Originally posted by: IAdoreYou
More than his ego that comes along with his intelligence - I think, it is also because he is extremely selective in his judgements and reactions. He doesn't see everyone in the same light. It is different for him if it is his people vs other people.
Everything is fair and justified in his eyes that he does for his people - his anger, his frustration, the words he use, the insults and humiliation that he offers and even physical violence for that matter ( remember how he had hit Chintya thinking it was Krish who was bothering Apurva? ) Uske logo ke liye wo jo kare wo use sahi lagta hai. He does not even hold any regret or guilt because uske liye wo galat hi nahi hai.
But change the scenario and he would act like it is the end of the world if someone does the same to him.
He is extremely selective in my opinion. Conveniently selective!
Now that may bring the question - does he not count Mrs. Kanitkar in his people because he keeps mum and watches his assistant insult his wife?
I feel - again - Mr. Kanitkar is just being selective here as well. He expects Mrs. Kanitkar to be polite and nice to Netra because she is is assistant, colleague and guest at home but the moment Netra starts insulting Apurva - she becomes Mrs. Kanitkar's cousin for him and from his perspective, he has no say in the sisters' conflicts.
Mr. Kanitkar is a conveniently selective man. He has always been.