Abhimanyu/Harshad AT#4- Tujhe chaahoon betahasha Zehnaseeb - Page 44

Okayy,

I've no idea if this has already been discussed in the forum or somewhere else, but since I finally got around to seeing yesterday's episode, I'd like to ask a few things..

I could really appreciate how, even though Akshu has confessed her love, Abhi's heart hasn't calmed down completely. He's still worried she might walk out. How repeatedly, he kept saying that thinking about the family is good, but we're not wrong. The flashback was quite meaningful, because we saw all his insecurities coming back. He held her hand so as to never let go, because what if his heart breaks again...

It saddens me that these two had to go through all this. I wish Akshara had someone to confide in, who could have told her that what she was putting herself through, what she was putting Abhi through, it was all wrong. Kairav could have been that, but I have no words for him.

Anyway, so the point is, the whole : hum shaadi kar lete hai, does it fit well in this circumstances? Should they go ahead with the shaadi and then sort out the differences? Or, is it better if we get a talk before all of this? I'm worried the makers won't ever let them have a talk, where Akshu tells him everything. And I mean, everything. Because, if not now, somewhere in the future, it will come up again and cause differences...

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Anu, I don't blame you. We have become equally hopeless as Abhimanyu.

Haan sachi.. In dreamland always

Originally posted by: sheet_leher

Okayy,

I've no idea if this has already been discussed in the forum or somewhere else, but since I finally got around to seeing yesterday's episode, I'd like to ask a few things..

I could really appreciate how, even though Akshu has confessed her love, Abhi's heart hasn't calmed down completely. He's still worried she might walk out. How repeatedly, he kept saying that thinking about the family is good, but we're not wrong. The flashback was quite meaningful, because we saw all his insecurities coming back. He held her hand so as to never let go, because what if his heart breaks again...

It saddens me that these two had to go through all this. I wish Akshara had someone to confide in, who could have told her that what she was putting herself through, what she was putting Abhi through, it was all wrong. Kairav could have been that, but I have no words for him.

Anyway, so the point is, the whole : hum shaadi kar lete hai, does it fit well in this circumstances? Should they go ahead with the shaadi and then sort out the differences? Or, is it better if we get a talk before all of this? I'm worried the makers won't ever let them have a talk, where Akshu tells him everything. And I mean, everything. Because, if not now, somewhere in the future, it will come up again and cause differences...

Oehle to Akshara will have to stop being so selfless.. She treats herself as the last priority of her list.. And Abhimanyu bhi us list me 3rd position pe he after Arohi and family.. Jab tak ye priority list shuffle hoke Abhimanyu and herself dont come to the top, aisa hi hoga.. Abhimanyu ki insecurity is justified.. He knows she may not go against family.. Tabhi to hath nahi chod raha

Originally posted by: sheet_leher

Okayy,

I've no idea if this has already been discussed in the forum or somewhere else, but since I finally got around to seeing yesterday's episode, I'd like to ask a few things..

I could really appreciate how, even though Akshu has confessed her love, Abhi's heart hasn't calmed down completely. He's still worried she might walk out. How repeatedly, he kept saying that thinking about the family is good, but we're not wrong. The flashback was quite meaningful, because we saw all his insecurities coming back. He held her hand so as to never let go, because what if his heart breaks again...

It saddens me that these two had to go through all this. I wish Akshara had someone to confide in, who could have told her that what she was putting herself through, what she was putting Abhi through, it was all wrong. Kairav could have been that, but I have no words for him.

Anyway, so the point is, the whole : hum shaadi kar lete hai, does it fit well in this circumstances? Should they go ahead with the shaadi and then sort out the differences? Or, is it better if we get a talk before all of this? I'm worried the makers won't ever let them have a talk, where Akshu tells him everything. And I mean, everything. Because, if not now, somewhere in the future, it will come up again and cause differences...

I think Abhimanyu does not trust how Akshara is going to react if the family comes. He is sure if the family comes she will take a complete U turn.

Also remember in his anger he went directly to her room to meet her. But he did not pester her for too long instead gave her about an hour to meet at a park --- neutral ground. Because under her family roof he knew she will be unreachable to him.

He calls her in a park just like they were supposed to meet after the Tilak fiasco. And he coaxed her to make the confession. Just like the last two times she confessed only when his life was in danger this time also she did the same thing.

She said I will not be able to live if something happens to you coz I love you.

This time the difference is that he is not unconscious and he is not drunk. After the camp fire Ak was ready to confess it was in her body language she wanted to meet him. But we know how things turned out.

Shaadi in the temple fits exactly well for the lovers.

But I feel the families will arrive and Akshara will confess in front of everyone. This was needed because of what happens at the Tilak.

And a girl like Akshara to declare her love, in front of both the families. To come up to Abhimanyu and confess about what her heart truly wants and desires is an even bigger achievement than getting married.

For Abhimanyu this will be more than enough. Will the wedding happen I dont know but I am sure they will do Puja together.

It doesn't look like wedding will happen, but yes puja would be performed.

From the promo and that hug it looks like she backed out and was convincing him with promises and they agreed not to get married.

It would be better though as the guilt would haunt their relationship if they do.

I think it would be repeat of tilak, everyone blaming Abhi and ak staying quiet but don't think he would beg her to speak this time. He looked done with them and their nonsense when he was walking down the temple steps.

