Why does anupama just leave the Shah's

I keep wondering why doesn't anupama leave the Shah's - Baa and vanraj. She and roped in anuj continuing to want their acceptance.....why oh why. Anupama children are not babies and should be more independent...and decide how they wish to spend their time

I am a divorced woman with my son who was at 12...left everything behind and moved forward by the grace of God and support from parents and siblings.

Anupama keeps asking for self respect but asking or should I say begging people who are putting them down and cursing at them....where is your self respect anupama.

The writers should have move her forward not backwards and hopefully this will show her when she gets married....if not the show is going to be further irritated by annupama running after baa, etc.

I personally anupama should see a psychologist or psychiatrist so she can understand what happened and move forward without toxicity and negativity

Any thoughts....