Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #169 - Page 102

Originally posted by: spdp

Another HUGE advantage other two have is: their husbands support them.

They sometimes ridicule them in true Suman fashion- but not all the time like Shiva! That gives them strength & confidence to do things own way!
They both have strong family in terms of Hardik & Janu family. They have someone wishing there well & someone they can fall back on.

Raavi has never had anyone in mayka (maami is conditionally there - not someone who always wishes her well)

Raavi has never had unwavering support of shiva.

not sure when - if ever, this show will show some positivity in ShiVi equation!

Lol, now why would Shiva support her? He's not her husband. 😆 The truth is they messed up the story so bad. started right from the third angle track. Shiva has never respected Raavi and never saw her as Raavi. Always have been seen her as MKBKB, then when he was attracted to her, saw dhara bhabhi and now back to MKBKB. The character sketch of Shiva has been ruined to pieces. Maami had truly loved Raavi in the beginning but then she also got a flip change. I don't even wanna know talk about Suman. She is the true villain in the show. If she is gone, that house will attain peace.

The show should maintain some consistency. They are all flipping according to their convenience. Raavi is not flipped but instead made stupid and a clown.🤪🐷

Originally posted by: mpks1

Today Dhara, Krish, Gautam, Shiva all were begging Suman not to throw Rushita out. When Raavi said the same things, Suman out finger on her lips and gave her a death stare, asking her to shut up.
No one came to her support. I really don’t know why Raavi has to say something all the time and get humiliated by Suman and Shiva. The writers purposely want to keep showing her to be a dobi. They have made her annoying.

I don’t even know why she is up and about for Rishita when that girl doesn’t even care about her existence. We all know that Dhara is not going to include Rishita in the plan for a reason because she has mostly taken Shiva’s side than Raavi’s. Dhara doesn’t want her to sabotage the plans and her mood swings are not going to help either.

As for Shiva supporting Raavi, will never happen in this lifetime. The only time he ever supported her was during the first wedding when he said, “ Raavi naam hai isska”

That was it😕

@Bold: As we all know uske baad the other writer left the show and whole writing department came into Chaubey couple ka hands.

So iss couple se something good ka expectation karna he stupidity hain.

Shiva, Dhara and Suman won't ever be wrong and Raavi se bhi kuch dhang ke behaviour ki expectation karna is bewakoofi.

Gungun bhi dimag laga rahi hain, Mannu too is getting all the support but Raavi using her brains and standing for herself and 'selfless Shiva' as his blind fans call him, won't ever stand for Raavi who he claims to love (pehle isko pyaar ka matlab batao koyi bcoz woh joh Raavi ke saath karta hain woh koyi hater bhi na kare) he don't even know the meaning of sorry and love except his family which doesn't have Raavi in it.

Originally posted by: spdp

Another HUGE advantage other two have is: their husbands support them.

They sometimes ridicule them in true Suman fashion- but not all the time like Shiva! That gives them strength & confidence to do things own way!
They both have strong family in terms of Hardik & Janu family. They have someone wishing there well & someone they can fall back on.

Raavi has never had anyone in mayka (maami is conditionally there - not someone who always wishes her well)

Raavi has never had unwavering support of shiva.

not sure when - if ever, this show will show some positivity in ShiVi equation!

Saddest part is Raavi knows it too that's why she can't let go. She still consider these family her part, so she can't let this family go too. Dhara supports her, gaumbi, Dev sometimes too, she got a family here which she got nowhere else.

She went with maami to counceller so she can't go to counceller again to prove that it was not her. So only thing that left to prove her innocence is her unconditional love. She IS acting desperate. Because that maybe her final chance with Shiva & this family. She can't trust maami &Anita.

While all others are fighting a battle with world. Raavi is fighting a battle with herself, family, her husband, world everyone. A simple girl whose only dream was a family, she has to fight for that too.

Shivi is the best example of tragedy due to forced marrg..

Originally posted by: Yahvi

Saddest part is Raavi knows it too that's why she can't let go. She still consider these family her part, so she can't let this family go too. Dhara supports her, gaumbi, Dev sometimes too, she got a family here which she got nowhere else.

She went with maami to counceller so she can't go to counceller again to prove that it was not her. So only thing that left to prove her innocence is her unconditional love. She IS acting desperate. Because that maybe her final chance with Shiva & this family. She can't trust maami &Anita.

While all others are fighting a battle with world. Raavi is fighting a battle with herself, family, her husband, world everyone. A simple girl whose only dream was a family, she has to fight for that too.

Honestly, i can't understand shiva's POV since a long time. From what I feel, the male leads often get away with a lot of things.they are given a certain leeway. His anger is termed as hurt, his insecurities are symphatized with. The female lead is expected to understand him and be the ideal loving wife. If it was raavi who had sent the divorce papers to shiva or if she silently stood at her engagement with another guy while still being married then she would have been bashed left, right and centre. infact raavi is questioned till now that she called shiva junglee, jahil and gawar. I have read so many posts and comments across different social media platforms during the yatra fight that raavi doesn't deserve shiva, she is superficial, only looks matter to her,she is vain, we want a new girl for shiva and what not. And all this when the fight was both sided.Imagine if raavi actually was at fault then what would be the audience's reactions. The makers want to stretch shivi confession and it's always easier to make the male lead angry, grumpy and suspicious. Have we ever seen a female lead with anger issues? No. Thats the only explanation i can come up with.baaki makers hi jaane.

@goodluck

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

A fan on twitter saying the episode was beautiful because of kanwar's performance😕

Yeh kaunsa ME dekh liya isne , 4 tu scenes they kanwar ke

Andh bakhti ki bhi seema hoti hai🤣

🤣

They Still think Shiva ka hurt is more and he doesn't have ego, he is the best 🤪and uske saath atyaachar ho raha hain, bechaara hain and loves Raavi that too selfless love , so what more can u expect from them.

Also

For them being Shivi fan means being Shiva ka blind fan and defending his every shit.

&
If u say against his shit behaviour with Raavi then u r not a Shivi fan.

U are only Shivi fan if u defend Shiva for his wrong doings and not say anything against how he treats Raavi bcoz if said the truth and showed them the mirror about Shiva ka behaviour with Raavi then u hate Shiva and are Raavi biased.

They are the only Shivi fans and only they have right on that tag and to be part of it u need to keep defending and writing dhaagas about Shiva ka hurt and need to ignore Raavi ka hurt.

As a person who likes ShiVi more than the other couples😆, It hurts when your OTP is not treated fair in the show.😒 GauRa and DevTa's problems gets solved and u can see respect, trust and understanding in those couples scenes, whereas for ShiVi, nothing gets solved and more problems gets piled up without no closure. In the beginning, ShiVi's story was very beautiful. Now, GauRa's and DevTa's tracks are 100 times better than what they are showing for ShiVi.

Shiva was egoistic then , he is egoistic now

Tab raavi ne sahi judge kiya aur aaj gautam ne

Originally posted by: deeps07

.if I was ravi and madly in love with shiva for unknown reasons and didn't want to let him go even after knowing his conditional love and distrust added with disgust for her. i would leave that house respecting his happiness () and go back to mami and make her spill the truth ,record it and let everyone know..if that doesn't work, just let go of him. Love cannot be forced..

I hope ultimately this conclude in that