how should the abusive person handled?

recently there was a news about the father who raped his own daughter and had kids, for more information, please read the article: https://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/europe/05/04/austria. usually people who are abusive have history of being abused. therefore, should the person get treatment for it and then forgiven? whats the solution?

Originally posted by: raunaq

usually people who are abusive have history of being abused. therefore, should the person get treatment for it and then forgiven? whats the solution?

I like your suggestion, I'm totally with you on this one. Give him some choicest 'special' treatment over a period of time and when it's over forgive him by saying 'May his soul rest in peace'.😛

Originally posted by: raunaq

recently there was a news about the father who raped his own daughter and had kids, for more information, please read the article: https://www.cnn.com/2008/WORLD/europe/05/04/austria. usually people who are abusive have history of being abused. therefore, should the person get treatment for it and then forgiven? whats the solution?

yeah sure...let's forgive and forget.. who needs to worry about the victim/daughter who was kept in a dungeon and have never seen light of the day in her entire life. 😡

Originally posted by: lighthouse

yeah sure...let's forgive and forget.. who needs to worry about the victim/daughter who was kept in a dungeon and have never seen light of the day in her entire life. 😡

Agree😃

Forgive him/her once.....but dont forget the forgive....😳

Originally posted by: Insanity

I personally don't think he should be forgiven. That is too big of a crime.. he should be put in a dungeon himself and never get to come outside. 🤢

yes he should except that there should be "bigger" prisoners in there with him... someone like the prison guard should "accidently" blurt out his crime and then lets see what those guys do to him 😉

personally i say kill the beast but that would be such an easy way out for him...

Originally posted by: manny.

yes he should except that there should be "bigger" prisoners in there with him... someone like the prison guard should "accidently" blurt out his crime and then lets see what those guys do to him 😉

personally i say kill the beast but that would be such an easy way out for him...

I agree, it would be too easy. He deserves a much worse punishment than that. What he did was sickening.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Rape is a serious crime and rape of minors is even more heinous. There is no question of forgiveness in this situation. It will take immense strength & courage for the victim to move on and enjoy a happy future, but this is a trauma that is impossible to forget. When the victim actually can forget the abuse of the past, then let us consider the possibility of forgiving. Even if the abuser can get cured and live a normal future, the crime simply cannot be erased...nor should the guilt.

Are this scientifically documented facts in response to basic instincts.? In a land where sexuality is not matter of honor... the only thing that remains in a rape is the physical violence... any other trauma coming in is a matter of upbringing...only if the sexuality is in the larger scheme of things a matter of honor or cultural /religious/tradititional violation it is traumatic.. otherwise it is somebody taking away something from somebody - now that is mostly not traumatic... since everybody goes through that experience atleast once.. Remember the song "Sweet dreams are made of these... somebody wants to abuse you .. somebody wants to be abused by you...."