Originally posted by: Manasi_16
For me, bdays have always been very very special. Aur mere ghar par celebrate bhi aaise hi hote the all thru childhood - with a lot of planning, parties, food, gifts, return gifts...Mera bday use to be like mini Diwali❤️😳
So difficult to choose 1 bday which was more special than the rest.
But one bday which made me realise how blessed I was to have good people around me, was in 2001. I had lost my father just about a month ago and obviously celebrations were the last thing on anyone's mind.
But 2 of my mother's friends got together, baked a cake for me and got my fav vada pav. I was so touched...they didn't have to do it, my relatives had not even wished me...but this small gesture from my mother's friends is something I will remember all my life❤️
Baaki toh my bdays are still as special...2 mahine pehle se I start getting excited and planning ki kahan jana hai, kya karna hai🥳🥳🥳
I start cringing when my birthday starts approaching and every year I try to find excuses to inform people(obviously who know about it and keep on showing their excitement by reminding me that my birthday is near) that I wont be celebrating my birthday and that they should not get any cake for me, especially at office. At home too, I just lock myself in a room in a pretext of exams/work.
People may find my thought process weird but that’s how I am.
The main reason I don't like any celebrations is that I really don’t like those snoopy aunties who are curious to know your age and then compare the same with themselves or their children and feel elated if you are older. I just cringe on these kind of females.
I just hate people bugging me for treats, chocolates or wanting to know my plans