Pandya Store|Episode Discussion #164 - Page 72

Today Shiva's reaction is not wrong I agree that..but the way some Tt people glorify it...I am not angry rather surprised..

Kaand day is finally here with full on bakwas drama

Pehle toh it was such bakwas attempt to draw parallels between Shivi

Shiva tried to hurt Anita....toh Raavi tried to hurt Suman too.....as if intent and context doesn't matter at all

Shiva got slapped by Gaumbi/ Raavi.....toh Dhara has to raise her hand at Raavi too.....as if anyone wanted to watch any kind of repeat of danda kaand or the slapfest

Let's not even talk about family hypocrisy......zabardasti nahi karna.....galat tareeka..... I need that kripya gyaan naa baate vala gif for this bakwas

Someone please find some troll content......this level of bakwas is beyond me.

Originally posted by: sahapallavi

take me with you i used to watch kdrama since last 4 years then shivi happend or last 10months se stuck hu kdrama me bhi man nhai lag raha😐😐

Mai bhi yehi soch rahi hu q jo mai itv dekhne aayi

Chaliye chalte hai saath mein. I stopped watching kdramas the moment I started watching this abusive toxic show. I've around 20 dramas in my watch list. I'll just complete them.

Kyu dekh rahi thi mein yeh show itne mahine ?

Maybe I expected another Neil khanna to happen in form of shiva. Galti meri thi. Ab jaan gayi toh sudhar lungi. Ek aur ITV show zindagi mein kabhi nahi dekhungi. It's gonna lose its plot anyway. Dekh ke kya faida

It is not about Shiva & Raavi - Raavi did stupidity but has gone out of her way to save her marriage.

Shiva may have circumstantial misunderstandings , but none of his actions are justifiable because he is blinded & Not looking at things beyond face value.
A lot of it - most of it is because of their families.

It is about How insanely toxic & partial this family is.

Dhara & gombi & Suman were root cause of ivf kaand.

-there was no need to go for ivf w/o varifying cost or cross checking Anita.
-there was no need to make it family picnic- emotionally indirect - forcing all to join them. Raavi was better off staying home.

-Suman had no need to call Shiva at hospital. Krish & Gaumbi were there. She always instigates & promotes Shiva to be the violent one. W/o thinking if consequences.

Dhara & Gombi & Suman were rooting cause of ‘Jabardasti’ ki Shaadi. They were the ones who forced Shiva & Raavi together.
and after that washed their hands off responsibility to give space+time+ease for ShiVi to be able to navigate their life togather. Dhara started her batwara drama, Danda kaand & later baby kaand.

Hypocritical of them to give gyan now in jabardasti!

-Domestic abuse. Maami’s charge is not wrong.
if you look at it: Raavi slogged like unpaid naukarani during Dhara’s pregnancy. Verbal abuse by Suman us if extreme.
shiva’s anger & abuses are real thing.
Gaumbi & Dhara raising hand on Shiva, Krish was wrong. Her raising hand on Raavi is simply criminal. Gaumbi staying mum at that is being part of the crime. His munh pherna was uncalled for too. Especially after listening to Raavi's explanation. He was highly accommodative for his own criminal biwi.

No excuses can be heard for that.

-Partiality:

Dave is still not ever told off: taken to task about what tv he did to Raavi. And how this whole mess started.

Look at his audacity to give gyan to Raavi today.

Rishita never gets told to prove herself. She says her Bua wasn’t there, shows pictures & all believe.
She jumps the gun to taunt & point at Raavi at every given point.
but For her mistakes: no one tells her anything. All have to make sure she doesn’t feel bad.

Because of her Raavi almost lost her life— and Firget punishing Rishita: Dhara didnot even mention this to family!
How mahaan!
She lost money for jameen & new store— no one is supposed to say a word.
raavi changed price by 10$ and Dhara’s temper hit the roof!!

Bi*** indeed!

Whatever they show now to make Dhara or Suman look right:: is absolutely going against. No sympathy , even if story is written to make raavi look dobi.
Audience connect & sympathy is with Raavi - My MIL always always comments: she is orphan so all harass her. Ladki pyaar se rehna chahti hai, but all take her goodness Ka fayda.

Today she even commented post mandir Jaanu scene: day Suman is gone: Other 3 brothers will throw shiva out of family.

Originally posted by: Darshi141

Because they have to somehow justify Shiva & they don't have anything else to say.. I just checked on Twitter & one girl there apparently said that Raavi tried to force herself on Shiva & is doing shameless nautanki all these days.. I just uninstalled my twitter account immediately warna I would have gone too mad to work all day if I had read more

I went on a blocking spree today. I think I've blocked around 20 accounts. Don't wanna say this , but what will they do if they get a husband like shiva and family like pandyas ? Still support them ?

50 rs bet for a lollipop segment on sbs sbb today 😛

Originally posted by: .Sunrise.

50 rs bet for a lollipop segment on sbs sbb today 😛

Suman kasam, ofcourse!

Originally posted by: spdp

It is not about Shiva & Raavi - Raavi did stupidity but has gone out of her way to save her marriage.

Shiva may have circumstantial misunderstandings , but none of his actions are justifiable because he is blinded & Not looking at things beyond face value.
A lot of it - most of it is because of their families.

It is about How insanely toxic & partial this family is.

Dhara & gombi & Suman were root cause of ivf kaand.

-there was no need to go for ivf w/o varifying cost or cross checking Anita.
-there was no need to make it family picnic- emotionally indirect - forcing all to join them. Raavi was better off staying home.

-Suman had no need to call Shiva at hospital. Krish & Gaumbi were there. She always instigates & promotes Shiva to be the violent one. W/o thinking if consequences.

