Goenkas ki barat. - Page 11

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

if we remember Ar shakes Ak in mandir for cheating her eloping with her honewala hubby and snatched her mom then Abhi too raised his voice same way against Ar that how can you insult my akshu that way when you are snatcher. When kv is held same way by Abhi Akshu put him a stop holding him the shirt. She didn't use bad words. They will go home after that it seems by removing the tears and holding hands by siblings.

It is shown that kv and Abhi are around the same age but there is a respect of relationships.

For Akshu have so much respect for kv, he even calls ak beta lot of time, so ofcourse Abhi disrespecting him is a step too far.

But meher I don't think he can behave the same way with bade papa, no matter how angry. He hate his father and caught him almost hitting manjari, imagine his anger but he didn't crossed the line... Because even if he calls him "sir", he is still his father.

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

Akshu is more strong because her weapon is patience in fighting the situations. Naira is impulsive and immature too. What she used to do was without thinking of next situations faced by family. She used to stand against family when an outsider is against for justice. Those were her tracks always shown standing for justice and truth. Goenkas had to accept. And kartik is always a family man after his marriage. He chose his famiky but when naira is wrong he used to counter her. But Nairas kids got that keeping quiet for family standing together for family. Akshu too went away for family to have peace as she can't make Ar understand. Remember kv sending her away i told that time these are Nairas kids they chose peace rather than fights. Kv is matured from the time Naira died and he knows value of people. In a way he took care of Akshu in Nairas absence much so Akshu saving her brother from wrath is right. It's clear in yesterday episode that both are on siblings side. And they can't change abhi ani in one episode or kv akshu in another episode as ulta. Those are basic traits in them it won't change anytime. It's human thing. One wants to fight against family another wants peace for family. They already have more problems if they go with one more headache their life is horrible. What Manish told is right...jab se aapka beta humari jindagi mein aya hi hum naachte jaarahe hi. That's the situation from him from start. He held his love for her that way till now and won't leave it. If he wants families to accept he should go in their way and please them instead of creating more troubles. Precap is trialer of shadi ke baad ka cinema now only. Akshu won't fight she prefers going away always that's her best way to tackle things. I am gettimg their future in head already. Kaira se 10 times hi sab mein yeh log..

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

let see if anisha opens her mouth in front of Birlas then we can discuss more on kairav

anisha is mute in birla house..is she standing fighting for kairav in front of her family that needs to be seen too

Originally posted by: DiamondLife

let see if anisha opens her mouth in front of Birlas then we can discuss more on kairav

anisha is mute in birla house..is she standing fighting for kairav in front of her family that needs to be seen too

Agree let’s see…. But I am sure someone who had to guts to confess their love will fight for it as well

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

You can’t compare Arohi and Anisha here. Arohi was not in a relationship with Abhi and neither did Abhi ever propose or told her that he likes her. He maintained that distance with her even he was about to get married with her. It was Arohi’s thirst for power and the urge to win Abhimanyu like a trophy that she blackmailed Akshara giving it the name of love. It was a one sided affair.

Here, Anisha and Kairav have reciprocated their feelings. Kairav did not deny his love I agree and I am not saying him to giving into her antics or blackmailing. I am saying knowing her impulsive nature why is he asking her to break up??? And familial clash is not a reason to break up with your love. Never!!!!

It depends on you to make them understand and try to mend the relationships. Everybody loves their family undeniably but sacrificing things which will not just affect you but someone else's life is not right.
Abhi repents his impulse decision of agreeing to marry Arohi but knowing the truth at the right moment he had the guts to face everyone and also take the blame. Is Kairav ready for it???

True ani and ar is not the same.. ar was blackmailg her sis though wrong, she had a reason for it.. ar didnt blackmail anybody else othr than ak..and she always stands with her family and respects all the others..

Coming to ani, she says she loves kv.. but which guy would be comfortable to such a manipulating and threatening girl lifelong?? If you love sombdy, u need to understand them nd in moments of crisis b patient and handle the issues with care.. she is just on a spree to attain what she wants.. rather than understandg the guilt nd hurt feeling that her bro and her family had caused to his sisters and family. I agree she doesnt know the reason behind his rejection.. so it would have been better, if she had tried to know the reason of her rejection from abhi.. atleast she had a way of sorting it out calmly.. but as abhi did.. she too took the worst step.

