Arpita - at the end of the cliff (for 18+) - Page 3

Thank you for the tag😊...

Your outlook on arpita is amazing👍🏼...the perspective u brought forth is absolutely true...

My family too lost the eldest cousin sister of mine bc of suicide 5yrs back... Till now we are puzzled abt her death... She is very bold, jovial and straight forward... Unexpectedly her suicidal death shakened our fam she is just 23 yrs old then and her boy is 2 and half yrs old...the ego issues bw the couple made her to take this extreme step.... whenever I see my cousin's son,i feel bad for him... He always mention about his mom claiming she told me this and that etc... Bad luck is that he is the one to witness her death first..whole fam stuggled to recover from her loss as she is the only daughter of my uncle..

When I was doctor at city gov. hosp there will be at least 3 cases of sui.attempt in a week irresp of their age.. Whenever we conduct camp for counselling on mental health most people report the reason behind their thoughts is due to fam pressure, unemployment, domestic violence, partner in illegal affair, love failure,lack of confidence to face the competitive world, guilt,property issues, loss in business and career, dowry issues etc.. These persons needs emotional support for overcoming such ideas which is lacking for them in one or the other way in their closed circle... Literally felt like crying on listening to them..

Reg arpita in yes.epi she is in need of someone to stabilize her emotionally... Sundar can provide that acceptance of her whom she is of now... It would have been good if makers showed us some valuable scenes bw them to connect us with their love..

Anyways thanks for sharing such a wide pov of her👍🏼

thanks for sharing shravani ❤️ ; such a difficult situation for your family as there is no way to easily answer the questions of a child.

my mind is spinning at your experiences as a government doctor -- at least 3 patients a week due to suicide attempt?! 😵 wow, I don't even know what to say. so many thinking of taking the extreme step because they don't know who to talk to even.

Thank you for the tag. Well written with all points.

Imlie very well know Sundar isn't financial match but he can be good emotional partner which arpita required at this moment, that's why imlie try to say he can provide love which was stopped by her own hubby because hubby couldn't able to accept that a person who don't value for love on her own life should not talk for others love life. Yes imlie lost her faith on love and marriage for herself but it's not on entire Intuitions. She also knows Aru can help his sister financially stable whenever it's required and Arpita also have equal right & share on rathore properties. Imlie is right but she didn't know how to handle it on mature way due to her age but she'll learn eventually.

Myself and my family don't have any interest of getting married until I settled well on my career but my aunt taunted me when was on 12th grade that I won't get alliance if I was fat and her daughter is ultra thin even though I don't give a damn to her daughter but still her taunt have disturbed my mind. I was married on 27 and I did endured many taunts, I didn't allowed those taunts to empower me but still those affected me unconsciously. My husband family is little financially strong compared to ours but they still wanted me for their family because they want to have a balance, our career and education way differ but we fill each other lacks, we both wanted only good partners not money because it can be earned so I understand where Arpita and Sundar is coming from. As a widow she needs to face many challenges from society because there are many devils out their like blue devil.

You have eaten your husband - it's common phrase which many widow women's get taunted. Arpita didn't had time to progress arvind closure, she was continuously taunted by venom words and she couldn't able to fight, even though she is strong person all these things made her weak and she was pushed to edge. Even though arpi decided to move forward with Sundar she don't have guts to voice over her wishes due to Blue devil taunts and Aru over protectiveness.

Rathore family respect and value everyone so I am not surprised they accept imlie and Sundar equally. Aru and di share very close bond so he thought di will let him know if she loves someone and imlie was just imposing for her friend and she isn't thinking about di well being. Aru now understood what he wanted is his di happiness and he did embraced Sundar with full❤️

Sundar understood he needs to step up, it's good he applied for hotel management sure Aru can help him out but Sundar needs to stand for his wife and Arpita needs to fight for herself.

Life can't be perfect, when we gain one thing we'll loose something and it's all about how we accept that and fight equally as a partner. Arpi will get that love and solace from Sundar and Sundar will get equality and respect from rathore's exclude blue devil here.

