Originally posted by: maanarsh
May be...I am very bad at handling kids I mean mujhe aata nai hai...when my parents n dad vl be like ab to karlo bacha Umar nikal ri hai I ll be like Umar ka kya hai karlenge dheere dheere😆 but I m scared
Everyone goes through the same.
Once the baby arrives automatically u will be able to handle the infant well. For tips , search on google. Parenting books not really required.
If baby gets ill . What to do ?? All tips on the net. With home remedies as well
I single handedly took care of my kid. Mother is old. In laws reside far.
Only first two months u might need help after that u can take care urself.
Research the online articles on baby care during pregnancy to prepare urself or parenting guide will do. Will prepare u better
To have a kid take ur time, financial needs to be strong first. The delivery and medications plus later all other necessities. Their milk and diapers are costly. Then comes education.
When u have a planned financial backup before u deliver , then u don't need to work . U can give ample of time to the baby till he or she grows.
Taking care of ur kid by urself during the early years is far better than anyone else. U can nurture the child properly and teach good values without others interference. The first four years are crucial for child growth and development. All the good values u give at that time. After four they start schooling then u can get back to ur career. And this can be done if u financially plan everything before having a kid. There's a lot of commitments there.
I let go everything for five years from pregnancy until my kid was four. Last year i joined back work but from home. Only now return to work site. But my hours are not long. I am on part time contract basis.
As mothers , a lot of time we need to give our kids especially when they are very young. It helps in the mother kid healthy relationship in future
No one can take care of a child better than the mother herself.
Take ur time . Be mentally and financially prepared first.