet and wait to be acknowledged. She is Mahima - she willingly and knowingly plays her cards for her benefit. Be it her wedding with Abhi, be it tampering with the evidence of the accident, be it hiding the fire incident and taking credit for the pooja, be it emotionally manipulating Akshu if needed, or her constant need to be number 1.

They might have ended up in a loveless marriage. But nope, she would not be the victim.

Originally posted by: borntorule12

As the series is progressing ahead, i am seeing how a loveless marriage has impacted manjari. Abhimanyu is so angry on harsh for his bad treatment and ignorance towards manjari. He very well knows how loveless marriage are like- the trauma, the severity and consequences on it on both parties. Yet, he was voluntarily marrying aarohi. He made it clear to her it would be a loveless marriage. If he is so affected by what happened with manjari, how was he allowing history to repeat with Aarohi? No matter what ifs and buts I get to hear, he still knew that marriage does raise expectations in girls and how manjari was affected because of the toxic marriage, yet he was willing aarohi to have the same fate. Would abhi want to celebrate his marriage anniversary with Aarohi? Would abhi feed aarohi cake? Remember how he used to treat her in wedding functions like she is non existent. Are father and son any different? He was ready to give aarohi the same trauma his mother went through. I'm sure in future aarohi too would have been hurt with a public insult and she would have realized that how abhi is completely ignoring her. We see how aarohi is affected by abhira's happy married life and about people who are in relationships. She like any other girl too would have prayed husband's acceptance. Wouldn't Aarohi's ego be hurt if she and abhi lived in the same room, yet abhi wouldn't touch or look at her? She wanted to win Abhi by marrying him but wouldn't she feel like a loser at every step after marriage as that guy wouldn't care about her.

Harsh too may have married manjari in family pressure and similar conditions. So abhi taking similar decision and making aarohi go through same fate is something indigestible for me. It makes abhimanyu a hypocrite. I know I'm going to be bashed by abhi lovers but he too is no less.

Aarohi is no bechari like manjari and maybe she wouldn't have cared much as people will say she married only for money but still it wouldn't lessen Abhimanyu's ill treatment. Just because he is the lead and he is in love with akshara, he will be excused- NO. He too is similar to his dad and was going to do the same thing.

Also, obviously we don't know what would have happened had the confession not happened that day, but I still stand by the fact that there is a huge possibility that Abhi would have not gone through with the marriage anyways. We already saw him hurting his finger so that he wouldn't have to get engaged, not touching the haldi, etc. He would have done everything possible to not get married.

When it comes to Harsh-Manjari - we have no idea how they got married or ended up in this situation. Did Harsh make clear to Manjari that this would be a loveless marriage? Even then, there is a difference between a loveless and an abusive marriage. But, one thing is for sure. Harsh abuses Manjari on a day to day basis with his yelling and taunts. He does not know how to respect women. Abhi, on the other hand, has respect for even Aarohi - the woman he hates. He knows how to value people and not degrade them. So, at the very minimum, he would have never treated Aarohi in the way that Harsh treats Manjari -- that much is a given to me.

I disagree that Abhi is similar to Harsh. In fact, he is the quite opposite of Harsh in so many ways. Yes, one thing is the same -- their anger. But, even then, Abhi's anger is a result of his childhood trauma and his defense mechanism. It comes out when he is triggered. Harsh's anger comes out on a daily basis and he degrades his wife and daughter in law constantly because of it. He uses it as a means to abuse others. So, even there, they are different.

Why do you even try expressing your views on this forum? It seems that no one can tolerate differing opinions. I know a huge chunk of people were kicked off and chased away by toxic Abhira fans.