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See a leap brings age in the story .. so long they are doing ok .. they won’t make them parents ..

because once the kids are there .. then generation change Ho jata hai ..

Thanks for bringing this up. It is infact a very interesting aspect, which I intend to explore in that "Execution" post. I have my pointers, but I want to be more free and unbiased in my mind to write that.

I'm leaving out the acting bit, because it kind of dilutes my attempt and the interpretation at this.

As humans, we are selfish in our love, with our love. We want to have it to ourselves. While we need them, we expect the other to need us in the same way. That is natural. If our world revolved around a person, we expect it to be the same for the other person.

Virat is well aware of KJ's importance in Sai's life. That is a fact he has always known, accepted and respected. Every time Sai compared him to her father, he felt proud. Coming from the daughter of his idol that he resembles him is huge compliment to him. An acknowledgment that gives him a boost, an assurance that he is like KJ, and that is something he aspires for. Remember the scene where she tells him "Aap mere Aaba ke pairon ke nakhoon ke barabar bhi nahi hai". It had pained him, especially because it came from her. She is like an assessor, who has the parameters defined, who marks and measures him and validates against them and her verdict is unparalleled wrt KJ.

Coming to the crucial differentiating factor. Father vs Spouse. Living Vs Dead. While he respects all her emotions and attachments wrt KJ it is on the premise of her ethical foundation and father - daughter relationship. He simultaneously has certain expectations as a spouse. When she refers or remembers KJ in a situation he understands her pain and where it is coming from. But it is an emotion attached to memories, an attachment to someone who "WAS" HER WORLD, her reference point for all her problems and queries. V "IS" HER WORLD, and that is the reassurance he constantly seeks in her words and actions. "The selfish desire to be needed". Referring to the college felicitation scene during SH track, V was hurt by Sai's speech. Not because she reiterated KJ's importance in her life, but she omitted him in a space parallel to KJ in importance. The credit of him being her own. He craves the same dependency and authority on him that she had on KJ but as a spouse. With KJ no more, he expects her to turn to him as her own without a doubt or fear, with complete comfort instinctively in every single need. Because in the land of living he wants them as one and he wants her to accept and function in that manner. He is her only person she reaches out for the smallest and most inconsequential to the most grave things without a hesitation. And every time she fails to acknowledge this fact in her actions, or leaves him out in her sorrow, he feels hurt. He wants a parallel space in Sai' life where the matches he importance of KJ, but in the capacity of a spouse in the land of the living.

To link this directly to the dialogues you have mentioned, I will not say Sai was wrong. It is the difference in interpretation. The difference between past and present, was and is, as evident as day and night. She only referred to that point when she lost KJ, she is nowhere denying the presence and importance of V in her life, in her present. It is how it is perceived by Virat

PS - Sorry I wrote that long post to finally share such a short direct response in the end. Just wanted to detail out the backdrop to make my perspective more clear.

Yes, I know but what will they show after this track bcoz no story is left and if Pakhi will either exposed or whitewashed, she'll have to leave CN anyhow, coz Samrat is dead, she is young, so not going to stay their as widow, hence it'll be happy ending for Sairat, so they need to show something which will keep Pakhi in CN.

Plus Vankar & even Neil for that matter has many times stressed on this fact in their IVs that ppl are attached to their show and curious that how will Sai & Virat will unite, that's the main point of show two ppl who are much in love, how will they unite crossing all obstacles, their union is not the USP but the journey and road to their reunion is USP, hence they'll seperate them to increase curiosity that how will they unite again, the reunion of Sairat after separation always brings them Trp, example, first shootout of Virat, Sai's kidnap by Sada.

So, separation seems inevitable, plus they showed consummation of Sairat, hence I think it was build up for leap, otherwise it wasn't required to show a rushed consummation, which is major point in all shows!

Yes. This is because both failed in their understanding of each other. There was clear expectation vs reality gap. But in all this Virat had the most contradicting statements. He feels she hates him and he says she is taking pity on him. On one hand he claimed to understand her and on the other hand he completely failed to see her pain & suffering. Even today that is an untouched chapter.

They ruined the character completely during this track, worst writing of the entire show. Even after redeeming there will be traces always.

Originally posted by: sherry_24

Yes. This is because both failed in their understanding of each other. There was clear expectation vs reality gap. But in all this Virat had the most contradicting statements. He feels she hates him and he says she is taking pity on him. On one hand he claimed to understand her and on the other hand he completely failed to see her pain & suffering. Even today that is a untouched chapter.

They ruined the character completely during this track, worst writing of the entire show. Even after redeeming there will be traces always.

that’s because of their propensity for drama .. they got remarried 2-3 weeks .. they could have used those moments to show conversations in important matters where they have erred .. but we have to assume they have talked about it because everything is hunky dory between them . And we are focusing on career vs bahu

Now on the starting she gets a rogue boss… and we know he’s vile .. but before we can reflect on it they brought in jagtap.

So won’t this Jiten lakwani get irritated ..

Don't get me started on that. Their tendency to skip crucial scenes and facts and leave it to assumptions and understanding irks me to no length.

Kindergarden se seedha senior school mein jump marte hai. They throw bouncers at us all the time

The problem has not been that Virat errs or makes mistakes, it's the lack of reflection and the complete ignorance and sidelining of Sais suffering by makers n him.

We all know he has noble intentions, he himself is righteous, dutiful, gentlemanly , gives people benefit of doubt and also that he believes in equality, takes pride in Sai's education and achievements. he wants to support her dreams. He had lot of regard for Sais father. All that is why Sai loves him and audience knows that too.

The problem is that he shows NO growth.

Sai has mellowed down, made adjustments in her behavior because now she treats Vs family no matter how flawed as her own. She has shown a shift.

But where is Vs growth?

Theres no use of his grand gestures such as name change if eventually his behavior when it comes to handling conflicts of Sai vs family is completely unchanged.

If he continues to lie/hide things, to be non confrontational in his approach until things get to a point of no return then he has learnt no lessons.

This is exactly what he did before.

Hiding things, or waiting until things got really bad. Whether that be ladakh trip with pp, his past with pp and how that came to light or shruti kaand.

He may stand by Sai but he does not shield her from his vile family.

And he has completely changed the narrative of suggesting that Sai came up with deal clause. There has neen no apology from him to Sai till date.

How can they onit such crucial scenes?!

If he cant take a tough stand even now or at least be shown "thinking" about it even if it doesn't happen- like moving out of CN to prioritize Sai over all else.

He claims Sai is most important, he should be in the post confession "honeymoon" phase so how come he still remains so thanda in all his responses pertaining to Sai.

Similarly he continues to give benefit of doubt, respect to people who absolutely don't deserve it. So what has he learnt?!

Tomm if pp latches onto him for support when Sam dies, V should take a stand despite all the pity he feels for her state or grief or guilt he may feel. He should understand that pp has enough other people to comfort and care for her and thus draw a clear boundary. If he fails to do so, then he has learnt nothing. Even if Sai herself shows trust and understanding and does not voice any discomfort, V needs to realize where his boundaries are. Pp cant become his next project. She has support even if he didn't exist. She has her parents, friends, she has bk and gang who keep acting as if she is the most ideal bahu to ever walk the planet. So it does not fall on him to be her friend, confidante and support.

But we all know this WONT happen. And thats not ok.

I'm desperately hoping Samrat does not die saving either Virat or Sai. But we know that is going to happen.

Even if he does and they are guilt ridden, grief stricken theres still NO room for pp between them. She can pretend to be grief stricken and deal with it with her support system- her parents, bk gang , whoever. It has NOTHING to do with Sairat.