Dr Ali....the mentor we all need!

I think people who have read my posts on this forum know that Abhay is my fav character and I am deeply hurt these days by whatever I am seeing onscreen but I don't think I have mentioned this that Dr. Ali has been growing on me and today he has become my 2nd fav character :)

Deepika has many strengths but according to me she isn't a great mentor. A great mentor is someone who has the ability to distinguish and identify the strengths different people possess and help them work on it (directly or indirectly) so that they become the better version of themselves...all this while being neutral and in turn unaffected by the process. This trait is wonderfully exhibited by Dr. Ali from the start of Dhadkan....whether its how he has handled Piroz all this while, whether its the way he dissected Wasim and in turn Sia or whether its the unique way he held the competition for the team leader (I loved how he created dummy situations with the timer thingy!)...we see his approach is different but its something with a lasting impression on the interns.

He seems way more sorted, intuitive and experienced in life (might have seen a lot of shit) than Deepika and Vikrant who are probably ace doctors but are unable to keep the balance between their professional and personal life...the result is bad, biased and uneven experiences for their junior residents!

There are many people who can be top individual performers but are bad teachers - even if their intentions are in the right place (which I know isn't the case here) they struggle to impart the lessons needed to be successful people. Dr. Ali reminds me of those people, who probably isn't busy winning laurels and isn't the chief's favorite, but is the one who unabashedly and generously imparts life lessons...helping his interns figure this thing called life while they are busy becoming surgeons.

Like he said today...."Yeh Duniya itni bhi achi nahi hai...ro do yaar". Rulake ya haasake, yeh banda in logon ko bohut kuch sikha ke jaana wala hai and this is what you want in your leader and your boss and why Dr. Ali will be cherished ❤️

I agree completely!!

In fact with the whole Sia thing, i think he is actually pretending so that Sia understands stuff and gets more mature.

He is a wonderful mentor to all three!

I'm waiting to see the rest of it

Wonderful post.

The qualities that imbibed in Dr Ali makes him an ideal mentor that anybody could ask for. He has a sharp sense to read people's mind and ability to see through their true personalities/ flaws and strong sides. He is not judgmental, not favoring anybody , equally taking care of juniors and bringing out best in them which I failed to see in both D and V.

This is interesting to see how things get unfold with Ali-sia and I hope he would not take advantage of sia instead give her the reality check and a life lesson.

I think apart from Ali, dr shetty (In cardio)is also a god doctor and there is a good scope in exploring that character aslo.

Originally posted by: Sanjanas

I think people who have read my posts on this forum know that Abhay is my fav character and I am deeply hurt these days by whatever I am seeing onscreen but I don't think I have mentioned this that Dr. Ali has been growing on me and today he has become my 2nd fav character :)

Deepika has many strengths but according to me she isn't a great mentor. A great mentor is someone who has the ability to distinguish and identify the strengths different people possess and help them work on it (directly or indirectly) so that they become the better version of themselves...all this while being neutral and in turn unaffected by the process. This trait is wonderfully exhibited by Dr. Ali from the start of Dhadkan....whether its how he has handled Piroz all this while, whether its the way he dissected Wasim and in turn Sia or whether its the unique way he held the competition for the team leader (I loved how he created dummy situations with the timer thingy!)...we see his approach is different but its something with a lasting impression on the interns.

He seems way more sorted, intuitive and experienced in life (might have seen a lot of shit) than Deepika and Vikrant who are probably ace doctors but are unable to keep the balance between their professional and personal life...the result is bad, biased and uneven experiences for their junior residents!

There are many people who can be top individual performers but are bad teachers - even if their intentions are in the right place (which I know isn't the case here) they struggle to impart the lessons needed to be successful people. Dr. Ali reminds me of those people, who probably isn't busy winning laurels and isn't the chief's favorite, but is the one who unabashedly and generously imparts life lessons...helping his interns figure this thing called life while they are busy becoming surgeons.

Like he said today...."Yeh Duniya itni bhi achi nahi hai...ro do yaar". Rulake ya haasake, yeh banda in logon ko bohut kuch sikha ke jaana wala hai and this is what you want in your leader and your boss and why Dr. Ali will be cherished ❤️

when did he say that? To whom?

Originally posted by: RatiPandey615

I agree completely!!

In fact with the whole Sia thing, i think he is actually pretending so that Sia understands stuff and gets more mature.

He is a wonderful mentor to all three!

Can't say how they will take this track but I am certain Dr Ali will be the lesson Sia needs to get her life back on track.

Originally posted by: Serenity_me

Wonderful post.

Thank you @Serenity_me 😊

This is interesting to see how things get unfold with Ali-sia and I hope he would not take advantage of sia instead give her the reality check and a life lesson.
As I said his ways are different so not sure how conventional his approach will be but it will definitely bring Sia on the right track....sometimes lessons have to be tough and unfair and this might be one such lesson for Sia.

I think apart from Ali, dr shetty (In cardio)is also a god doctor and there is a good scope in exploring that character aslo.

I had high hopes too when Abhay joined his team but the way he couldn't fight it out in front of Vikrant burst my bubble....I hope we see him in a different light soon! With the three main leads losing their plot, my only hope are these parallel characters who have equal scope and depth with stories, if etched out well, are enough to keep me hooked!!

Originally posted by: rouble_lover

when did he say that? To whom?

In the OT, to the baby 😊

You are absolutely correct. Dr. Ali is that person who can make a person bring to the correct path without insulting or making it obvious. The way he handles Dr. Piroz, Dr. Sia and Dr. Ansari is truly commendable.

I hope they don't sabotage his character- so far he is very balanced. Not sure how the Sia thing will unfold?