Looks like abhi and akshu are heading towards a bad breakup - Page 2

Originally posted by: borntorule12

But abhi's expectations are wrong . Right now they are just in a relationship, after marriage she will definitely prioritise her husband ..

Abhimanyu is blaming akshara for choosing family

Didn't he choose to marry the sister of the girl he loves and to life long torture her just because of maa ki khushi? If his mother can be important to him, why can't grandfather be important? Especially when she is an orphan girl...she just said she didn't want her love to hurt her family...by that she didn't mean abhi...she meant that she is feeling guilty that somewhere her love is responsible for grandfather being in death bed...

What if she actually lost bade papa? Would she be able to forgive abhimanyu for the stress he caused and then couldn't save bade papa also?

Such situations are very fragile and different people have different mindset... So abhi's expectations tht I prioritise you over everyone, so even you should is kind of selfish ..

If he has so many issues he can choose to break up and move on..

Absolutely........he knows,she had a turbulent past,even then this behaviour......this abhi is really impulsive and in this obsession he will hurt her really bad......poor akshu

Originally posted by: priya3_3

Absolutely........he knows,she had a turbulent past,even then this behaviour......this abhi is really impulsive and in this obsession he will hurt her really bad......poor akshu

Even after marriage he will be like yeh decision lene se pehle mujhse pucha kyu nai, goenkas ke kyu chali gayi when I needed you, why did you talk to this guy, why this why that...his no. 1 issue is going to be his obsession... He doesn't know how to balance between family and akshu whereas she can do the same..

They are still in the initial stages of their relationship. And they never fully addressed what happened during the tilak as well as the months that followed. This is a normal part of any relationship. You have to work through their issues. Abhi's insecurities and trauma from the past need to be addressed... Akshu sacrificed him for her family, and he is still deeply hurt by that...understandably so. Even though Akshu is just expressing her feelings, he is going to misunderstand that to mean she is prioritizing her family. This is despite the fact that she is doing no such thing... she is just sharing how torn she constantly feels... so neither of them are wrong here. They just need to talk to each other. Akshu needs to give him that security, but he also needs to understand where she is coming from.

Originally posted by: tptwi

They are still in the initial stages of their relationship. And they never fully addressed what happened during the tilak as well as the months that followed. This is a normal part of any relationship. You have to work through their issues. Abhi's insecurities and trauma from the past need to be addressed... Akshu sacrificed him for her family, and he is still deeply hurt by that...understandably so. Even though Akshu is just expressing her feelings, he is going to misunderstand that to mean she is prioritizing her family. This is despite the fact that she is doing no such thing... she is just sharing how torn she constantly feels... so neither of them are wrong here. They just need to talk to each other. Akshu needs to give him that security, but he also needs to understand where she is coming from.

That's also a valid point.........but what do u think r we getting #abhira wedding soon as everyone claims in March end or will it be a long Rocky road ahead,cause i heard higher ups of yrkkh have said #abhira wedding in march end

Originally posted by: priya3_3

Absolutely........he knows,she had a turbulent past,even then this behaviour......this abhi is really impulsive and in this obsession he will hurt her really bad......poor akshu

Originally posted by: priya3_3

That's also a valid point.........but what do u think r we getting #abhira wedding soon as everyone claims in March end or will it be a long Rocky road ahead,cause i heard higher ups of yrkkh have said #abhira wedding in march end

Originally posted by: tptwi

I think we are headed towards marriage track! I think rishta will soon be accepted...bakhi let's see!

Ya manish has given his acceptance,soon the birlas will also agree but when abhi and akshu themselves will not be on the same wavelength do u think everything would go down that easily....... And also u remember in one episode abhi was really afraid what if he does something very bad in his anger,i think the deep insecurities that abhi has and the lack of communication that abhira have, something sure is happening,they never had proper talks like a couple......

Originally posted by: priya3_3

Ya manish has given his acceptance,soon the birlas will also agree but when abhi and akshu themselves will not be on the same wavelength do u think everything would go down that easily....... And also u remember in one episode abhi was really afraid what if he does something very bad in his anger,i think the deep insecurities that abhi has and the lack of communication that abhira have, something sure is happening,they never had proper talks like a couple......

I think this will come up after marriage ... His issues will be why she is choosing birla family problems over him...

Abhimanyu himself is a family person..he pretends not to but he is..remember how he neglected akshara for a whole day just to sort out anisha's matter who is only his cousin but still akshu was so calm and understanding with him..he literally manhandled kairav for breaking up with anisha..he can do anything for neil and manjari plus he respects Anand and Mahima as well..he only has issue's with his father that's all..

And here akshu's grandfather was on his death bed and he could literally die..so its obvious that she'll be worried..but as usual abhimanyu gets insecure and jealous..even in today's episode he got insecure when akshu got emotional seeing manish and hugged kairav..in precap akshu is happily dancing with her family and doesn't even know that abhimanyu is angry and abhimanyu is upset that she's so happy with her family..its pure jealousy he can't tolerate seeing akshara having a life apart from being his girlfriend ... she didn't leave him or did anything Intentionally to hurt him..

Abhimanyu needs to learn to cope up with akshara's family loving nature..he can't be jealous of something like this i thought abhimanyu will be secure after akshara's confession but seems like he is always gonna be competing with every person akshu cares about..

Abhimanyu wants to have akshara all for himself..he is extremely possessive and obsessive for her..

Originally posted by: ayushisingh29

Abhimanyu himself is a family person..he pretends not to but he is..remember how he neglected akshara for a whole day just to sort out anisha's matter who is only his cousin but still akshu was so calm and understanding with him..he literally manhandled kairav for breaking up with anisha..he can do anything for neil and manjari plus he respects Anand and Mahima as well..he only has issue's with his father that's all..

And here akshu's grandfather was on his death bed and he could literally die..so its obvious that she'll be worried..but as usual abhimanyu gets insecure and jealous..even in today's episode he got insecure when akshu got emotional seeing manish and hugged kairav..in precap akshu is happily dancing with her family and doesn't even know that abhimanyu is angry and abhimanyu is upset that she's so happy with her family..its pure jealousy he can't tolerate seeing akshara having a life apart from being his girlfriend ... she didn't leave him or did anything Intentionally to hurt him..

Abhimanyu needs to learn to cope up with akshara's family loving nature..he can't be jealous of something like this i thought abhimanyu will be secure after akshara's confession but seems like he is always gonna be competing with every person akshu cares about..

Abhimanyu wants to have akshara all for himself..he is extremely possessive and obsessive for her..

And didn't even care to clear out Anisha's confession had akshara not forced... What if Akshara was seen with some guy and akshara neglected abhimanyu because of this, would abhimanyu tolerate this? Would he understand that she may have some issue if someone told akshara was hugging a guy in cafe, if he saw akshara saving a guy, would he also show understanding like akshara?

And yes you're absolutely right, he is also a family person but he shows he is not ..in future also he will fight with akshara when Neil and Aarohi want to get married by saying why aarohi wants to marry my brother, I can't tolerate your sister... In between manjari and akshu also he will choose manjari only .. kairav Anisha are going to create another problem....

He should have understood akshu didn't meant it that way and said it in the heat of the moment .. or could have had a calm mature conversation with her but he wants to show his attitude that you have to come aftrr me...