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Posted: 3 years ago

#181

Originally posted by: DiscoDhokla
💛 Abhi Ki Akshu 💛

How did I miss this, the costumes come is so much details in this pic, n Abhira is a class apart.

Abhi should surely change the frame size pls

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iheartChai

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Posted: 3 years ago

#182

Originally posted by: tptwi
I feel really bad for Parth and Anisha, because their parents are absolutely horrible. They think that being a doctor is the only way to have a successful career and life. And, due to that, Parth has lost himself and now sits at home doing nothing. He wants to be a singer, and I'm sure that track will come too. But, from what we have seen, Shefali has always balanced her work and personal life. And he taunts her for not giving time to family, which is objectively untrue, as like I said, she hasn't missed a single function, and she is honestly always around to support the family as well. Maybe I'm biased in that I really feel for her & I find his behavior towards her entirely unacceptable, even though I understand his pain as well. But, that doesn't give him the right to take it out on her.
Leaving all of that aside, both of them are incredible actors and have incredible chemistry, so I'm really excited to see this track. It will most definitely come, because Akshu will be solving all of the Birla problems.

The strange thing is that if being a doctor is so important then why isn't Shefali a doctor? Especially for Anand and Mahima who seem to hold that occupation in such high regard. How exactly did Parth and Shefali even get married? Was it love marriage? Somewhere down the line it seems Parth has lost himself and he is misplacing his anger on Shefali who has her life sorted. I get that Shefali has not missed any family function but maybe other than that she hasn't spent much time at home that Parth feels like every time he may need her she is busy working. Parth may be learning his behavior by the way his father treats his mother. Anand never gives Mahima professional respect and even he at times would prefer her to be at home (I'm not saying as staying as a housewife but doing something homely once in awhile during a holiday). When is the last time either Parth or Shefali spent time together that wasn't due to a family occasion? When was the last time Shefali didn't pick up that phone call when she knew she did not have to right away?

I'm think both are right and wrong in their own ways of what is happening in their marriage. It's another case of communication issue. If one always seems emotionally unavailable how can the other one attempt to start a discussion? And when one is amicable the other one is upset over what happened last time and taunts it puts off the other person from talking. It's a never ending cycle until both parties come to the table to discuss and considering the back and forth they have someone has to be the bigger person to start that conversation and not feel so slighted that they lash out unnecessarily.

Edited by iheartChai - 3 years ago

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Posted: 3 years ago

#183

Originally posted by: iheartChai

The strange thing is that if being a doctor is so important then why isn't Shefali a doctor? Especially for Anand and Mahima who seem to hold that occupation in such high regard. How exactly did Parth and Shefali even get married? Was it love marriage? Somewhere down the line it seems Parth has lost himself and he is misplacing his anger on Shefali who has her life sorted. I get that Shefali has not missed any family function but maybe other than that she hasn't spent much time at home that Parth feels like every time he may need her she is busy working. Parth may be learning his behavior by the way his father treats his mother. Anand never gives Mahima professional respect and even he at times would prefer her to be at home (I'm not saying as staying as a housewife but doing something homely once in awhile during a holiday). When is the last time either Parth or Shefali spent time together that wasn't due to a family occasion? When was the last time Shefali didn't pick up that phone call when she knew she did not have to right away.

I'm think both are right and wrong in their own ways of what is happening in their marriage. It's another case of communication issue. If one always seems emotionally unavailable how can the other one attempt to start a discussion? And when one is amicable the other one is upset over what happened last time and taunts it puts off the other person from talking. It's a never ending cycle until both parties come to the table to discuss and considering the back and forth they have someone has to be the bigger person to start that conversation and not feel so slighted that they lash out unnecessarily.

Yeah all of the Birla kids have definitely been deeply scarred and harmed by the relationships they have grown up seeing! While Parth became like Anand, Abhi became deeply insecure and afraid of not being prioritized and ending up in a loveless marriage. It is a toxic household in so many ways, and we have yet to see the depths of these traumas! I am excited to learn more about their past and for the writers to explore these dynamics!

The reason why I find Parth so wrong is that he has taunted her needlessly so many times and also compared her to Akshu consistently, both of which are major red flags. Just take the recent suitcase example - she just wanted to ask him for help, but he gave her 3-4 taunts in return. I find it extremely disrespectful and unjustifiable. As for their communication issues, yes, of course, both of them need to work on it! Obviously they have come to this point in their relationship due to issues on both ends!

As for the importance of being a doctor, I think it's less about that and more about the elder Birlas' insecurities when it comes to Akshu. They take every chance they can to bring her down, because they are all insecure of her in their own ways... Harsh and Mahima mainly & especially. They already demean her in every way possible, and their small thinking towards her career just gives them another opportunity. In addition to them just being insecure of Akshu, they are also insecure of Abhira's relationship, as neither one of them can understand how a relationship can be so loving and respectful. They don't understand it at all, as neither one of them have ever experienced it.

Edited by tptwi - 3 years ago