Goenkas ki barat. - Page 12

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Its not the be taken as toxic anytime. It's same in real life how people fall in love and fight for love against families success in it and slowly making place in laws house and balancing mayka and sasural. Ar the end of the day their love will be unique to conquer all problems.

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

Agree let’s see…. But I am sure someone who had to guts to confess their love will fight for it as well

I don't think so...Anisha can't open up in front of Birlas otherwise she would have not left the house 2 years back. What she does is..goes and commit suicidal attempt to convey her feelings.

We still don't know what she did 2 years back that cause her left home. I am not sure how honest she is with Kairav about her past. That is also something we need to see if Kairav knows it or not.

As Kairav rightly pointed out - pyaar ek pal mein ho jata hain per unko jaane mein ek pal kafi nahin hai...

We will see how honest is Anisha with Kairav and if she has guts to tell same thing in front of Birlas or not? She is hell scared of Mahima and Anand.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

This scene where kv told we are going there if any one sees again a problem. So both agreed to shift her. This shows how Goenkas are boxed up in their emotions for family peace and togetherness whereas Abhi is roaming openly without caring for familys affect. Result is he was along with both in ride in side , all reached the place at same time.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Manish is one generation ahead. So he knows where to stop and where to jump. He learnt much through his mistakes and loss of his loved people made him more stern and protective to his grand kids. He is not like Harsh in season2 but has grey quality. As he was posessive of kartik and kartik loved naira much and didn't care Manish , Manish used to dislike naira . Orelse he has good relationship with his brothers and he is always head of family. Harsh is egoistic chavunist. He never respected his own brother's wife or his wife and on top of it Ak was always taunted by him. His only soft corner for Anisha is shown to bend for goenkas next. Orekse he had tonnes of ego and attitude which none can change. Manjari fuelled his ego by pacifying his demands in her blind love. If kv holds Abhis collar, ak will side Abhi no doubt to stop fight. It's viceversa. She is chosing the calm.method to stop them orelse dangal hojata in her words.

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Tdy ani jumped into the water just cos of a rejection.. tmw it can be something else.. if you are such a weak person who cant handle a breakup, how can u trust to live a complicated stuggled life, lifelong with such a weakling? Aftr marriage, she might threatn with suicide for smthing else.. nd suppose she does that like today.. these same birlas nd abhi would kill him for that..life doesnt work that way.. kv has the responsibilty of his whole family, his great grand mothr, grandparents, siblings.. he just cant afford to resign, quit and leave his home for minor tiffs for his personal wishes as birla kids do..

So you mean to say I can give hopes to someone saying I love them immensely and I want to live with them forever. Suddenly, one fine day I tell them No this can’t happen since you are a Birla and are families won’t get along. I can break up my relationship when I feel it’s not gonna work out without even consulting the other person. I tell them to also forget all those feelings they have for me as it won’t work and because I am not gonna try.

Her suicidal nature is wrong. Her way of handling things is wrong. But don’t you want to see where she is coming from??? She is someone who has already been rejected by her family. Will she be able to handle another emotional break up?? If you want to really maintain peace then you need to explain her everything. You can still go ahead with your decision but not like this giving up without trying.
What Abhi did with Arohi is wrong. But what Arohi did and how she built up the entire marriage thing is right??? She stood with her family, okay but where was her concern when she was betraying her own parents be it the money or the MD course. Still nobody knows that she did not give her exams and she was cheated upon. Even after knowing all these you expect a guy to marry her??? When he knows how she treats her own sister???

Arohi from day one was wrong and Abhi’s one mistake will not right all her wrongs.

Still Abhi is wrong…..

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Manish is sensible due to age and experience. He has seen much than Birlas. The load of kids before him made more stern for life and protect grandkids against society. He will show them route this way. If he insulted Ani same like Harsh did to Ak, there is no difference..he got her home with love and care which she does not want to enter. In a way Manish made her gruha pravesh in her own house. She will stay their on her haq next. Bike ride car ride was symbolic. Both are together on it though the hurdles came out in between they change the route and come to the destination. Kv stopped him on sankranti to enter the house spoke near gate to abhi. Today Ak called him in not to get into past. Kv made him enter GV easily along with Ak. Next they all ran to Birlas and being the brother he took her there protecting her. The car ride is sooo symbolic that Bhai behn are boxed in emotions for family and closed themselves in this issue whereas Abhi is on bike openly going to destination but he is all along her side assuring her he is there througout. So Anisha gave Ak the entry into Birlas .she was not to ready to go to house from window yesterday even when he asked to come. Kv made their entry into houses through Anisha for abhira.

Precap I said in my previous post . Manjari is the Bali bakra taking wrath with tears and keeping peace.. if she opens her mouth and shows them.their place and where they are wrong she gets her respect anytime. Ak did the same to abhi now. If she is mute in Abhis antics she will be another manjari crying and samjhao later. But her taking stand this way when something is against her loved ones is commendable. She didn't disrespect him or hurt him with bad words. She just showed him where he is wrong and stopped him .this simple gesture is enough for Abhi the raging Bull to stop orelse it could have been more worse . Arohi in precap is clear. She is getting where she is wrong that her siblings are affected this way. Like we discussed yesterday they brought Arohi angle clearly to close 2 couples .unless Arohi gets repentance and releases the siblings from their guilt Manish won't say yes. That's their style of dealing situations. Ak kv waited patiently for these many years for Ar to excuse her and remove the guilt and hate. So they will wait for their love too that way. They have that patience .like expected Arohi will be the one who unites Abhira and Abhira release kaisha from kv guilt.

Originally posted by: hari15

No one changes over night specially one's anger issue. Abhi so far toned it down or more like he didn't have any reason to be angry. Ak was set in his life and he was bent on pleasing bade papa.

