New Promo: Simple or Grand Wedding? - Page 10

Originally posted by: arya212002

I really don’t mind difference of opinion between MaAn. She will discuss later … that’s also fine. Actually that’s how it always have been. She takes decisions on behalf of him too. He has given that freedom to her and she utilizes it.

She did same when Mukku wanted to stay at Shahs, she decided on behalf of Anuj before consulting.

They had differences of opinion regarding Mukku’s partnership with V in the beginning - that P se prabhavit wala scenes.


All those are fine, I would want to watch them grow in the relationship where they disagree, dissect and discuss, communicate all sorts of stuff.


but the reason I am angry here was the reason behind her decision. Baa said sab lutao toh to please baa and not to burden Baapuji..she does it.

Had she taken that decision on her own, I would have been fine. I feel her decisions are mostly trigger based than well thought ones

Anyways 🤷‍♀️

@bold : She is a kaathputli jis ki door Baa, Laadle aur Bapuji ke haath main hai...

Not against simple marriage, I would have liked if Anu herself thought about and discussed with Anuj

If we keep the emotions aside and think camly then you can see that we are all reacting exactly the way the makers want to...

They want us to hate Anu more than we hate vanraj... this is probably the first show where lead is getting bashed so much...where the audience are made to develop so such contempt for the lead

This is all done deliberately just to appease the so called friend and his ego... this what happens when personal and professional relationship are mixed

I genuinely feel sorry for RG and GK...such wonderful talents are being misused and taken for granted

Sad truth

Originally posted by: Km181

RANT ALERT

More I see this, more disgusting this serial is becoming. makers chahte kya hai, hum sab serial dekhna hi chod de.

Duniya bhar ki misunderstanding, kaand ke liye. Anuj said during Holi he wants simple Mandir main shaadi. Anu said in MS she wants a grand Shaadi.

Bapuji ka guilt, Shah house se shaadi karunga. Ab suti saree main shaadi ka guilt nahi hoga. Bechare Bapuji, wait is this another trick to keep Anu forever as maid.

Anu to mahaan hai use rona dhona ka reason chahiye, Shah house main shaadi kar ke apne 25 anniversary ka scene yaad kar ke rona. Is baar trauma Anuj ko hoga, kis se pyaar kar liya us ne, USA achcha tha. SH main shaadi karne pe ek kaand free, 2-3 episode Anu apni 25 anniversary yaad kar ke drama karegi. Trash ka soya pyaar bhi jag jayega.

Anuj is actually a show piece, na shaadi ka venue puchne ki zaroorat thi aur na ab ki shaadi kaise hogi. Agar Anu apne ghar jati, to Baa ko ye Tamashah ka chance kaise milta. Aur Baa to Maa hai, apni real mother gayi tel lene, bahut dard diya tha usne Anu ko. Baa to palko pe betha ke rakhti hai.

Kisi tarah se last 3 days ka kaaand bhul ne ki koshish ki thi. ab ye naya Tamashah. Bhad main jao, Shaadi karni hai karo, Kaand karna hai karo, Tamashah karna hai karo. Sorry, but ye ekdum bakwaas ho raha..

And wake up alert, to people who thought they are giving social message via this. Hello, fact check makers don't want to spend a penny on this serial. When have they given one social message seriously. It's all about HERO and saving money, Anu is doormat of SH and Anuj is Lollipop for SM.

Lastly this is only Dadikishaadi and not MaAnkiShaadi. This Anu literally takes him for granted, all this time she never once bothered to speak and ask him what he wants. Her Bapuji desires are more important than the Anuj.

Koi na, Anuj apne dreams 2 ya 3 shaadi main pure karega. SH main to trend hai, Trash ki 2, Anu ki 2 actually 3 for both wo 25th anniv bhi to tha. To aage Chalke Anuj bhi 2 kar lega. No big deal, so this time to it's all about Bapuji doing his gudde gudiya ki shaadi.

Rant over. Not tagging anyone though, you can understand.

@bold - sums up the show in a single sentence! 👍🏼🤗

Originally posted by: Km181

RANT ALERT

More I see this, more disgusting this serial is becoming. makers chahte kya hai, hum sab serial dekhna hi chod de.

Duniya bhar ki misunderstanding, kaand ke liye. Anuj said during Holi he wants simple Mandir main shaadi. Anu said in MS she wants a grand Shaadi.

Bapuji ka guilt, Shah house se shaadi karunga. Ab suti saree main shaadi ka guilt nahi hoga. Bechare Bapuji, wait is this another trick to keep Anu forever as maid.

Anu to mahaan hai use rona dhona ka reason chahiye, Shah house main shaadi kar ke apne 25 anniversary ka scene yaad kar ke rona. Is baar trauma Anuj ko hoga, kis se pyaar kar liya us ne, USA achcha tha. SH main shaadi karne pe ek kaand free, 2-3 episode Anu apni 25 anniversary yaad kar ke drama karegi. Trash ka soya pyaar bhi jag jayega.

Anuj is actually a show piece, na shaadi ka venue puchne ki zaroorat thi aur na ab ki shaadi kaise hogi. Agar Anu apne ghar jati, to Baa ko ye Tamashah ka chance kaise milta. Aur Baa to Maa hai, apni real mother gayi tel lene, bahut dard diya tha usne Anu ko. Baa to palko pe betha ke rakhti hai.