But ofcourse, this time she chooses him and you're so right it's better.

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

I think Abhimanyu does not trust how Akshara is going to react if the family comes. He is sure if the family comes she will take a complete U turn.

Also remember in his anger he went directly to her room to meet her. But he did not pester her for too long instead gave her about an hour to meet at a park --- neutral ground. Because under her family roof he knew she will be unreachable to him.

He calls her in a park just like they were supposed to meet after the Tilak fiasco. And he coaxed her to make the confession. Just like the last two times she confessed only when his life was in danger this time also she did the same thing.

She said I will not be able to live if something happens to you coz I love you.

This time the difference is that he is not unconscious and he is not drunk. After the camp fire Ak was ready to confess it was in her body language she wanted to meet him. But we know how things turned out.

Shaadi in the temple fits exactly well for the lovers.

But I feel the families will arrive and Akshara will confess in front of everyone. This was needed because of what happens at the Tilak.

And a girl like Akshara to declare her love, in front of both the families. To come up to Abhimanyu and confess about what her heart truly wants and desires is an even bigger achievement than getting married.

For Abhimanyu this will be more than enough. Will the wedding happen I dont know but I am sure they will do Puja together.

Originally posted by: anuandavi

Good morning gals.. I totally forgot it is Sunday.. And subah uthke was waiting for the episode.. 🙈🙈🙈

Originally posted by: Mehersudha

very well said Mini. Keeping all faults of who is wrong and who is responsible for all the mess, Abhis insecurity is to be answered by Ak..so promo is right her Confession infront of all. He is always scared whether she backs away for family when they arrive..it's like how she wanted after first tilak , now it's coming to him..marriage can be done later but he wanted her on his side..who am I in your life, what's my purpose to be with you is answered perfectly by her that way. Whatever be the consequences next, they should be together to fight for their said love orelse it's waste to stay there..he is not interested to marry Arohi anytime so it's not big deal for him to say sorry and go. He messed up by confessing in public so he called her private now. Ak will do.the same now and stand for him. Families might be angry for dragging this way at the sake of Arohis humiliation but they will agree slowly..

Well, we are here to watch a series. what is the purpose? If there are no twists, no troubles, no excitement, no ups n downs in the lives of the character what are we doing here.

Oh holi hai- lets wear clothes n dance prepare food n serve.

oh! shaadi hai lets wear lehenga and dance

Oh baby shower lets sing n dance

Oh! diwali- lets ....

Is this the purpose?

YRKKH is trying to evolve with time.

AK 0.1 story was about arranged marriage of a 20yrs old girl.

Naira was a story of a 20yrs old falling in love n getting married.

Ak 0.2 is a story of a girl who does not want to get married but falls in love with a doctor who is absolutely smitten by her beyond any reason.

She has a family that she loves beyond any reason.

She has a sister whom she treats like her life's only promise.

She is a born social worker an empath who cant see anyone in trouble.

She is an empath!!!

This story so much more richer, has so much of depth.

And thats one big reason this story has been given the foundation of Shiv-Parvati.

Because such love does not come to everyone. You have to be deserving to find this kind of devotion in a man for a girl.

If you have never experience this kind of kindness it maybe hard to understand. But even many beautiful books can give the feel of this love.

Love at first sight, Age difference, instant connection they happen for people all around us.

okay I stop here. 😆

Originally posted by: Illuminatus.

Well, we are here to watch a series. what is the purpose? If there are no twists, no troubles, no excitement, no ups n downs in the lives of the character what are we doing here.

Oh holi hai- lets wear clothes n dance prepare food n serve.

oh! shaadi hai lets were lehenga and dance

Oh baby shower lets sing n dance

Oh! diwali- lets ....

Is this the purpose?

YRKKH is trying to evolve with time.

AK 0.1 story was about arranged marriage of a 20yrs old girl.

Naira was a story of a 20yrs old falling in love n getting married.

Ak 0.2 is a story of a girl who does not want to get married but falls in love with a doctor who is absolutely smitten by her beyond any reason.

She has a family that she loves beyond any reason.

She has a sister whom she treats like her life's only promise.

She is a born social worker an empath who cant see anyone in trouble.

She is an empath.

This story so much more richer, has so much of depth.

And thats one big reason this story has been given the foundation of Shiv-Parvati.

Because such love does not come to everyone. You have to be deserving to find this kind of devotion in a man for a girl.

If you have never experience this kind of kindness it maybe hard to understand. But even many beautiful books can give the feel of this love.

Love at frist sight, Age difference, instant connection they happen for people all around us.

okay I stop here. 😆

Originally posted by: anuandavi

Oehle to Akshara will have to stop being so selfless.. She treats herself as the last priority of her list.. And Abhimanyu bhi us list me 3rd position pe he after Arohi and family.. Jab tak ye priority list shuffle hoke Abhimanyu and herself dont come to the top, aisa hi hoga.. Abhimanyu ki insecurity is justified.. He knows she may not go against family.. Tabhi to hath nahi chod raha

Akshara has a long way to go. Prioritising one self over family is not a crime, it doesn't diminish your love for them. Yeh usko samajhna hoga. That's why we all keep saying, they need therapy. They need an outsider, and impartial judge to sit with them and make them see each other's pov.

This tyaag thing for family is very common, we all do it at some level. Always for the greater good, for the peace of family. But amidst all this, we can't lose oneself, can we?