Originally posted by: fanktlk
I did spend a lot of time thinking why Meety accepted the challenge and i realized her insecurities and her need to be accpeted by family is the driving force. She knows Meetwa doesn't love her. He might never. That is a fact. But the fact is Meetwa is her family. Her only family today.
Dadi palat gayi. Nahi nahi karke Anubha also threw her out of the house.
Today other than Meetwa she really has no family and he has accepted her even if he thinks she is a gundi. That is a big big thing for her. Him changing his opinion for good is later but to be accepted by him.
See the dialogue she says to Babita if i win you will throw Manushi out yourself and accept our relationship however it is.
While everybody says she should focus on studies but seriously she can take a break for 10 days and then study but if she loses Meetwa she won't get him again. Sometimes we need to prioritize Family. So many women take a break from work and education then for someone who wants a home, wants to be accepted wouldn't it be obvious that she will prioritize him specially when he does. He has her back, he supports her , he takes care of her , takes a stand for her. Wants her to study , do well.
I understand.
I actually read this and through one perspective her accepting is totally illogical and through another it makes sense.
Though I would never want the story to have turned out this way, but it's ok. I will watch the parts that I like and not the things I don't. If it would start to worry me more than it should, I will stop.
But what I get that you want to convey that many of us who have so many near and dear ones may not care to go to such lengths for that one person who doesn't trust us, or is not equally invested as much as we are. But for a lonely soul like MeetH would want to hold onto that one relationship where she is at least valued much more than other relationships even if it is not equal since this is the best she got till now after her father's death. And years of loneliness might make people do that what they did not expect themselves to do ever. This is the relationship where she is not the only giver right now.
Babita should be blamed more because of her stupidity and making her son a trophy.
If I am made to stand in that place, I would never never accept that stupid challenge, never. But someone else might do.
And I guess we sometimes need to accept that different people would act differently. Real people act out of their characters many times. May be we are accepting the characters to be too ideal and act like the character we accepted them to be.
We want the society to be totally fair and equal, but it is not and we have to accept the reality. Otherwise it will be too ideal. And sometimes we have to accept that all people do not think the same way as we do and this makes us different.
I am not justifying the challenge and never will. But yes people do act this way. I hope if this time MH accepted the challenge by harming her self respect, her growth as a character is shown where she becomes stronger with time is shown. It is not always to be strongest from the start but the journey towards being strong counts too.
I am only watching the clips now because I love discussing here. But a tiny part of me also accepts the things happening as some another perspective which I don't approve of but I can't expect everyone to have same perspectives or act in the exact similar way that I wish them to or I would have in that place.
Edited by Physics_girl - 3 years ago