Loving the 4am musings
They are in LOVE
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Loving the 4am musings
They are in LOVE
Originally posted by: SundariP
I've often wrestled with this question in my mind.
When do two people become one?
Is it when they fall in love?
Or when they profess their love?
Or when they get married?
Or when they consummate?
When does the hearts meet?
When do they truly become soulmates?
She was bound and placed in the car to die a slow death of suffocation. But all she could care about is if he saw this site it would hurt him more than he already was.
He was being beaten brutally, but all he cared was she needed him and he can't fail her.
Their own pain took the back seat, and the pain of other took over, giving them strength to fight all odds and meet their soulmate again, even if it's for one last moment.
And at this moment, they became one. They got truly married, completed eachother as husband and wife.
Ps: random 4 am musings. 🙈
some dnt even need to fall, profess, marry, consummate love cos they r soulmate without doing anything. jus cos they exist wid eo
Tough I don't believe love can only be true when you are husbands and wives or soulmates can only be 2 person ( spirituality says soulmates are a group of people under same family, they can be your mother, father, husband or even teacher) I would say that you are true about one thing they got themselves when they saw each other's pain before their own.
Not all love can be tagged under husband or wife, marriage is just an institution made by society for me but finding that one love who came from heaven only for you. Just know you are too lucky, Aryan and Imlie both are Lucky they found true love under the sky when most people miss each other's true love only very few are lucky in real to achieve it. Even might not be a spouse yet they can make you feel peaceful with their presence
I feel like the show hastily married Arylie coz people won't be able to digest a love story of a divorced girl before marriage. They still wanted Adi in her life just coz he was still loyal to her but how could we forget he has a pregnant wife somewhere totally being an irresponsible lad. But they wanted them together and saying Imlie is the character less character here who moved forward. Her love was a lie. They never understood that love can be forgotten and move on, but true love if you find it once it accompanies you till your grave.
For just mocking they only judged Imlie & not the other person. Hence I said marriage is an institution they binded in their minds that Imlie never loved him coz though that guy he was in a 7 years of relationship and Imlie was married to him first forcefully and he was ought to love only her not the love he promised for 7 years. But Aryan and Imlie... can we judge them under this institution? If today they would not have married each other still they would face the same feelings same emotions for each other.
Love is blind it doesn't look up which institution you are in or how society needs you to behave. Yep the danger on them was high but if they faced something in this point of story even without the husband wife tag they would have been same.
They became their own nemesis when they forgot they themselves were in pain and their heart cried for the other. That's the true love one seeks my dear❤️
Tough I don't believe love can only be true when you are husbands and wives or soulmates can only be 2 person ( spirituality says soulmates are a group of people under same family, they can be your mother, father, husband or even teacher) I would say that you are true about one thing they got themselves when they saw each other's pain before their own.
Not all love can be tagged under husband or wife, marriage is just an institution made by society for me but finding that one love who came from heaven only for you. Just know you are too lucky, Aryan and Imlie both are Lucky they found true love under the sky when most people miss each other's true love only very few are lucky in real to achieve it. Even might not be a spouse yet they can make you feel peaceful with their presence
I feel like the show hastily married Arylie coz people won't be able to digest a love story of a divorced girl before marriage. They still wanted Adi in her life just coz he was still loyal to her but how could we forget he has a pregnant wife somewhere totally being an irresponsible lad. But they wanted them together and saying Imlie is the character less character here who moved forward. Her love was a lie. They never understood that love can be forgotten and move on, but true love if you find it once it accompanies you till your grave.
For just mocking they only judged Imlie & not the other person. Hence I said marriage is an institution they binded in their minds that Imlie never loved him coz though that guy he was in a 7 years of relationship and Imlie was married to him first forcefully and he was ought to love only her not the love he promised for 7 years. But Aryan and Imlie... can we judge them under this institution? If today they would not have married each other still they would face the same feelings same emotions for each other.
Love is blind it doesn't look up which institution you are in or how society needs you to behave. Yep the danger on them was high but if they faced something in this point of story even without the husband wife tag they would have been same.
They became their own nemesis when they forgot they themselves were in pain and their heart cried for the other. That's the true love one seeks my dear❤️
What a beautiful piece. You are absolutely right. The concept of soul mates and that fact that a soul mate can be anyone. Doesn’t need to be your husband.
lucky are those folks who find this kind of connection in their life time.
I also completely agree that the marriage was done hastily. Maybe it was because one of the actors was leaving or maybe it was because, they needed to remain under the same roof and like you said societal norms at times dictate how we should feel, think and what we should do.
But the way they both support each other, buck each other up, care for each other isn’t bound to the word or institution of marriage. They were doing that for each other when they didn’t even give a name to their relationship.
Is it love. Yes. but at this time is it the romantic kind of love. NoT yet in my opinion. Is it the earth shattering kind of love. Not yet. But does it look like their souls are kinda bound and they find solace in each other. To me yes it is and yes they do. Their feelings for each other are not ‘moohtaaj’ and bound to a relationship tag. They have never needed one.
Pooja such a wonderful topic and your musings were Kamaal ki. 😘😘😘
4 AM Pooja is a poet 🥺🥺🥺.
Seriously though Aru and Imlie have similar tendencies: they’ll always go the extra mile for their loved ones… and these two just feel so much for eachother that their own pain will always be secondary when their partner needs something and it’s just so beautiful.
ARYLIE >>>>>
Ashiq Singh Rathore has potential to turn me into a poet again 🙈
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Dammit Pooja, why you gotta make us cry like this?
Your random musings are better than entire stories I've read.
SO MANY PHEELS 😭
Not better than you bey... Don't do jhooti taareefein 😏
Beautiful discussion by you both. Completely agree to your points 😊
Poetic Pooja❤️, I almost missed this one.
Beautifully written❤️
This discussion is just very very deep and appropriate specially after the wonderful episodes we are having. Sundari having such poetic inspiration at 4 am is just wow. Me at 4 am I be a dazed zombie. Ms Nehaa and Miuni both your appreciation are just sooo deep and to the point. One need not be married to be soulmates. For me you become one when the feeling and needs come before yours. It can be for children it can be for parents and of course your lover/husband/ boyfriend. Trust and understanding are the glue for the feeling of becoming one.