Now he got something to be angry for his sister. It's his sister at the end of the day.

Today their was lot of flips.

Harsh smile seeing ani was such a diamond moment. It was such a flip and his only concern was her nothing else he even forgot akshu at the moment.

Mahima anisha triggered right buttons in her. How she flipped and showed her real face of old mahima before 1 st tilak and started harsh famous dialogue eh sab uss ladhki akshara ki waja se in her own way was such a flip moment.

Aarohi won't realise might not even get into her head at least now. But whatever happens things might lead to their.

Or seeing all the kids suffering if elders come to terms finally after Manish heart attack or other problems getting solved they still will come to aarohi for her permission.

It's aarohi directly admitting her mistake or requesting a permission at the end of the day this ends with aarohi.

She is the shani everyone needs to take into account for good or bad. See even anisha fell in her eyes first. Her eyes are as dangerous as shani dev eyes.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

i feel they made kv breakup and Abhira are together so that abhira have guilt on them . That due to their impulsive decisions kv Anisha are suffering. This way all will be struggling. If ak accepted intially it would have been easy for all..as Ar is the hurdle from start they need to clear from her again . She just told I execused you and we move on in life..but her deeds she didn't accept as heavy to break others life .i feel it's interlinked..one is kept in trial another in loop in relation. So that families can think of them again .till now we don't his love story at all. It's all coming in sudden in an episode to everyone. Looks like latest woven story in force to emboss on us.

Originally posted by: Deep_deep

Tdy ani jumped into the water just cos of a rejection.. tmw it can be something else.. if you are such a weak person who cant handle a breakup, how can u trust to live a complicated stuggled life, lifelong with such a weakling? Aftr marriage, she might threatn with suicide for smthing else.. nd suppose she does that like today.. these same birlas nd abhi would kill him for that..life doesnt work that way.. kv has the responsibilty of his whole family, his great grand mothr, grandparents, siblings.. he just cant afford to resign, quit and leave his home for minor tiffs for his personal wishes as birla kids do..

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

So you mean to say I can give hopes to someone saying I love them immensely and I want to live with them forever. Suddenly, one fine day I tell them No this can’t happen since you are a Birla and are families won’t get along. I can break up my relationship when I feel it’s not gonna work out without even consulting the other person. I tell them to also forget all those feelings they have for me as it won’t work and because I am not gonna try.

Her suicidal nature is wrong. Her way of handling things is wrong. But don’t you want to see where she is coming from??? She is someone who has already been rejected by her family. Will she be able to handle another emotional break up?? If you want to really maintain peace then you need to explain her everything. You can still go ahead with your decision but not like this giving up without trying.
What Abhi did with Arohi is wrong. But what Arohi did and how she built up the entire marriage thing is right??? She stood with her family, okay but where was her concern when she was betraying her own parents be it the money or the MD course. Still nobody knows that she did not give her exams and she was cheated upon. Even after knowing all these you expect a guy to marry her??? When he knows how she treats her own sister???

Arohi from day one was wrong and Abhi’s one mistake will not right all her wrongs.

Still Abhi is wrong…..

I ddnt say ar is right.. She had manipulated the whole situation to her advantage.. but her manipulations or MD seat fiasco doesnt make abhi right.. He was wrong frm day 1 itslf.. instead of confessing his feelings and knowing aks views or how she feels, he directly went to her family.. then with the misunderstandings created by Manjeri and himself got every1 in probm.. whatever ar manipulations or intentions were, she wouldnt have been sucessful in it, if it was not for his proposal though it was under pressure.. he could hv gone for some other girl.. and not put ak in tight spot if he was genuinely concerned.. secondly what ar did is secondary and she too is at fault but atleast she was not 2timing. Even aftr being committed, he was still trying for ak nd pressurise her to accept.. if that was his intention either he should hv waited or should hv gone for some other girl other than ar.

Coming to kv, life doent go like a blueprint we made.. its always harsh and unexpected. Kv too didnt kno the future.. For him, his first and foremost priority is his sisters, he cant leave them and just go ahead with his own plans.. here he had to choose between ani and his siblings and family.. he chose his family.

Sometimes life is tough and you always dont get whatever u wish for.. if that was the case, then there wouldnt have been any heartbreaks in the world..

And the understanding part for all the fiasco, why should it always have to b ak and kv to do it?? Y cant abhi and ani too do that and sort out the issues patiently giving time. Both the birla kids wants instant result that too as per their wish.. its not a cricket match going to get a win or loss at the end of the day..

For things to work out, you need to put in effort and give sometime and work over it.. being suicidal whatever reasons behind it, cant justify it.. should be send for treatment as soon as possible or else in future there will be n number of reasons to give up and if she is sucessful in that.. then the ones who r left behind will be in prison or get killed in the hands of others.. nobody will come there and ask the justifications..or think from where she is coming from.. everybody will accuse the person who is with her and left behind.

Her parents had rejected her or her wishes.. v dont know.. its tough but at the end of the day, ani has her parents, whereas goenka kids are literally orphans with just their grandparents.. kv and ak had lost his parents twice.. thats a huge huge trauma.. so with such situations goenka kids should hv committed suicide long time bck..and also wit ar accusation of killing sirat. Suicide is never a solution or a justification for anything..

So whether its abhi, or ak or ar or kv or ani all were wrong from day1 and in the present scenario, all of them and the stand they r taking as well is right in their positions.. except abhi pulling kvs collar.. if that was the case, abhi should hv been bashed up black and blue for his deeds by the goenkas. And in any relationship both the partners have the right to go ahead and be together for life or to break up for whatever personal reasons they have. You cant force somebody to be together against their wish.. even if you are sucessful in being together in such scenarios, you will never be happy at the end of the day..