Akshara
First of all I have always blamed Akshara when ever she was wrong. But in yesterday's episode I think she balanced things pretty well. She cannot be totally insensitive to her sister who is overdosed doing things that will kill them. Everytime it cannot be just her Love. She needs to strike that balance which she is doing from last 2 episodes. Her attempts are commendable and I empathize with her cause being stuck between two loved ones is an impossible situation. I wouldn't want to be in Akshu's position. I was talking to my mom about this last night, that my love life will suffer if my partner is not amicable with my friends and family. If my best friend doesn't like my partner or my partner doesn't like my best friend, I'd feel terrible and I don't think I'd be able to handle that situation or balance accordingly. Likewise, if my in-laws don't favour me over their child, and my mom doesn't spoil my partner more, I'd be unhappy because this tumhari behan tumhara bhai stuff isn't for me. I want a relationship where it's our family and that's something I hated in Kaira's relationship too. Initially, for Kartik Naira's family was closer to his heart than his own, but as tracks went on, he lost touch with Nani and Mishti and created a divide between the two where Manish was his father and Naira was an outsider, even though Naira never saw it that way. I would have been upset if she would have gone to Abhimanyu leaving her sister do another suicide attempt or crazy thing. She atleast texted him.
Akshu is growing a lot in these last few episodes and Abhi is climbing up her priority list. She went to the hospital looking for both and then, chose the one who needed her most and that was obviously Aarohi. Aarohi looked drugged out and ready to lose consciousness, of course, Akshu followed her. Letting Aarohi drive in that condition would be insane and if she couldn't take over the wheel, Akshu still had to be there to supervise. And she thought about Abhi multiple times during the episode. What concerned me was the hierarchy she mentioned in the end. She said "Thank you Kanha ji meri aaru ko bachane ke liya, agar usse kuch ho jaata toh." When that meri comes in, that's when I start to see the balance between relationships falter. Cause that meri, in Akshu's case, is usually reserved for one person at a time (not surprising cause she's a Goenka and they can only pay attention to one person *granddaughter* at a time). Moreover, it involved her putting Aaru above herself as well and that's scary.
Aarohi. I don't blame her for overdose as much as others are blaming though I agree suicide is wrong. Because Aarohi is the person who was shown who always needs attention. She wants to be best. Now she is getting ignored by everyone around her. The guy she wanted to win for herself hates her. She is not able to take that especially when are parents are not alive and she miss them as much as Akshara. And who says doctors cannot do suicide attempt. At the end of the day it's person's feelings more than profession. In the temple no one except Akshara trusted her and that hurt her so much. Yes she needs Love especially when her sister is going through same customs marrying same guy. I personally don't want to hear any comments about her overdose or suicide attempt, especially any comments saying she's doing it for the wrong reasons. That's a discussion that goes beyond a show for me and it needs to be done in a far more sensitive environment. Moreover, I believe suicide is something that should be discussed by people who've been impacted by it in some way cause there's no one who knows it better than them.
Now second thing is driving and running away hitting someone. That I cannot take because for me even if even ant gets hit it hurts me. I try not to hurt anyone in life intentionally and if I do say I'll correct it. So being a doctor she needs to save life's and not run away so I was very disappointed there. Agreed!
Edited by Baarish_Sim - 3 years ago
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