Dhara & Gombi & Suman were rooting cause of ‘Jabardasti’ ki Shaadi. They were the ones who forced Shiva & Raavi together.
and after that washed their hands off responsibility to give space+time+ease for ShiVi to be able to navigate their life togather. Dhara started her batwara drama, Danda kaand & later baby kaand.

Hypocritical of them to give gyan now in jabardasti!

-Domestic abuse. Maami’s charge is not wrong.
if you look at it: Raavi slogged like unpaid naukarani during Dhara’s pregnancy. Verbal abuse by Suman us if extreme.
shiva’s anger & abuses are real thing.
Gaumbi & Dhara raising hand on Shiva, Krish was wrong. Her raising hand on Raavi is simply criminal. Gaumbi staying mum at that is being part of the crime.

No excuses can be heard for that.

-Partiality:

Dave is still not ever told off: taken to task about what tv he did to Raavi. And how this whole mess started.

Rishita never gets told to prove herself. She says her Bua wasn’t there, shows pictures & all believe.
She jumps the gun to taunt & point at Raavi at every given point.
but For her mistakes: no one tells her anything. All have to make sure she doesn’t feel bad.

Because of her Raavi almost lost her life— and Firget punishing Rishita: Dhara didnot even mention this to family!
How mahaan!
She lost money for jameen & new store— no one is supposed to say a word.
raavi changed price by 10$ and Dhara’s temper hit the roof!!

Bi*** indeed!

Whatever they show now to make Dhara or Suman look right:: is absolutely going against. No sympathy , even if story is written to make raavi look dobi.
Audience connect & sympathy is with Raavi - My MIL always always comments: she is orphan so all harass her. Ladki pyaar se rehna chahti hai, but all take her goodness Ka fayda.

Today she even commented post mandir Jaanu scene: day Suman is gone: Other 3 brothers will throw shiva out of family.

Every single member gets away if they did a kaand but when Raavi is in the vicinity, they all gang up on her. The writing is messed up. Since they've now portrayed Raavi as the typical ITV FL, she has to bear all the consequences, whether it's caused by herself, her husband or her family. Mahaan people stay mahaan all the time, flipsters stay flipsters but poor Raavi doesn't have anything to say and always receives worse treatment.

Should be studying for my exam, but instead I am here 😆 (apologies if I don't reply, most likely am studying for my upcoming exam on Monday/Tuesday)... but wow are the characters completely different from the OG version. It's safe to say this isn't a Pandian Store remake, but instead a Pandian Store spin-off.

For anyone who thinks Raavi and Shiva have a healthy relationship with each other filled with nok-jhoks, I beg to differ. In the initial episodes, when Shiva and Raavi fought, I could see the mutual respect they had for each other underneath the frothy iciness. The moments where Shiva catches the matka, where Raavi punches Shiva's chest when he saves her (instead of slapping Dev for being the cause of her misery), where Shiva still protects her even though she mistakes him for abandoning her, where Raavi forgives him instantly in a moment when he confesses he never abandoned her... all those moments, that's what a healthy relationship is.

I briefly went on Twitter, and because I can't properly convey my thoughts in the character limit, here's a run down of how I feel. Yes, I agree, Shiva and Raavi are right in their own respective manner regarding this kaand. Raavi just wants to be back with Shiva (and no, she is not "forcing" herself, she's just being her pre-marriage Raavi self of wanting to "seduce" her husband in her own dobi, but cute, manner) and Shiva is unable to trust her after everything that happened. However, the character reactions are so far removed from what we initially saw... almost makes me wonder whether Raavi and Shiva were married, or whether they were just two acquaintances sharing a room...

Hear me out, Raavi and Shiva from the initial days would not act like this. In a marriage, you would expect two individuals to grow and mature. But somehow, I feel like both of them, instead of growing, regressed a whole ton (it's like they are in the negative zone of their relationship), and it's because the writers clearly don't know how to balance ShiVi's relationship with "Dhara-Ma."

The hospital scene should have ended with Shiva blowing up with anger, and Raavi merely touching his arm to calm him down... would have showed how Raavi is the only one to make Shiva see reason when he is at his worst. It would also establish how Raavi could help him with her anger issues, and pave the path for conversation between them where she helps him feel loved and important.

Raavi's attempts at seduction should've shown Shiva slowly melting away at her charm, but keeping up a wall because he still could remember how she sent him to jail, "colluded" with Moti-ben, etc. (I personally liked all the dreams 😆 and wish they did more with it. Perhaps Shiva rolling his eyes when Raavi kisses him, muttering how it's just a stupid dream as he wipes his cheek, but to his horror realizes that it's reality, while Raavi is super pleased to be able to kiss Shiva so she leans forward to whisper/threaten him with more kisses if he doesn't come to their room to sleep).

Anyway, I digress, this whole snake kaand could've been a great segway for the entire family to be against Raavi for putting them in danger, and Shiva pausing and saying, "Hold up, yeah it was pretty stupid, but this dobi girl doesn't know otherwise. Let's all forgive her," he turns to glare at her, "and send her back home (so she doesn't get the chance to kiss me!)" while Raavi is happy and relieved to see Shiva supporting her, but not willing to let go of her nautanki, latches on to Shiva to dramatically ask him to teach her how to not be dobi (further planting herself in the house).

Idk, I feel like at this point, Dhara should have 0 interference in their lives. Shiva and Raavi are adults. They should be able to make their own decisions, and they should largely be able to solve their own problems. Dhara's crap about Raavi forcing her feelings onto Shiva is probably the biggest LOL/roll my eyes moment in the entire show, and the hypocrisy this family has to send Raavi out for a snake, yet not Dhara for kidnapping someone's baby is so ludicrous... hope my thoughts made sense but what we're seeing is not Shiva or Raavi nowadays...

For Dhara and Rishita especially

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