Just because we are committed in a relationship doesnt mean that the partners family just come and bulldoze the family members, humiliate them publicly and be a cause of hurt lifelong and still go ahead with the partner as nothing happens.. it does have its consequences.. here ani is not at fault of loving and trying to get kv but should hv understood his health conditions, his emotional turmoil and calmly searched for the reason behind his rejection and then working it out in time..

Both abhi nd ani wanted everything their way instantly or its highway which makes things worse..

Secondly though abhi didnt love ar, he is more at fault of getting commited in a relationsp without any genuine intention of keeping it straight and on top he had royally humiliated ar, left her in the mandap.. i dont think watever the reason behind is, any bro or any family would forgive such a person..

And for kv, his siblings are his responsibility and he is guardian from a very young age.. he just cant toss them off or their feelings to get love in his life.. anis bro and birla family had spoiled his siblings life. Its difficlt to forgo that and will need time.. it doesnt happn instantly like how ani or abhi wants.. all the people in the world are not selfcentred and do stuff without thinkg over the consequences of the action or without giving priority nd the deserved respect to ones own family, who stood with you life long. Ani and abhi doesnt care a damn about anybody or the consequences of their actions but everybody cant afford to do the same however hurt they themselves get in the end..

Originally posted by: Khayali_pulao

You can’t compare Arohi and Anisha here. Arohi was not in a relationship with Abhi and neither did Abhi ever propose or told her that he likes her. He maintained that distance with her even he was about to get married with her. It was Arohi’s thirst for power and the urge to win Abhimanyu like a trophy that she blackmailed Akshara giving it the name of love. It was a one sided affair.

Here, Anisha and Kairav have reciprocated their feelings. Kairav did not deny his love I agree and I am not saying him to giving into her antics or blackmailing. I am saying knowing her impulsive nature why is he asking her to break up??? And familial clash is not a reason to break up with your love. Never!!!!

It depends on you to make them understand and try to mend the relationships. Everybody loves their family undeniably but sacrificing things which will not just affect you but someone else's life is not right.
Abhi repents his impulse decision of agreeing to marry Arohi but knowing the truth at the right moment he had the guts to face everyone and also take the blame. Is Kairav ready for it???

Tdy ani jumped into the water just cos of a rejection.. tmw it can be something else.. if you are such a weak person who cant handle a breakup, how can u trust to live a complicated stuggled life, lifelong with such a weakling? Aftr marriage, she might threatn with suicide for smthing else.. nd suppose she does that like today.. these same birlas nd abhi would kill him for that..life doesnt work that way.. kv has the responsibilty of his whole family, his great grand mothr, grandparents, siblings.. he just cant afford to resign, quit and leave his home for minor tiffs for his personal wishes as birla kids do..

Originally posted by: Padm1

You mean to say they are going to turn abhimanyu more toxic than Karthik, i have heard he changed after marriage but here abhimanyu behaving like a spoilt brat from now itself, what do you think about him after marriage

Originally posted by: Nyxigniflex

Great review Grace.

You explained the Birla family dynamics so well.

I don't think they changed Abhi's character, he had been this way since day one.

He is calm and collected when things are going according to him but the moment things doesn't go according to him he loose it.

Even before the udaipur trip, we can see his impulsive nature with papa Birla.

Even when he fell in love, he went into the situation head first. He doesn't take time to think and consider. He starts flirting, offer her ride and ofcourse the song request. Everything else that follows he do it on impulse, he never thought any of those things through.

But as those things are positive, we doesn't notice that..

And Manish and Abhi, we were thinking that Abhi would stand up for ak and Manish would soften but somehow situation got from bad to worse.

Originally posted by: iheartChai

Hi Everyone!

I went to a friend's house this evening so late in responding to the thread.

