My views on yesterday's episode

There is so much debate going on with for Akshara and Aarohi so decided to post my thoughts here because many of you pmd or tagged me to know my thoughts. You don't have to agree with me but just read with positive mind and please don't bash me if you do not agree because I need positive and happy vibes too. This views is only for yesterday's episode.

Akshara

First of all I have always blamed Akshara when ever she was wrong. But in yesterday's episode I think she balanced things pretty well. She cannot be totally insensitive to her sister who is overdosed doing things that will kill them. Everytime it cannot be just her Love. She needs to strike that balance which she is doing from last 2 episodes. I would have been upset if she would have gone to Abhimanyu leaving her sister do another suicide attempt or crazy thing. She atleast texted him.A

Aarohi. I don't blame her for overdose as much as others are blaming though I agree suicide is wrong. Because Aarohi is the person who was shown who always needs attention. She wants to be best. Now she is getting ignored by everyone around her. The guy she wanted to win for herself hates her. She is not able to take that especially when are parents are not alive and she miss them as much as Akshara. And who says doctors cannot do suicide attempt. At the end of the day it's person's feelings more than profession. In temple no one except Akshara trusted her and that hurt her so much. Yes she needs Love especially when her sister is going through same customs marrying same guy

Now second thing is driving and running away hitting someone. That I cannot take because for me even if even ant gets hit it hurts me. I try not to hurt anyone in life intentionally and if I do say I'll correct it. So being a doctor she needs to save life's and not run away so I was very disappointed there

ABHI

This guy loves Akshara and Manjiri so much that can sense any issue with them. He kept his anger aside and was making sure they are ok. So I really again loved him in yesterday's episode

Tagging some other friends

I think I told you I'll tag you in my post from now on but forgot 😊😊

Thanks for the tag, Nisha. We have our disagreements on Akshu, but I totally agree with you this time. She did not choose Aarohi over Abhi yesterday. She went to the hospital searching for both of them, and saw her sister stumbling around and speeding away...so obviously she was going to go check on her. That is just who Akshu is. No matter what Aarohi does, she will always love her... and especially under the circumstances, of course she was scared for her safety. If it had been Abhi in that condition, she would have done the exact same thing. Akshu is trying so hard to balance both of her relationships, and she is suffering so much as a result of it. My heart really does break for her.

In terms of her not telling Abhi what happened, again I totally understood where she was coming from. If she told him, there would only be more drama between Aarohi and Abhi... and she was too scared to even see him, because she did not want him to ask about the bruise. At the end of the day, she did not want to hurt him. So, she tolerated the pain alone. Just like Abhi did not tell her about Anisha at the beginning or that the tilak almost got cancelled...neither one of them are entirely open with each other at this point in their relationship, and yet Akshu is the only one who gets bashed. I don't blame either one of them. They are both learning, and deep understanding and communication takes time. So, we just have to let their relationship and story play out...already, there has been huge development in their individual characters and bond. And, this is not a movie where everything will get resolved in an hour.

As for Aarohi, I honestly have no words left for her. As a doctor, she should know better than to overdose and then get into a car and start driving. That is entirely reckless behavior, and her medical license should be taken away. She should not be let anywhere near a patient ever again. She has no value for human life. She did not even want to get out of the car and check if she had hit a person, because she was scared of creating a scene. Absolutely despicable behavior. She crossed a new low for me yesterday. And, I do blame her for overdosing, because she stole that medication from the hospital... again, absolutely unethical behavior. Everything that happened at the mandir, she brought upon herself, because she is quite literally the boy who cried wolf. It was not only Abhi who doubted her....her entire family did too, because at this point, they all know what she is capable of. She has lied and manipulated so much, that no one can completely trust her anymore. And yet, instead of taking accountability, she is playing the victim. I will stop here, because I know we won't agree on this and I could go on and on.

Abhi- his love is above his anger, ego, and everything else. The way in which he loves is truly beautiful. I understood his insecurities yesterday, but I don't agree with him that Akshu chose Aarohi over him for reasons explained above. But, these insecurities won't go away over night, especially because he is so deeply scared of what Aarohi will do next, and those fears are entirely legitimate. He cannot lose Akshu under any circumstances.... anyways, I am glad the makers are exploring this dynamic, because it needs to be tackled and Abhira will only become stronger because of it once they develop a shared understanding.

Originally posted by: Harshadfan21

There is so much debate going on with for Akshara and Aarohi so decided to post my thoughts here because many of you pmd or tagged me to know my thoughts. You don't have to agree with me but just read with positive mind and please don't bash me if you do not agree because I need positive and happy vibes too. This views is only for yesterday's episode.

Akshara

First of all I have always blamed Akshara when ever she was wrong. But in yesterday's episode I think she balanced things pretty well. She cannot be totally insensitive to her sister who is overdosed doing things that will kill them. Everytime it cannot be just her Love. She needs to strike that balance which she is doing from last 2 episodes. I would have been upset if she would have gone to Abhimanyu leaving her sister do another suicide attempt or crazy thing. She atleast texted him.A

Aarohi. I don't blame her for overdose as much as others are blaming though I agree suicide is wrong. Because Aarohi is the person who was shown who always needs attention. She wants to be best. Now she is getting ignored by everyone around her. The guy she wanted to win for herself hates her. She is not able to take that especially when are parents are not alive and she miss them as much as Akshara. And who says doctors cannot do suicide attempt. At the end of the day it's person's feelings more than profession. In temple no one except Akshara trusted her and that hurt her so much. Yes she needs Love especially when her sister is going through same customs marrying same guy

Now second thing is driving and running away hitting someone. That I cannot take because for me even if even ant gets hit it hurts me. I try not to hurt anyone in life intentionally and if I do say I'll correct it. So being a doctor she needs to save life's and not run away so I was very disappointed there

ABHI

This guy loves Akshara and Manjiri so much that can sense any issue with them. He kept his anger aside and was making sure they are ok. So I really again loved him in yesterday's episode

Sabki viewpoint dikhane ki aapki kosish ko mere 👏 👏

I'm disappointed with today's accident 😞 track for now and hence not going to watch the serial for a week.

