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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Pain-in-ur-Neck


I didn't want to get involved but can't help it.


I am not sure if you're affected or not, but everytime I log in there's a set of people always targeting you because of your blocking spree.


Anyhow, I do feel you should take it up to the mods if you feel being constantly targeted.


And for clarification to others, if any of yours posts disappear or mods decide to take any action, it's me who has reported some of the posts from last couple of pages cuz it came off as borderline bullying to me.


I wish members would look for entertainment in actors than targeting members.


Thanks I usually don't go to the mods and just keep hoping that atleast some will show maturity. I noticed the nonsense posts but was avoiding addressing them, why give fuel to the fire. There was a reason I blocked some of them and they continue to give validation.


Initially it started between FF and me and we nonchalantly had 1-2 comments and were done with it. Then with SK initially it was all fine and games but she also took it way over. The rest of them don't need worth taking about.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: hotchoco

If you want to block 30 people, stay far away from them. Don’t keep quoting them and reacting to their posts and desperately trying to interact with them but still keeping an upper hand. Stop needlessly provoking people.

It’s called simple courtesy and maturity.

Instead comes the victimization.
The sheer audacity of it all. How very Rational. 🤣

You could have totally quoted me but I guess it's hard to speak directly huh?


Maturity would be to stop being petty and move on. One person blocked certain some. Booohoooo big deal. Feature is available and he used it. I don't see the point of whining and crying why he did it. That's like crying over using the like button or quote button or any features available on the forum.

If one is being bullied, then yes he or she is a victim. I don't think I would laugh over it. But then again that's how bullying gets justified. So carry on.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Yes, this is so rich.


Provoke people by telling them you blocked them because they write “nonsense” just because they don’t agree with you.


Keep quoting them & reacting to their posts.


When people react to your stench, cry the victim and complain.

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Posted: 3 years ago

@Zeal: Let's hear it from Zeal. Do you feel bullied? 😆 I have no problem backing off and minding my own business if he does. I sure as hell don't come here to "bully" people.


But these are some of the questions y'all might wanna consider before crying foul.


What is Zeal doing in a thread created by someone he's blocked? Common sense tells me that you don't want anything to do with someone you've blocked.

Why does he quote people he's blocked again and again?

Is there any obligation to interact with people or engage with them in any way at all if you are at a point where you feel the need to block them? I don't think so. So why does he continue to foist himself in between conversations where the participants are mostly people he's blocked?


22 people he has blocked don't have the obligation to make him feel "welcome," especially when he takes digs at them while hanging around them without actually talking to them.

Not everyone wants to deal with the awkwardness and neither do they care to accommodate him cuz they owe him nothing. He is not that important for everyone to go out of their way to "target." It's really no brainer.


The bleeding hearts coming out of the woodwork now to give their post mortem analysis don't know the full story so I'm not gonna bother interacting with them or make a case for myself with them.


If zeal, himself, says he feels bullied, I am more than happy to refrain from making any comment on him or interact with him at all. It's not that hard.

Edited by SmittenKitten - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: hotchoco

If you want to block 30 people, stay far away from them. Don’t keep quoting them and reacting to their posts and desperately trying to interact with them but still keeping an upper hand. Stop needlessly provoking people.

It’s called simple courtesy and maturity.

Instead comes the victimization.
The sheer audacity of it all. How very Rational. 🤣


Then they keep editing their posts and report others 😂

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Pain-in-ur-Neck


I have seen it happen a few times. I just didn't want to get involved for I am not as active here.

But I can't help but speak up when I feel it's gone way beyond and I think it has now. Zeal can fight his own battle but as a bystander I unfortunately can't keep mum.


All they have been trying to do is mocking and make me feel shallow of blocking them. The things they have been saying none of those are the reasons what I did and post blocking I'm not even doing what they are implying. But let them believe in whatever they think.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Zeal17


Thanks I usually don't go to the mods and just keep hoping that atleast some will show maturity. I noticed the nonsense posts but was avoiding addressing them, why give fuel to the fire. There was a reason I blocked some of them and they continue to give validation.


Initially it started between FF and me and we nonchalantly had 1-2 comments and were done with it. Then with SK initially it was all fine and games but she also took it way over. The rest of them don't need worth taking about.


Didn't read the entire thread cuz it's too long lol.

I know FF personally ofc. And I also know she isn't the kind to indulge or even encourage bullying. She does joke around which she may have (haven't read her posts on this thread). But the last couple of pages didn't sit well with me when I have seen it happen a few times.


I understand ignoring and not giving them validation but it also at times gives them encouragement to carry on with their hideous behavior. So I would definitely speak up when it goes beyond the threshold so people can at least try to self- reflect if they even have an ounce of maturity.


Yes we all get carried away at times. But such consistent nonsense shouldn't be tolerated. Anyhow, I have said what I needed to cuz it bothered me. Hope mods will look into it and even hoping others will self-reflect.

Edited by Pain-in-ur-Neck - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: SmittenKitten

He is not that important for everyone to go out of their way to "target." It's really no brainer.




If he isn't a important may be not discuss him?

And where is the rule that you can't participate on a thread created by someone he has blocked. He can post whenever he like regardless of the block status.


And we are adults here, I think we should know when enough is enough. Someone doesn't have to come out and say "Yes I feel bullied". I am even surprised such consistent mocking isn't as obvious. But then again why would it be when you find entertainment in such mocking right?

Edited by Pain-in-ur-Neck - 3 years ago
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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: Pain-in-ur-Neck

You could have totally quoted me but I guess it's hard to speak directly huh?


Maturity would be to stop being petty and move on. One person blocked certain some. Booohoooo big deal. Feature is available and he used it. I don't see the point of whining and crying why he did it. That's like crying over using the like button or quote button or any features available on the forum.

If one is being bullied, then yes he or she is a victim. I don't think I would laugh over it. But then again that's how bullying gets justified. So carry on.

I don’t interact with the #Justice4SSR types so my one and only comment to you since you wanted to be quoted.

Nobody cares about being blocked. The issue is this person keeps on quoting and reacting again and again to people he’s blocked when they can’t do the same. It’s a forceful way of getting the last word even though they've been told multiple times to cut it out.
Stay away from the people you’ve blocked. It’s as simple as that. If that common courtesy had been followed, there would have been no issue.
And for the those carrying false illusions, SmittenKitten and Fingerfetish did not consider it fun and games. Your perception of people is lacking.

Stop provoking people and then there won’t be any need to act victimized.

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Posted: 3 years ago

Originally posted by: hotchoco

I don’t interact with the #Justice4SSR types so my one and only comment to you since you wanted to be quoted.


Even I don't have any intention to interact with those who want to laugh over a matter of bullying. Quoted you since your post was an indirect reply to mine.


I'll take #Justicr4SSR for types over a tag of a #Bully! Thanks!

Edited by Pain-in-ur-Neck - 3 years ago

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