Originally posted by: NathuPyare
Some very nice arguments here. Thank you everyone 👍
There's something else that I've noticed and although it's not specifically related to the matter in discussion here but this affects me a lot.
I sense an air of superiority about being well versed in English in some people as if knowing English makes u superior from the rest of non-english proficient people. I seem to notice a lack of pride of being well versed in your mother tongue, especially if its Hindi. South Indians are still more proud of their mother tongue despite knowing English well.
If a person can talk or write well in English he's automatically deemed intellectually superior even if he may be as dumb as Alia, Ananaya, kareena or sonam who are well versed in English and proudly state that they don't know Hindi much.
Also using pure Hindi or Sanskrit words is often ridiculed in movies or series and that ridicule is copied in real life by people who get inspiration from tv and films. I sense there's a lack in pride about knowing their mother tongue well in Hindi speaking people. On the contrary, knowing good English is a matter of pride. I don't see such behaviour in some other countries who are proud of their own language despite knowing English ex. France Germany etc.
I see that on IF too. People who can't converse or write good english are looked down upon here.
I think the coffee show of KJo is evident enough where he can often be seen openly mocking others for their "poor" English and speaking English with an "accent" that's different from the usual.
So, yeah, in the context of bollywood and their "elite" circles, speaking English is aligned with their social status and class and those who speak in Hindi are considered "downmarket" like Chandni Chowk in Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham.
I haven't visited India in my life to know or speak on the ground level, but movies/shows gave me that impression.
Not sure if you've watched Fabulous Lives of Bollywood Wives on Netflix but Shanaya's brother, who's born and brought up in Mumbai I'm assuming, apparently cannot follow the rest of his Hindi speaking family members or answer back in Hindi cuz he's a 14/15 year old who attends an English speaking boarding school.
You'd think that English is his second language, right? I obviously think that's strange and full of BS. Claiming to "not" know Hindi even though it's most probably his first language and even though he lives in India where it's widely spoken... and even though the rest of his family were speaking in Hindi = a massive steaming pile of BS.
But what's up with the "observation" at the end? You can't really dictate who gets along with who here on the forum or who they relate to and how.... now can you? No one owes anything to anyone here.
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