Originally posted by: Anjalika01
And at this point, to me they just look like a rich, beautiful looking version of those lower class alcoholic/drug addicted couples who go on shows like Jeremy Kyle (those in the U.K. will know what I'm talking about lol)😆.
Exactly what I thought. It seems exactly what the stereotypical white trash or hillbilly family stereotype is in the United States.
I have a lot of sympathy for working-class folks stuck in toxic marriages and relationships. Usually, they come from abusive families themselves. Most have suffered fetal alcohol syndrome and have some sort of physical or learning disability. They are uneducated and unemployed (or stuck in dead-end jobs or struggle to hold jobs).
It makes me wonder what compels the rich and famous be so toxic. You ought to know better. Even if you come from poverty and abuse, you have all the resources in the world. You can afford therapy, counseling, rehab, and concierge healthcare. You can afford separate bedrooms or even separate houses. Why behave this way?
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Sometimes it's just the two personalities. Two people can be like volatile chemicals that just explode when in contact with each other. I have seen people who were really miserable, mean, and bitchy to each other in one relationship turn into total delights with another person. That is why compatibility matters. Even if you find each other attractive and fall in love - if you're personalities aren't compatible - the relationship will not last. And that's why it is best to leave a relationship if you're feeling miserable - because if you decide to endure - you never know when everything will implode.