Your analysis and theorieswill be my lens for the story from now on, because I feel better with this than watching the kachra kichdi by CVs🤯

So bring it on.😀

Nicely put Pooja. Yes I don't agree with you on Aarohi completely but I don't blame you too because sometimes when you don't like the character you try to ignore the reason behind that behavior. Driving and running away was extremely bad and yes if she doesn't correct her mistake her driving license needs to be revoked. But even when she is not wrong people just Blame her here.

Loved reading about Akshara and Abhimanyu ❤️❤️

Originally posted by: Rsrockz

Sabki viewpoint dikhane ki aapki kosish ko mere 👏 👏

I'm disappointed with today's accident 😞 track for now and hence not going to watch the serial for a week.

Your analysis and theorieswill be my lens for the story from now on, because I feel better with this than watching the kachra kichdi by CVs🤯

So bring it on.😀

Thank you ji for so nice compliment. Good and bad episodes keep coming. It just depends on what we want to watch. So watch in fast forward mode or skip it. Whatever makes us happy.

Thank u for the tag nisha..🤗

I was not liking ak for not calling him even after seeing his calls,bt after reading other members views I now can somewhat understand her..bt i m not gonna deny the fact tht I m still dissapointed with her..🤐

Aj ka I understand tht she need to calm aru down n she can’t leave her alone nor I wanted her to do tht but what abt her previous actions..and still I didnot like the way she took abhi’s name in the last ..☹️

I love how abhi always intiate it first n always keep his ego aside whenever they fight..😊
Bt i m definitely not liking his impulsive behavior..👎🏼

OK... so here I am. Nish, you wanted me to write my POV as a doctor. I will write both as a doctor and a woman who has had her own love story that's now turned into marriage story.

Arohi - nothing much to say about her, TBH. Makers have decided to paint her black and have taken her to the extent where coming back is becoming more and more difficult. I mean, after a point, a person feeling remorse is pointless. The damage too much to undo. She is fast reaching that point. Her nature has always been selfish and impulsive. No denying that. I'm not upset with her drug overdose (or whatever it is that she did) You have personal issues going on, you have pills on hand, it's easy to give in. That's what she did. But suspecting that she might have run over somebody and running away from that scene - I have no words for that. None. And no remorse at any point. Her profession aside, that character has been turned inhuman. Not sure what the makers have planned for her but for me personally, there is no redeeming Arohi Goenka. She can be genuinely hurt and bleeding inside out and I would have zero sympathy for her after this point. And I refuse to see this character as a doctor going forward. Wearing a white coat doesn't make her one.

Akshara - I have no complaints on how she handled the situation during the drive. She did the best under those very trying conditions. She pleaded, yelled, screamed...she explored every avenue to get Arohi to listen. But the fear of what her sister ingested was overriding her and she gave in. Any family member would do the same. Get the person to safety, make sure your loved one is safe. That's what she did. But after that, her silence didn't make any sense to me. With Abhi - yes. Maybe she didn't want to worry him or she wasn't sure of his reaction at this latest Arohi stunt. Either reason is justified enough to keep her silence. My brother and my husband can't see each other face to face to this day. So I know this balance is difficult whether that person is your husband or lover.

But what about Kairav? Or Vansh? Someone! She suspects her sister has run over someone, now refusing to do anything about it and her answer is to keep talking to that sister? Tell someone. Go there and see who or what it was. For me it doesn't matter if it was Manjari or deer or a puppy. Fact is something did happen and she knows it's not a situation that can be handled by her alone. It's not like the PG exam or whatever gapla Arohi did before because all those involved money and / or Akshu herself. This is different. So once assured that there's nothing physically wrong with Arohi, that the meds didn't cause her any harm, she should have talked it out with someone. Her nature is such that she won't act unless and until paani sar ke ooper chala jaaye. Until she is pushed to her limit. It's not a trait that I like but I accept that that's how she is. Reactive rather than proactive. That is not the right approach all the time, is it? Not when a life might be involved over there.

Let us assume it was Manjari who got hit but she is merely injured. Would that make all this OK? The trauma Abhi went through as he searched for his mother, the time lapsed when she would have needed medical attention...

And if it was not Manjari and it's someone else then it's all OK? Does that make the situation better? Would Akshara breathe easy if it was a random stranger seriously hurt or worse instead of Manjari?

I know this is ITV and all will be well in the end but makers need to know where to draw the line when it comes to negative characters and the families that love them despite everything.

I have not watched today's episode yet. So all this is me after yesterday's episode and after reading Pooja's review.

P.S: I didn't like it yesterday when Akshu addressed Manjari as maa. Either you stick to aunty or maa. Uncle or papa. Don't switch to maa / papa when things get emotional or you need something from them and switch back to uncle aunty when all is honky dory.

Originally posted by: SatyaVS

Reserving.

Will share my thoughts after I complete and post my OS.

Thanks for the tag, Nisha.

Would love to read it from Doctors eyes ❤️❤️ please do it in detail and take your time