I love this! This is why I was saying elsewhere that this show is like a puzzle without half the final image AND pieces missing because there's SO MANY good and meaningful scenes, but all the connective tissue is just. torn. i'm mixing up my analogies, but you know what i mean.

i think the other thing that really is galling is that sundar has been around forever! and they also knew they were gonna do this track, just...prep it better?

meh.

hopefully the wedding episodes deliver both sunpita and arylie moments!

Originally posted by: chotoranii

I love this! This is why I was saying elsewhere that this show is like a puzzle without half the final image AND pieces missing because there's SO MANY good and meaningful scenes, but all the connective tissue is just. torn. i'm mixing up my analogies, but you know what i mean.

i think the other thing that really is galling is that sundar has been around forever! and they also knew they were gonna do this track, just...prep it better?

meh.

hopefully the wedding episodes deliver both sunpita and arylie moments!

fingers crossed! from this scene, it is very clear that the actors playing arpita and sunder have a good understanding of their characters and can deliver those moments very naturally. it wasn't flat silly over-the-top acting but actually well done.

like you said, they could have prepped this track better that it was gradual. not sure what happened with that actor's exit but it looks like there was utter chaos in the writer's room and they were perhaps writing rather hodge podge. hopefully going forward we will have smoother writing and the CVs will let surprita shine better. I want more for these actors and to have a sensible love story that has us hooked despite our misgivings!

Great post. Surpita's story was rushed , they hardly interacted and suddenly getting married in 2 days. We saw Sundar falling for Arpi in love at first sight but Arpi's side could have been shown better. She was caged bird of her shadows, atleast 2-3 heart to heart conversations would have worked better but anyways I am happy that Arpi found a life partner who will support her and stand with her infront of judgemental society.

I complained about Sundar's lack of ambition in your last post, I am glad that writers showed that he is working to improve himself and I would be glad if Arpi too starts handling Rathore business or else their arc is going to saas bahu drama in future.

Regarding the suicide, personally that thought has crossed my mind few times when times were really difficult. I am not completely satisfied with my life but I still try to live life to the fullest everyday.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

fingers crossed! from this scene, it is very clear that the actors playing arpita and sunder have a good understanding of their characters and can deliver those moments very naturally. it wasn't flat silly over-the-top acting but actually well done.

like you said, they could have prepped this track better that it was gradual. not sure what happened with that actor's exit but it looks like there was utter chaos in the writer's room and they were perhaps writing rather hodge podge. hopefully going forward we will have smoother writing and the CVs will let surprita shine better. I want more for these actors and to have a sensible love story that has us hooked despite our misgivings!

yes! and if sundar develops a spine again, i'll get over it. i am interested to see where arpita will fit re ex, will she know about said ex and how that might all play out with sundar and imlie now in the same space?

PLS JUST RENOVATE THE TRIPATHI HOUSE AND MOVEEEEE lol

Originally posted by: ..Orla..

Great post. Surpita's story was rushed , they hardly interacted and suddenly getting married in 2 days. We saw Sundar falling for Arpi in love at first sight but Arpi's side could have been shown better. She was caged bird of her shadows, atleast 2-3 heart to heart conversations would have worked better but anyways I am happy that Arpi found a life partner who will support her and stand with her infront of judgemental society.

I complained about Sundar's lack of ambition in your last post, I am glad that writers showed that he is working to improve himself and I would be glad if Arpi too starts handling Rathore business or else their arc is going to saas bahu drama in future.

Regarding the suicide, personally that thought has crossed my mind few times when times were really difficult. I am not completely satisfied with my life but I still try to live life to the fullest everyday.

yea, the arc had potential but they rushed it too much. but I feel like they have showed that he is good emotional match and now hopefully that he is improving himself, we will see him working as well. and yea, I don't watch saas bahu drama as well.

we all are vulnerable to dark days where we are disappointed with ourselves and our lives, but by focusing on the positives and being thankful, we can find things to be happy even if our life arc isn't where it should be. cheers to you @orla! fighting! 😘😘

Beautifully written, as always, Mango ji👏 I need to mull over a little and come back. Scattered this weekend!😲