My thoughts:

First, I just really enjoy Bade Papa and PR Papa conversation/taunt/arguments these veteran actors seriously are wonderful in the way they can deliver their dialogues 👏

I was with Bade Papa all the way. Say what you will about the Gonekas but they do respect their daughters and honestly as much as Abhi was afraid of what Anisha was going to say and do at the Gonekas I think she handled herself quite maturely and respectfully. She apologized and then introduced herself. I think she was acting like the Abhimanyu we saw when he first visited the Gonekas intending to ask for Akshara's rishta. He was very respectful and mature. Anisha technically wasn't in the wrong.

I think because of Abhi's own mistakes and how impulsive he knows Anisha can get his own fears are overshadowing the fact that Anisha and Kairav could potentially handle the situation better. These two probably have a more mature relationship. If this was online dating my guess is they chatted and exchanged messages first before they started to see each other in person. I don't see Kairav going into a frivolous relationship. There had to be some common ground they both agree upon and from there their relationship built. Of course the issue right now is Kairav has choose to be the peacemaker and taken himself out of the equation due to the families not getting along. He does not want to hurt Anisha but he also does not what to make matters worse for his sister.

Gonekas came to Birlas with questions and unfortunately they are met with confusion and anger. I like how Parth and Arohi spoke up and were acting like the adults in the room amongst the warring elders. They spoke sense trying to explain their side and understanding. It really does look like the only way this matter is going to get resolved is if the siblings work together to make the elders understand.

I actually believe PR Papa now when he said his favorite is Anisha. The subtle softness on his face when he saw her enter the house again despite whatever it was that made her leave in the first place was indication of that. And we have Mahima utter her first vocal word against Akshara. So now she's flipped sides. She's probably already irked with her because of Abhi leaving the hospital. I know she does show some love towards Abhi but I always feel both her and Anand only tolerate his outbursts and such because he is such a huge asset to the hospital. They care more about what he can do from them then really about him. A sort of selfish love so to speak. That is what I am finding about the Birlas. The elders are more interested in building their careers as Parth put it then about what their children need or want. So all of the children in some way probably feel isolated and unloved. As much as Abhi has his mother he knows she too will turn away from him if his father emotionally blackmails her into doing it. So he never fully has his mother and despite his anger Abhi wants to be loved by his father. He just cannot forgive whatever it is that has caused the rift in their relationship. This is why the Birla kids keep going to the Goenka kids looking for that sense of love and family.

Coming to the pre-cap:

So Kairav has learned not to remain silent and explain himself so Anisha doesn't take all the blame. He's acting maturely here. I'm just happy the writers decided to give him dialogues 😆

And Abhi gets to feel what it was like when Kairav had to listen to the things being said about his sister. Abhi as usual being impulsive went straight to being physical. Kairav as angry as he was back then he remained respectful and only clapped his hands asking the Birlas to leave.

I know many will see Abhi as immature because of his impulsiveness and that won't sit well with them because the mature doctor we were introduced to in the beginning is nowhere to be seen and instead we have an impulsive teenager. Maybe he was always suppose to be like this or because of the writing the writers have sort of made him go up and down and all around that this is now his character. So be it. If he is suppose to be impulsive then this is the expected response.

Akshara calling Abhi's name as she held onto his shirt with the lone tear was so impactful. It was a great shot especially with Arohi behind them. I am curious as to how Arohi is going to react. She's been the supportive sister to Akshara thus far but wonder if she will view this incident as a reason why Akshara and Abhi are not compatible. Or we will have the tables turn like many of us hope and Abhi will calm down and apologize and turn around and handle someone who ends up speaking ill of Akshara. Abhira showing an united front in front of both families. That they can disagree but they are still very much together.

Manish isn't going to like Abhi's outburst and it may get him into even deeper trouble which we then have another long dragged out track of what will Abhira do next. Especially if Manish ends up having a heart attack after this fight.

Okay, I'm going to go back through and read everyone's thoughts.

Originally posted by: hari15

Ridhi, meher finally I am here.

My head was running here all day long. Finally I could.

Loved the points you pointed out ridhi. Today was a dhamaka weekend episode and makers have given us home work again with a beautiful precap.

Yaar i am happy and in lalala land that my wish of Manish teaching Birla's sanskar came true. He got all the kids at his back and he will do it with the sense and respect he gives to these kids lives until these damn drama is put a full stop.

Both MANISH and HARSH rocked today.

Lot of past things and future things came together as parallels today.

