@bold..yes perfectly..😁Originally posted by: Manasi_16
Let me try and put things in perspective -
So what you are saying is that your friend (or whoever) seems to have been brought up with a lot of love and care, may even be indulged and has been raised to be independent and free thinking. However, there seems to have arisen a situation which your friend questioned and parents are nor happy with it, and in their own frustration said something to the child which hurt them. Have I understood correctly?
Here also my answer would depend on the same questions. Is this the first time the parents have said something hurtful to the child or they do it on a daily basis? What is the gravity of the situation which led to otherwise loving parents to question their own upbringing?
Your friend has every right to be hurt...it is natural to feel so. Maybe they should sit down with the parents and tell them how they felt.
But every child should also keep in mind one thing - at the end of the day, parents are also human beings, they are not perfect! As children, we give ourselves a lot of leeway but with parents we are quick to expect, judge and condemn
Its just ki vaise to vo ab bhi utne hii loving aur caring hai..haa unhone ye pehli baar kiya hai...ussi situation mai...But ab jab bhi vo particular situation hoti hai.. They react the same..abhi to vo same words use karte hai everytime..jab bhi vo situation hoti hai...🤦♀️😪
Actually unn par abhi pressure jyada hai...they are actually under so much pressure...society ghar wale....aur ussi vajah se vo bahut jyada frustrated hai..🙄
But fir bhi kya aapko lagta hai ki unko apni hii upbringing pe sawal uthane chahiye..🙄😪
Are nahi aisa nahi hai ki bachche unki situation ko samjhte nahi hai.. Vo samjhte bhi hai aur uski respect bhi karte hai... But baat yahi hai ki unki upbringing ke hisaab baccho ne kuch faiske le liye aur ussi baat ka unhe bura laga ki ab ve apni manmaani karne lag gaye hai...😪
Chaliye chodiye.. Bahut complicated hai ye.. Situation mai aapko bata nahi paaungi aur bina situation ko explain kiye ye aapko samjh nahi aayega..sorry to bother you..🤗🤗
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