Kisi tarah se last 3 days ka kaaand bhul ne ki koshish ki thi. ab ye naya Tamashah. Bhad main jao, Shaadi karni hai karo, Kaand karna hai karo, Tamashah karna hai karo. Sorry, but ye ekdum bakwaas ho raha..

And wake up alert, to people who thought they are giving social message via this. Hello, fact check makers don't want to spend a penny on this serial. When have they given one social message seriously. It's all about HERO and saving money, Anu is doormat of SH and Anuj is Lollipop for SM.

Lastly this is only Dadikishaadi and not MaAnkiShaadi. This Anu literally takes him for granted, all this time she never once bothered to speak and ask him what he wants. Her Bapuji desires are more important than the Anuj.

Koi na, Anuj apne dreams 2 ya 3 shaadi main pure karega. SH main to trend hai, Trash ki 2, Anu ki 2 actually 3 for both wo 25th anniv bhi to tha. To aage Chalke Anuj bhi 2 kar lega. No big deal, so this time to it's all about Bapuji doing his gudde gudiya ki shaadi.

Rant over. Not tagging anyone though, you can understand.

Bang on..i second.

On Monday in yrkkh episode Anupama was telling AK how lavish abhira wedding is, then he said ok then we will also have lavish wedding so i don't think he is being inconsistent.

Originally posted by: DJ_3

Okay at this point, for bold a showpiece Anuj will work too. As there is no T-thread will say it here. Why the ugly clothes for his character, why no more body shots and why is there hardly combined 1 minute scenes which are completely illogical?🤣

On the other hand, he said DJ in the promo

Didn't he said something like BEST DJ in the promo ..way to go, you never know he might be taking lessons from your post's to apply after wedding

May be anupama thought about financial comdtiion of anuj and decided simple marriage may be anupama don't want to anuj to spend money on heavy jwelly and lehmga for anupama. As anuj financial condition is not strong

But grand wedding hogi to iske liya paisa kahan se aayega

I am trying to understand why her obsession with Baa and why she isn’t that attached to her mom.

I am sure that we all are blessed with such family who treat the daughters as daughters and not as a paraya dhan.

Think if from a very young age, you are said you are paraya dhan, tera sasural hi tera ghar hai, teri saas hi teri maa hai, jo bhi pareshaani ho yahan bhaag ke mat aana etc etc… those were the society’s thoughts and norms and many abided by that. I believe Anu’s mom was also one like that. Maybe not harsh n rude to Anu but still with such thoughts as they were supposed to be correct. Anu’s brain might have been drilled, embedded, pasted, glued and what not with such thoughts to treat her husband n in laws as god n sasural as Heaven… mind you it could be from a tender age and throughout her marriage until the EMA exposure and subsequent divorce. Anu might have lived over 25-30 years with that in mind. So deeply ingrained in her system that she is unable to get out of it.


She is trying hard but deep down she still loves Baa and hence keeps failing… ab old habits seldom die


With her mom, due to such thoughts of paraya dhan, that close attachment may not be there. I am very attached to my mom and share everything with here because that’s the comfort she has given me. Maybe Anu’s mom didn’t give her that comfort to her in earlier days… Anu cares and concerns about her mom but values less than Baa. It could be due her mom itself telling Teri saas teri maa hai mujhe se zyada woh apni hai etc etc…. yes she is regretting that thought and did try to fix it. Lekin ab toh isn’t it too late for that deep bond to develop.

I am not blaming her mom here as I guess she too would be pressured under society. It isn’t easy for everyone to break the rules.


I also don’t agree with Anu’s actions of pleasing Baa but this is just an attempt in trying to understand her obsession.

Let me know your thoughts if it could be a possibility or not

Could it be a prank as it’s April fools’ day

Originally posted by: Peppss

If we keep the emotions aside and think camly then you can see that we are all reacting exactly the way the makers want to...

They want us to hate Anu more than we hate vanraj... this is probably the first show where lead is getting bashed so much...where the audience are made to develop so such contempt for the lead

This is all done deliberately just to appease the so called friend and his ego... this what happens when personal and professional relationship are mixed

I genuinely feel sorry for RG and GK...such wonderful talents are being misused and taken for granted

Sad truth

Their offscreen bond has become more evident since maan. Infact ever since Vanika track. They never expected it to fail so now they are stuck all over again. Spoil maan and fans come, try to show vannu his place toh friendship gets affected.

Even after all this, all the actors esp RG and GK give in their 100 percent and all justice even after the crappy/sloppy writing. But how long yaar?

Coming to this promo, I feel they are just trying to get people talking. See nothing has worked so far ever since Vanika was a scrapped. They need the footage basically.

But what they are not realising is that without progressing anu’s charac and/or throwing trash off that pedestal, nothing will change. Drama will cause people to hate/love/talk but it’s all momentary not sustainable. Itni si simple baat isn’t understood is beyond funny. And that too coming from a team who writes 5 serials simultaneously. And what baffles me the most is that they have such a great FD and such great ideas all over Twitter and all they do is selective pickups.

No one now has so much time and patience to spend on crap and I just want them to realise sooner than later. Better to get the act together otherwise it may just come down to them pulling the plug on something that could’ve been a great plot!

Originally posted by: Km181

@bold : She is a kaathputli jis ki door Baa, Laadle aur Bapuji ke haath main hai...

Not against simple marriage, I would have liked if Anu herself thought about and discussed with Anuj

I totally don’t mind a simple temple wedding. That would be absolutely sit with their character also. But she deciding due to Baa is the issue.


Anyways I am done with rant for today