Loved how Manish and Harsh gave back to each other and Manish how he held his head high with ego yet no rudeness in it.

The way he got anisha to her home was like. This is my future daughter in law and i have came to give her in the right place until the day we get her back with love, respect and care. He was even holding her hand.

Tauji the man with I don't mind attitude himself was giving killer looks to his daughter. What did this girl even do to get so much hate from her own family.

The girl who shouted out her love to outsiders and claimed rights on them all of a sudden became a mute a combination of both his grand daughters is what he must have seen in her. He even sensed it when the whole family pressurized her didn't even force anything out. Stated what she said and asked her to say it. He is Goenka's king 👑👑👑

Now all the kids will go behind his back. He has sense, respect for their kids wishes and kids always run where they can get lots of candies and Manish right now has lots and variety of candies that these kids want. But no elder gives their kids candies just like that so hey all kids join hands and work together to get candies.

Birla's famous and champion ship game is Blame game.

Anything happens in Birla's - Manjari is responsible

Bechari manjari kya kiya sirf TV drama Dhkreiyae. 🤣🤣

Anything happens in Goenka's - Akshu is responsible

The way every single kid is gathering one by one to unite and stand for their rights and right things.

Finally parth got lots of dialogue. Hey it's his sister he should show it with dialogue at least.

Aarohi was such a cutie and darling today did the right thing at the right time. Why do i sense anisha having touch time now. Aarohi is such a possesive kid. She can hurt her sister as much as she wants but not an outsider and now an outsider come claiming haq on her family ani sure triggered ar possessive and jealous side.

Abhira bike ride was such a love moment. It was a combo of both present and past. Abhira going to GV house was like these past days how they were alone in their journey now that Kv came they entered holding hands. In between journey showed their future where they will fall yet take blame on themselves. They changed their route to reach their destination.

Going to Birla house is another muaa moment. Kv taking ak their abhi still beside ak and reassuring her thought out the journey. Yaar they can't kill us with such things. My poor heart can't handle these much.

Precap :

Do makers know their are bunch of people who like cracking their precap and giving us someone dhamaka precaps like these. I loved yesterday and today precap so much.

Abhi holding kv collar. Guy showed his real side. Bade papa now will be like your son can't even act well.

Meher already said one side of story about the precap that i loved very much.

Her is my another side that i loved so much about the precap.

Abhi held kv collar.

Ak held abhi shirt with tears.

Ar is shown in between.

Makers just showed us why this thing always goes in circles without any full stop. Apart from all the love, hate, ego drama makers presented an old case that is yet to be closed in the precap.

All till this moment were looking into where they went wrong.

Like ak remembered tilak wala silence moment.

Abhi remembered 2nd tilak moment.

Ar remembered ak haldi moment and abhira confession and abhi rejection.

The biggest question again is who remembered.

Aarohi the girl who was ready for her tilak had a shagun almost in her hand that was taken away from her.

Who remembered the fact that a girl had fully decorated herself as a bride and waiting for her wedding moment.

None.

But Kairav may have remembered them. Ak life is set with abhi one day Or the other she might marry him and go to that house. Kv how can he marry a girl from the very same house his another sister was humiliated twice. And show a birla girl in front of his little sister everyday. One sister had already backstabbed her now brother too should do the same.??

Both ak and kv on one side trying to control the situation abhi on another side and ar in middle. It showed what ak and kv did in past and in present for aarohi and both the time abhi is being abhi.

Loving how they are doing the 1 st tilak drama with aarohi as a witness to it all. Even if their was no anisha and kv this problem is bound to raise one day kv and abhi would still be under each other throat and ak would have still held abhi shirt that day too.

So why ani and kv now.

Ak asked ar sorry and she excused it. No way ar will understand her mistake if it is about ak. To her ak did it out of guilt. But what guilt is kv carrying for him to let go of his love for aarohi. Yet he is still doing it because nothing is above his sisters love for him in this world. He said it first ak and ar wedding then his and he won't compromise over that for his love now right.

Let the girl get it in her head how this thing is going in circles again and again. Kv told his love out next let aarohi tell where it all started and put an end to this game.

Their again all types of tales comes at one point where aarohi head nod is needed for both the siblings now.