Originally posted by: Gadbad_Ghotala
It is a weird take, no offence, many wanna marry and not just for social conditioning. I wanna get married some day and just for myself. No offence, but this sounds like some personal bias/ negative experience.
Of course, it is your take after all.
No offense taken. It's definitely not a personal bias I can assure you. I went from I will never ever get married to marrying is a personal choice progressive women make knowingly because they want to, to my present belief. Like I said so many times during this conversation, I will get married in a year or two to a guy I am madly in love with. But I am not going to pretend like it's a personal choice. Marriage is an unnecessary oppressive institution the society built to control individuals and especially women. Marriage is not necessary for love to flourish. It provides so many "safeguards" to women making unmarried women horrible about their unmarried status. It is just that most women do not realise they are socially conditioned to "choose" marriage. It is not my personal bias because if it is I wouldn't be ridiculing myself for "choosing" to marry because clearly no one has put a gun to my head and is making me marry. 😅
And none has yet convinced me how it was their "choice" to marry.
Yep. I know some of us are here in this chat club because we have fairly common views about a lot of things. But not necessarily on everything. Dissent and difference of opinion is always healthy. 🥰
Edited by Ekahriz - 3 years ago
