Everyone goes through the same.
Once the baby arrives automatically u will be able to handle the infant well. For tips , search on google. Parenting books not really required.
If baby gets ill . What to do ?? All tips on the net. With home remedies as well
I single handedly took care of my kid. Mother is old. In laws reside far.
Only first two months u might need help after that u can take care urself.
Research the online articles on baby care during pregnancy to prepare urself or parenting guide will do. Will prepare u better
To have a kid take ur time, financial needs to be strong first. The delivery and medications plus later all other necessities. Their milk and diapers are costly. Then comes education.
When u have a planned financial backup before u deliver , then u don't need to work . U can give ample of time to the baby till he or she grows.
Taking care of ur kid by urself during the early years is far better than anyone else. U can nurture the child properly and teach good values without others interference. The first four years are crucial for child growth and development. All the good values u give at that time. After four they start schooling then u can get back to ur career. And this can be done if u financially plan everything before having a kid. There's a lot of commitments there.
I let go everything for five years from pregnancy until my kid was four. Last year i joined back work but from home. Only now return to work site. But my hours are not long. I am on part time contract basis.
As mothers , a lot of time we need to give our kids especially when they are very young. It helps in the mother kid healthy relationship in future
No one can take care of a child better than the mother herself.
Take ur time . Be mentally and financially prepared first.
Thanks a lot for this dear🤗
Ya have all this in my mind...but just not prepared mentally and my best support is my husband...he never forces me for anything and respects each and every decision that I take
But ya as u said I should take care of each and everything u said...my career would be of second priority after a child comes into picture unlike now where my career is one of the most imp things of my like...I often think ki mere career ka kya hoga once I plan for a baby...what if I cannot manage both parallely...these all things run in my mind very often these days but somewhere I am prepared for a break in my career during that time