Arylie Discussion Thread 40 🧿 - Page 73

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

So I am in the opposite camp where I am enjoying all this madness! 😂

I think it is because one, I see this arc as necessary part of conflict. Every story needs some conflict to keep it going. Otherwise, there is no story. As someone who gobbled up hundreds of romance novels at one stage, this arc is very normal. There is always miscommunications, anger, petty one upmanship. It all depends on the characters and the situation but it is found in every book. It is also necessary because it deepens the relationship. You know what happens when there is no real conflict to a romance novel? It just falls flat. Rather than you feeling that these two characters love each other, it instead feels like baseless romance fueled by lust, phermones and just situation -- you have the sense that given some time, it will collapse like a building without foundation. Whereas, the romances that hit you hard are the ones where there is a real storm, a wrangle and the two characters come out better for it.

I also think that this phase can be a great way to learn about conflict management and communication styles in the real world. There is so much to unpack about how we deal with grief, vulnerability, arguing and how that improves or worsens relationships.

So I understand why some hate it but I think if we fastforward and get to them being lovey dovey without any conflicts, I would puke because it wouldn't feel real. It wouldn't be Arylie for me!

agree with you here...

I also prefer conflict over sunshine and rainbows

stagnation of relationship because of too much understanding is worst for me

not to forget both are young and need to learn with experiences

while aryan has little to nil experience of romantic relationships

imie's experience is of a abusive relationship

its a journey and will have its ups and downs

Originally posted by: JJ_Holic

Since I am highly disappointed with this track and don't want to discuss this show. Anyone interested in discussing kdramas or BL with me on another chat club or something??

always, you can DM me if you have a chat running lol (my twitter is twitter.com/varsha_venkat_ )

Originally posted by: gayatherry88

https://twitter.com/AradhyaRoy52/status/1507218679146053634?s=20&t=GdQKxVQbvc_xBZ8BnkefWg

Beating him on his chest

Bitting on his hands

Pulling him with collar

She not even done a small bit of it with AKT. She have every right to be mad at him but violence going on next level😕 really feel for fammy🤔

Indeed she is very wild jungli 🤧

but I guess imlie se better hashtag ke saath babusaheb ka Mel perfect hoga 😆upar se mausi ji free mein milegi for planning ,plotting 😆they can be good team better than flop ideas of anu ,Malini 😆

Any update regarding imlie ka favourite naukrani vala avtaar.....wo kya kr rahi hai dobara in naukrani vala outfit mein.. 😵👎🏼🤢.....aryan should back off ...that it....

Originally posted by: SundariP

agree with you here...

I also prefer conflict over sunshine and rainbows

stagnation of relationship because of too much understanding is worst for me

not to forget both are young and need to learn with experiences

while aryan has little to nil experience of romantic relationships

imie's experience is of a abusive relationship

its a journey and will have its ups and downs

Tell me about it -- one of the reasons I stopped reading romance novels is because I got bored with the lack of real conflicts. Some of the older books had better setup. I am also very flaky when it comes to OTP pairings in dramas as well -- too lovely dovey without real conflict, it is just one big bore for me and I quickly lose any stake in watching them. A romance without real conflict is more erotica than romance to me. 🤣

Watching a daily drama can be fun only when there is conflict driving the story forward. Every conflict has to be something a little new. Otherwise, it is the same old rhona dhona and an utter borefest.

For those interested, I did a really long long analysis 😂 on why this arc is needed and how it plays into the overall setup of the drama going forward, if you haven't read it and have time, take a look here.

Originally posted by: funkypiya

Any update regarding imlie ka favourite naukrani vala avtaar.....wo kya kr rahi hai dobara in naukrani vala outfit mein.. 😵👎🏼🤢.....aryan should back off ...that it....

But in all this shit aryan is right in guessing that akt still has hopes ... waah kya understanding hain asr n akt ke beech. ...

Actually I want to see some discussion between Aditya and Imlie where she tells him about the deal or the video and there is a hug that Aryan can misinterpret as Imlie still loves Adi and move on or call of this wedding.

Uhmm..Aryan...you know there is a slim chance (albeit teeny meeny) that Imlie roars "F*ck you & f*ck everyone else" and just goes away with Meethi. The motivational speech that I am sure you must have prepared when you expect her to cancel the deal..ehm..that might have the opposite effect too.Like she gets disgusted with you , do another koni maar and storm off. 😆What then? What guarantee that the lurking Majnu & the Ts won't try to bribe her into marrying her..maybe by showing that he bought 10 boxes of PD special sindoor? 😆You think Meethi would stop her then? Uh..uh..nope, she won't have any luck there.. Wait, so how does your family fit in with your plans? To save one, it's ok to maybe hurt your family?

What guarantee is there that once shaadi happens, the bitterness that she holds against you won't spill over and affect your family?🤔

Don't you think..something like sending her abroad( or any other place) (with or without Meethi) to maybe do a course would have been better? (Inspiration from @nmurali 's TS) Once she experiences a new life, gets some friends..her perspectives might change..her professionalism would improve..🤔

Psst! Amy! If Aryan had not put this condition, how do we get the angst, the touches, the eyelocks and the endless number of Jaaniyas..

Ohh..the audience wants romance..so the makers are giving it in this form..Accha, samajh gayi..Since there are eyelocks, any chance of simply throwing in a lip lock as well? No? Not a teeny meeny oopsie moment?

Consent, Amy..consent!!..haven't you seen what has been happening all this time. For the coloring rang & mehndi lagaaoing ..did you see the Shor cuz lack of consent! Wait,didn't you also criticize Aryan for that? Badi aayi liplock chahne wali.

So what..they have already reached the biting stage. So you know, just move the destination a bit 😆

Aryan Singh Rathore......His dialogues today👏he was on fire....

Ya knock some sense into this 20 yr old woman.....

Really liked how he included every1 frm his peon to homemakers in his example....❤️

His definition of strength n empowerment is not superficial n not bound within gender, class ,education etc

We rarely see homemakers get the due respect they deserve👍🏼

These BM n BD really just go frm 1 to 1000 like straight up murder😆

I am just going to keep my attention on things I like but seriously I do like these tashans n all and don't have a big radda wid this track given its itv but I just cannot digest the OTT reaction imlie is giving aryan.....I mean iska 2% v T's n unke suputra ko dikhati kav behen....

And what is this mere upar talwar shit is this...talwar tere hi haath me he behen jiske upar tu khud naach rahi.....

BTW completely off topic My ma watched it wid me today n d first thing she said was "Ye dono v couple he kya"while pointing at nishant n rupi🤣

2nd thing she said after learning rupi didi name is she must be irritating so I was like yes she is how did u know n she replied dandruffs are pretty irritating n then she left ...🤣

In my language Rupi means dandruff🤣How d hell did I miss this😆