Parineeti calls sister soldier as…posts first picture with her baby - Page 3

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Do you post pics of your beach and holi vacays when your daughter is fighting for her life?

No but I also didn’t go through what she went through. And how she copes with it is her business. Remember, everything you see on social media is not real. Not everyone likes to post about their pain and suffering.

She might be keeping some stuff private, and I would think Parineeti knows more about it than we do.

Originally posted by: Mistyy

No but I also didn’t go through what she went through. And how she copes with it is her business. Remember, everything you see on social media is not real. Not everyone likes to post about their pain and suffering.

She might be keeping some stuff private, and I would think Parineeti knows more about it than we do.

It's about the mentality. How can you even bring yourself to look cheery and joyful when you're going through this? You won't be able to do it even if you try, because for a mother, her child is her life. No mother can play Holi or go on Yacht holidays when her newborn in suffering. Let's not try to justify something that cannot be justified.

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

It's about the mentality. How can you even bring yourself to look cheery and joyful when you're going through this? You won't be able to do it even if you try, because for a mother, her child is her life. No mother can play Holi or go on Yacht holidays when her newborn in suffering. Let's not try to justify something that cannot be justified.

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

People grieve in different ways. Its really insensitive to police someone on how to grieve and cope with it. Every single person and their grief mechanism is different.

Show me one mother who goes on holidays when her child is struggling for life. One.

Originally posted by: Charaiveti

People grieve in different ways. Its really insensitive to police someone on how to grieve and cope with it. Every single person and their grief mechanism is different.

Also, grieving after someone has passed away is different. But we're talking about a mother whose child is still alive and in pain. 🐷

Can you imagine your mother laughing and posing on yachts when you're on ventilation? Me neither.

Originally posted by: Mahisa_22

Show me one mother who goes on holidays when her child is struggling for life. One.

Forget holidays a mother cannot sleep seeing her baby like that. Work commitments are different and how can a mother holiday when her baby is sick, just insensitive.

I have seen my friend who went through similar situation stayed in Canada. She didnot even have the support of her relatives except her husband. They wonot provide bed for mother when baby is in ICU. She stayed in waiting hall day and night to breast feed the baby, till it was ok to feed the baby the stored breast milk. She took off from office (that time was holiday season and she has to attend office or she may lose her job). Until her mother visa was approved and she came to Canada, my friend and her hubby house was literally the hospital. Though she joined office after a month, i never saw her holidaying till her baby came back home after 3 months of struggle. Now baby is 7 years old and he is healthy ❤️

Was the baby ill, or were they having her stay in NICU for some time because she was a premie? Some rich people do.

Still odd if they went on holiday but slightly less *say, what?!*

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

Was the baby ill, or were they having her stay in NICU for some time because she was a premie? Some rich people do.

Still odd if they went on holiday but slightly less *say, what?!*

7th month means lungs just formed and it is hard for baby to breath on her own.

They keep baby in NICU till she strong enough to breath herself.

It is very important for mother to feed her and to keep her touch with the baby. So that baby will cure soon. Mother touch is important, i am not joking. So in surrogacy, I have no clue if PC need to be in touch with baby or the one who gave birth.

Out side India, they wonot allow baby to move out of hospital till she passes her real birth date or week. (this i heard from my friend )

but in India they send the baby home when she can start breathing on her own and all her organs are working properly.

But holidaying when your baby in ICU is insensitive in any case for anyone... Either celebrity or common man.

Why is everyone making it out to be that the baby was in a “serious” condition?

Yes , the baby was in NICU but that could be only coz she was pre mature but her other parameters must be fine. So maybe PC and Nick knew that their baby would be home but a little late .

Originally posted by: Sorein

Interesting that she always insists on calling her sister vs cousin. Are they both that close?

In our culture we often call our cousins brothers/sisters, whether close or not.