Limerence and Love - Page 2

Thank you so much Nephy! So nice to meet you here.

Originally posted by: Mysterylushes

Hands down one of the best posts I have read on this matter. Enjoyed it extremely and I see where you are coming from. They are trying to strike a cord of realism, and habituate us with the love that creeps in slowly and makes you feel comfortable in its embrace. No matter how much people deny it. I can't force myself to look away from the progression Meets made. They did come a long way. The way the writer screwed up is by showing so much intensity from MA's side for Manushi which is not sitting well with us viewers, who genuinely wanted to hoot for the End Game. As i said, MA's overwhelming nature is due to him 'falling in love and falling out of love/limerence' at the same time. If this is what the track is bring it on, bas I want this jaap to be over, only then I will be able to see and enjoy the couple's beautiful progression towards love. And as Ashi said in her desert date BTS ' their marriage is unconventional to say the least, and only now after so much MU and drama , they are trying to understand each other and it will take time'. Tbh, I don't mind. Love that happens slowly, lasts longer and leaves a deeper colour and this is definitely a very different approach that the writers are taking. I just want this unhealthy and confusing addition in their relationship to be eliminated. What this track definitely nailed in showing is the unwavering trust they have in each other (atleast till now) Please keep writing.

Thank you so much! I am more of a bhatakti aatma with a maun vrat in IF usually. But I will try to write more!😉

Originally posted by: shalu79

Welcome to the forum, Roop🤗

Insightful post...Beautifully penned❤️

I have always felt that Meetwa is just in love with the idea of loving Manushi. As to love one has to know the other person.. n here it's all deception. He really don't know the real Manushi. Agar real Manushi ko janega than he will run in opposite direction.

I only feel that his intensity is bit streched...I am okay him being shown affected with her presence n all.. just donr want makers to drag it too far...at some time I want him to think logically...bcoz at one side he has this so called love for manushi than other his bond with Meety has also grown deeply... He has immense trust in her.. so I just want him wake up n see what Manushi is trying to do...

What I appreciate about Meetwa is that he doesn't hesitate to show his vulnerabilities to Meety...he told her honestly that he looses his control when he infront of Manushi.

Regarding the scenarios you mentioned what will happen next... We all are rooting for that to happen.. 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

Thank you so much! So nice to meet you out here!❤️

Originally posted by: reginalsecret

I agree with @mysterylushes (I'm really sorry I forgot your name lol). This is hands down one of the best analyses I've ever read. In fact, aapne tho meri man ki baat chin li and have put it down in this amazing psycho analysis (that what it called?) in a way that I never could.

Thanks for the BV analogy... it really helped me understand what I can look forward to. I never thought an itv show could display a psychologically moral relationship but after reading your post, I feel like that is exactly what they're tryna do.. And if they are, kudos to them cuz God knows that itv history has witnessed enough head-banging toxicity in the name of true love

Welcome to the forum and do remain active... Would love to hear more from you... ❤️

Thank you so much! AHAHAHA! I will try to remain active but to be honest, I am more of the bhatakti aatma with a maun vrat sort of a person. But will write more soon.

Originally posted by: mehraan

Lovely post dear ❤️ and thanx for calming me down… i feel better reading it👍🏼 .. Yes i watched BV and understand the gist of the whole scenario that you had written it so beautifully ❤️… No doubt we are all loving the progression between Meets but sometimes it’s frustrating to see MA slipping or flipping back attimes😆… its like when he takes 1 step ahead, which is equivalent to 10 steps for us🤣 but when he is fixated on that Chipkali …he is demoted to 100 steps from us 😆!! M yes i get to learn something new today about ‘Limerance’…. !👍🏼Thankyou

Thank you so much! And so true. MA is right now a pretty frustrating character. But fingers crossed for a better future.

Originally posted by: Oeindrila

Bang on, girl!!!

Best take I read on the phase that Hooda & Ahlawat are going through in their relationship currently.

I agree with every word in this post which is also the reason I'm still here.

My only problem is the way they're going overboard with showing MA's intense love for Manushi & stretching the track illogically, else I'm okay with him taking time to move on.

And welcome to the forum, Roopsha🤗.

Thank you so much Oeindrila! So nice to be here! So true. I really want him to move on. But MA seems to be in limerence regarding Manushi and it is clear he is unable to control it despite wishing it. But it's alright. I want him to take his time but leave that snake's thoughts behind for good.

Although both of them have moved on from that phase … and they are movie forward rather slowly… and with this murder mystery it has become more slower but. delightful to watch ..

Originally posted by: roopshas1

Thank you so much! AHAHAHA! I will try to remain active but to be honest, I am more of the bhatakti aatma with a maun vrat sort of a person. But will write more soon.

hey .. I know you were also disappointed like rest of us … but are you still watching the show?

Originally posted by: Chatterbox1

Can you please share the link if you have? 😊

I shared in some other post I believe.. it must be available on youtube too.. if you want I can get that for you again..

Originally posted by: Physics_girl

Ek samay tha when trp used to fall if the FL moves on to someone chaahe kitni v kamina ML kyun na ho.

Ab agar move on naa karne k liye trp gir Rahi hai, I think thoda ,I mean bohot thoda improvement Hui hai I guess😁

actually depend krta h ... if you remember Kasautii zindagi kay first season... nobody liked Prerna with Anurag even though Anurag technically not cheated but emotionally blackmailed by his mother... he even helped Prerna in destroying himself .... but somehow people loved Prerna more with Bajaj... so even though the show is all about Anurag and Prerna.. Prerna remained Mr bajaj wife till the end.. and Anurag was never able to be happy in his married life despite being married several times.. infact his own daughter asked him not to attend her wedding and wished that in next birth she is born as a real daughter to mr bajaj than a foster one..... this show aired in 2000s ...so people always liked the idea of FL moving on..

Balika Vadhu season 1 is also an example....

but yeah if the ML gets a huge fan following and people just could not accept the new guy in FL life.. then they have to whitewash ML..... or show him flawed but accepted anyways by FL..... like Kundali Bhagya, Kumkum Bhagya and Udaariyan....